Benjamin Hardy’s 5 Tips for Achieving Goals

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Do you keep falling off track with your goals? How do you keep pushing when the going gets tough? The key to achieving any goal in life is to intentionally choose behaviors that contribute to your desired outcome. This means doing things that feel hard and uncomfortable in the short term but that pay off in the long term. With this in mind, here are a few tips for achieving goals.

4 Tips for Effective Communication: The Bezos Blueprint

4 Tips for Effective Communication: The Bezos Blueprint

How do Amazon employees pitch product ideas? Should you use slides when you present? How can you respect your audience’s precious time? In The Bezos Blueprint, business communication expert Carmine Gallo explains how to improve your communication by internalizing the principles that Amazon founder Jeff Bezos uses in his writing and speaking. We’ve organized these principles into four practical tips for effective communication. Keep reading if you’re ready to become a better communicator in both writing and speech.

IFS Unblending: What It Is and How to Do It

IFS Unblending: What It Is and How to Do It

What exactly is “unblending” in the IFS? What is the purpose of the unblending technique? Unblending is a key concept in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems (IFS) model. The purpose of unblending is to unblend (that is, unfuse) your core Self from the parts that have taken over and reclaim control. Keep reading to learn about IFS unblending and how to practice it.

Richard Schwartz: What Is IFS Self-Leadership?

Richard Schwartz: What Is IFS Self-Leadership?

What exactly is self-leadership in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems model? How does one cultivate the virtue of self-leadership? The ultimate goal of IFS is to embody what Richard Schwartz calls “self-leadership.” Self-leadership is the state of mind characterized by calmness, curiosity, and a sense of control during challenging situations. Keep reading to learn about IFS self-leadership and its implications.

How to Stop Sabotaging Yourself: The Top 4 Strategies

How to Stop Sabotaging Yourself: The Top 4 Strategies

Do you want to know how to stop sabotaging yourself? What skills do you need to overcome self-sabotage? Everyone has the potential to become the person they want to be. What’s blocking you is the self-sabotaging narratives you tell yourself about what you can and cannot do. With this in mind, here’s how to stop sabotaging yourself by reframing self-limiting narratives.

How to Improve Physical Health and Live Longer

How to Improve Physical Health and Live Longer

Are you disappointed with your physical health? Do you want to live a happier and healthier lifestyle? Practicing diet and exercise is typical advice for taking care of your health, but it’s so much more than that. Improving physical wellness also means getting enough sleep, properly handling stress, and keeping a positive attitude to motivate you on your journey. Keep reading to learn how to improve physical health with expert advice.

Can You Change Your Personality? Here’s What Science Says

Can You Change Your Personality? Here’s What Science Says

Can you change your personality? To what extent is one’s personality malleable? According to psychologist Benjamin Hardy, science shows that your personality is not fixed and that you can change it. Studies consistently demonstrate that personality traits change over the course of your life. While he contends that your past influences your personality, it doesn’t fully determine it.  Here’s why personality isn’t permanent, according to Hardy.

I Thought It Was Just Me by Brené Brown: Overview

I Thought It Was Just Me by Brené Brown: Overview

What is I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t) by Brené Brown about? What are the main takeaways of the book? Allowing shame to control our thoughts and feelings wreaks havoc on our health and happiness. In I Thought It Was Just Me, Brené Brown contends that to live a happy, empowered life you must combat shame by practicing empathy toward yourself and others. Read below for a brief overview of I Thought It Was Just Me by Brené Brown.

How to Change Your Personality & Become Your Optimal Self

How to Change Your Personality & Become Your Optimal Self

How can you change your personality? Is personality change even possible? According to psychologist Benjamin Hardy, personality change is not easy, but it’s possible—contrary to what most people believe. The first step, he says, is to envision and decide who you want to become. Next, you must structure your life in accordance with that vision. With this in mind, here’s how to change your personality, according to Hardy.