Rule 9: Assume That The Person You Are Listening To Might Know Something You Don’t

Rule 9: Assume That The Person You Are Listening To Might Know Something You Don’t

In 12 Rules for Life, Rule #9 is “Assume That The Person You Are Listening To Might Know Something You Don’t.” What does this mean? How should you behave so that you believe the other person knows something you don’t? In essence, Jordan Peterson’s Rule 9 instructs you to go into every conversation believing that you have something to learn. Let the other person talk. Don’t just spend your time waiting to respond – actually listen. We’ll cover 12 Rules for Life‘s Rule 9 in much more detail below.

Rule 3: Make Friends With People Who Want The Best For You

Rule 3: Make Friends With People Who Want The Best For You

In 12 Rules for Life, Rule #3 is “Make Friends With People Who Want The Best For You.” What does this mean? Why would you ever friends with people who don’t want the best for you? Life isn’t that simple. Sometimes you attract friends who want to bring you down. Sometimes you find it hard to let go of friends you’ve had for a long time. Learn how to surround yourself with better friends who really care about you.

Law 14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy (48 Laws of Power)

Law 14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy (48 Laws of Power)

Overview of Law #14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy Collecting information through spying is essential to wielding power. When you know your opponent’s secrets, you can predict his behavior and control him. You can enlist spies to gather intelligence for you, but it’s better to be a spy yourself. Adopt a friendly manner and you’ll get people to spill their plans and weaknesses. Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy.

Nike and Onitsuka’s Painful Relationship (Shoe Dog)

Nike and Onitsuka’s Painful Relationship (Shoe Dog)

Before Nike, Phil Knight started his shoe career selling imported shoes from the Japanese company Onitsuka, not by manufacturing his own. He sold his first shoes at track meets out of the trunk of his car, and their design and quality become a hit. Over time, frictions with the Japanese company over distribution rights, slow shipments, and creating new shoe designs forced him to found Nike. If they’d kept their partnership amiable, Phil might have kept working with Onitsuka, and Nike might never have happened. Learn the history of Nike and Onitsuka’s painful business relationship, from the beginning of Nike.