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Success Is Dependent on Effort, Not Talent or Luck

What do you think is more important when it comes to success—talent or effort? What role does inborn talent play in achievement? It was previously thought that many highly successful people were child prodigies or people born with natural talent and intelligence. However, Angela Duckworth, the author of Grit, dispels that myth and says that the most important trait that will lead you to success is grit— the combination of passion and purpose. Here is why success is dependent on effort, and less so—on talent or luck.

Maxwell Maltz: How to Improve Your Self-Image

What exactly is self-image? What can you do to improve your self-image and get closer to the type of person you want to be—your ideal self? Your self-image defines who you are, how you express yourself, and how you act in any given situation. To improve your self-image, you first need to think about the type of person you want to be. Next, you need to replace your negative thoughts and feelings about yourself with positive ones. In this article, you’ll learn how to improve your self-image and program your mind for success.

Predicting Success: Effort Beats Talent

Is purposeful effort really more important than natural-born talent? Why is our society so focused on talent? Is attributing success to talent just an excuse for underachievement? People tend to idolize talent and credit success to natural ability rather than hard work and perseverance. However, Angela Duckworth, the author of Grit, says that effort beats talent when it comes to predicting success. Here is why effort is more important than talent or luck.

How to Make an Entrance at a Singles Event

Do you want to make an entrance at a singles event? How can you make an impression when you enter a room? In her book The Fine Art of Small Talk, Debra Fine takes some time to discuss communication in the dating scene. Specifically, she suggests looking at singles events as a networking opportunity. Here’s how you can make an entrance at an event.

Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Quotes by T. Harv Eker

Are you looking for Secrets of the Millionaire Mind quotes by T. Harv Eker? What are some of the most noteworthy passages worth revisiting? In his book Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, author T. Harv Eker argues that the key difference between the (self-made) rich and the poor boils down to mentality. Specifically, he says that the way you have been conditioned to think about money in your childhood is the reason why you are where you are money-wise. Below is a selection of Secrets of the Millionaire Mind quotes by T. Harv Eker.

Debra Fine: How to Improve Your Conversation Skills

Do you want to improve your conversation skills? What are some things you should avoid doing in a conversation? In her book The Fine Art of Small Talk, author Debra Fine identifies three pitfalls that you should avoid. They are making the conversation all about you, carrying the conversation alone, and assuming that you know best. Here’s how you can improve your conversational skills, according to Debra Fine.

Financial Setpoint: Why the Poor Stay Poor

Why Socioeconomic Status and Depression Are Linked

What is the financial setpoint? Why do the poor stay poor and the rich stay rich? One of the main reasons poor people stay poor is because they lack money management skills. Even when a huge sum of money lands in their lap (e.g. through lottery or inheritance), people often end up broke within a few years. According to T. Harv Eker, the author of Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, the reason for this is their “financial setpoint.” Keep reading to learn how one’s financial setpoint—the amount of money they feel they can comfortably manage—keep poor people poor and rich

The Importance of Clarifying Your Values

Clarifying Your Values: How Do You Want to Live

Why is clarifying your values important? What is the problem with having too many values? Clarifying your values will ensure you have a blueprint to serve as a guide when taking risks and making tough decisions. You should settle on just two values. It will be difficult for you to commit when you have too many values. They will only become meaningless feel-good words. Read on to learn more about the importance of having clear personal values.

How to Communicate Effectively in 11 Steps

How can you communicate effectively? What are the steps to resolving conflict amicably? You master how to communicate effectively when you learn to be a good listener and approach each conversation with curiosity, rather than going into every conversation certain that you are right. Effective communication is also crucial to conflict resolution. You resolve conflicts by creating an environment where both parties can openly communicate their needs and feelings, before proposing a solution that makes everyone happy. Read on to master how to communicate effectively.