Psychology Archives

Why Eye Contact and Smiles Matter in Conversation

Is it a good idea to smile at strangers? Does smiling make people instinctively like you? What about eye contact? They say that smiling makes people like you, but it’s not exactly so—it depends on how you smile. People are put off by quick smiles because they interpret them as impersonal. Another behavior that puts people off is a lack of eye contact because it’s interpreted as discomfort or distraction. Keep reading to learn how your eye contact and smile influence others’ impressions of you.

Simon Sinek on Oxytocin: The Leadership Chemical

What exactly is oxytocin? What role does oxytocin play in leadership? Oxytocin controls feelings of trust, empathy, and bonding. According to management theorist Simon Sinek, oxytocin is the glue that holds a team together. However, oxytocin takes time to build. For this reason, as a leader, be patient and consistently prioritize your subordinates’ needs: You’ll prove yourself trustworthy over time and your subordinates will start innovating and collaborating. Read about the role of oxytocin in leadership.

Why Traveling Is Important: 10 Proven Reasons

Why is traveling so important? Can taking time to travel actually boost your career? What are the health benefits of traveling? When you travel, it’s much more than a vacation. Traveling can make you happier, make you grow as a person, improve job performance, and so much more. But sadly, so many people just don’t do it. Here’s why traveling is important and how it can change your life.

Eckhart Tolle: How the Ego Gives Rise to the Self

What exactly is the ego? How does the ego give rise to one’s self? According to Eckhart Tolle, “ego” is the part of your mind that comments, doubts, and speculates on everything. The ego is driven by fear of being nothing, which it tries to alleviate through identification with material, thought, and emotional elements, giving rise to what you think of as your “self.” Here’s how spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle explains the concept of the ego and how it gives rise to the self and identity.

How to Be a Good Human Being & Why It’s Not Enough

Are you afraid you don’t know how to be a good human being? Why is being good not enough? Being a good person is more than just being helpful and kind to others. As stated in his book Relentless, Tim Grover thinks that in the context of improving yourself, being good doesn’t cut it—you have to be great or unstoppable. Nonetheless, it’s important to learn how to be a good human being to improve. Here’s what Grover defines as “good,” and why you shouldn’t stop there.

The 3 Elements of Self: Who Are You Really?

What exactly is the self? Where does our sense of self come from? According to Eckhart Tolle, the self arises as a result of the ego’s attempt to eliminate its fear of being nothing by collecting and identifying with material, thought, and emotional elements. Gaining elements alleviates the fear of being nothing because it gives the ego an identity—something to call “me,” “mine,” and “my story.” These elements and our social standing form the mental image most people conjure up when they think of the “self.” In this article, we’ll explore the elements of self and how they relate

The Big Difference Between Good and Great People

What is the difference between good and great people? How do they handle pressure and fears differently? In essence, good people are rarely ever relentless, whereas great people can be relentless, but only under certain conditions. In Relentless, Tim Grover defines people into three categories by how they act: the “Good,” the “Great,” and the “Unstoppable.” In this article, we’ll look at the first two categories of people, the Good and the Great, and discover the differences between them.

Eckhart Tolle: Connecting With Your Inner Self

What exactly is the inner self? How do you connect to your inner self? According to Eckhart Tolle, your inner self is pure conscious energy. Connecting with your inner self, rather than the false self-image created by the ego, is the key to achieving a state of perpetual mindfulness. When we’re connected with our inner self, we’re always in a state of mindfulness. Here’s how spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle explains the elusive concept of the inner self and why realizing it is the ultimate purpose of human life.

How to Make a Good First Impression Every Time

How do you make a good first impression? What role does body language play in people’s first impressions of you? To make a positive first impression, you must pay attention to your body language and the nonverbal signals you’re emitting. Even before you had the chance to open your mouth, people have already formed an impression of you based on your facial expressions and the way you move. Keep reading to learn how to make a good first impression, according to communications expert Leil Lowndes.

Empowering Relationship Advice for Women

Are you trying to improve your relationship? What’s the best relationship advice for women to take to heart? Relationships can be difficult, especially when men don’t always express what they want or need. There are also high societal expectations for the role women should fill in a relationship. These issues can be solved by following the best relationship advice for women who want to satisfy both themselves and their partners. Let’s look at relationship advice for women that promotes a happy, healthy relationship.