Embrace Separateness: Put Individual Growth First

Embrace Separateness: Put Individual Growth First

In what way is separateness a healthy aspect of relationships? Is growth as a couple more important than growth as individuals? In The Road Less Traveled, psychiatrist M. Scott Peck argues that couples should embrace separateness. It’s a myth that love prioritizes growth as a couple. In reality, love puts growth as individuals first. Only then does true growth occur. Continue reading to learn about the value of separateness.

Daniel Pink: The Psychology of Intrinsic Motivation

Daniel Pink: The Psychology of Intrinsic Motivation

What is intrinsic motivation? How does the intrinsic drive compare to extrinsic rewards when it comes to performance? Intrinsic motivation is a desire to do something for internal satisfaction, not for external rewards. External rewards (e.g. financial compensation) enhance performance in the short term, while intrinsic motivation is more enduring—it doesn’t decay as external rewards do. In this article, we’ll look at the psychology of intrinsic motivation, and the role of intrinsic rewards in performance enhancement.

To Support Change, Modify Your Environment

To Support Change, Modify Your Environment

What environments support change? How can routines and spaces be modified to make change easier? If you want to effect change, you should support change by creating an environment that smoothes the path. A change-supporting environment makes it harder to do the “old thing” and easier to do the “new thing.” Keep reading to learn how to support change by modifying your environment.

An Appeal to Emotion Can Make Your Message Stick

An Appeal to Emotion Can Make Your Message Stick

How can you effectively communicate your idea by including an appeal to emotion? How can you get people to care about your message? If you want people to hear your message and do something about it, you have to get them to care. An appeal to emotion—making people feel something—is key to making messages stick. Keep reading to learn effective ways to make an appeal to emotion.

Cognitive Shortcuts: The Dangers of Speed Thinking

Cognitive Shortcuts: The Dangers of Speed Thinking

What are cognitive shortcuts? What role do they play in survival? What are the dangers inherent in shortcut thinking? Our brains have developed shortcuts of thinking that allow us to react quickly and decisively to threats. Unfortunately, these shortcuts often lead us to believe many things without fully thinking them through. As a result, our views of the world are often based on misunderstandings and biases we unwittingly hold. We’ll consider a few of these misunderstandings and biases below.

Embrace Grace: How to Be Open Without Seeking

Embrace Grace: How to Be Open Without Seeking

How do you embrace grace? What happens when you do? Psychiatrist M. Scott Peck, in his book The Road Less Traveled, explains that it is important to embrace grace along the path of your spiritual evolution. Grace isn’t something you can search for, but it’s something you should prepare yourself to receive. When it arrives, it brings meaning to every part of your life. Keep reading to learn how to embrace grace.

The 3 Barriers to Spiritual Evolution: Overcome Them

The 3 Barriers to Spiritual Evolution: Overcome Them

What gets in the way of spiritual evolution? How can you overcome these obstacles? According to psychiatrist M. Scott Peck, the purpose of life is spiritual evolution. In The Road Less Traveled, he identifies three forces that get in the way: laziness, evil, and the suffering of awareness. An understanding of these obstacles can help you overcome them. Keep reading to learn about these roadblocks to spiritual evolution.