When Should You Have a Baby? Depends on Your Body

When Should You Have a Baby? Depends on Your Body

When should you have a baby? Should it be sooner rather than later? Everyone’s decision regarding if and when they want to start a family is different. But Meg Jay, the author of The Defining Decade, advises that everyone should be aware of their body’s limitations, and plan accordingly. Read more about what this means, and how to answer the question “when should you have a baby” for yourself.

Focus on What You Can Control, Accept What You Can’t

Focus on What You Can Control, Accept What You Can’t

What do you do when things don’t go your way? Do you ruminate about the what-ifs or do you focus on what you can control? When life throws curveballs, many people get stuck in the dysfunctional patterns of thinking, ruminating about what happened, and imagining what would be if things turned out differently. But focusing on the things you can’t change wastes your energy and demoralizes the spirit. Instead, accept what is and focus on what you can control. Here is how to reorient your thinking to focus on what you can control.

The Obamas: Moving Out of the White House

The Obamas: Moving Out of the White House

Where did the Obama family go after they moved out of the White House? Are they happy to be out or do they miss it? Moving out of the White House was difficult for the Obama family, especially since Malia and Sasha basically grew up there. But it was bittersweet because moving out of the White House also meant regaining their freedom. Continue on to learn how the Obamas dealt with moving out of the White House.

Sexual Symbolism in Literature: Encoded and Explicit

Think and Grow Rich: Sexual Transmutation Demystified

What do encoded and explicit sex symbolize in literature? Why is it important to look beyond sex when reading literature? In literature, sex and sexuality are used symbolically in two different ways: encoded sex and explicit sex. Encoded sex means the author uses symbolic imagery to imply sex in a scene, but the reader never sees the sexual act take place. Explicit sex is when the author uses a sex scene to symbolize a larger theme in the story.  Continue reading for more information on what sex symbolizes in literature.

Michelle Learns About Barack Obama’s Heritage

Michelle Learns About Barack Obama’s Heritage

In what ways were Michelle and Barack Obama’s upbringings different? Why did Barack move around a lot as a child? Michelle Obama’s childhood was stable and focused around family and education. On the contrary, Barack had a mixed heritage, lived in Hawaii and Indonesia, and had loose ties with his family. Continue reading to learn more about Barack Obama’s heritage and how it differed from Michelle’s.

Irony in How to Read Literature Like a Professor

Irony in How to Read Literature Like a Professor

Why does irony change everything when it comes to literature? What are the different kinds of irony? If there is a disconnect between your expectation of a story and the reality of how it plays out, it is most likely ironic. The three most common types of irony in literature are verbal irony, ironic mode, and dramatic irony. Continue on to learn more about irony from How to Read Literature Like a Professor.

Radical Acceptance: Not for Destructive Behaviors

Radical Acceptance: Not for Destructive Behaviors

Does accepting yourself mean accepting your destructive behaviors as part of who you are? What does Radical Acceptance say about facing your failures? There are many misconceptions about Radical Acceptance. Radical Acceptance is about freeing yourself from judgment, so many take that as permission to continue harmful behaviors. However, Radical Acceptance teaches you that it’s impossible to change yourself without first knowing yourself.  Continue reading to learn why Radical Acceptance is not an excuse to continue destructive behaviors.