Psychology Archives

Ryan Holiday: How to Let Go of Ego

The 25 Cognitive Biases: The Kruger Effect

What exactly is an ego? How does having an inflated ego distort your perception of yourself and others? According to Ryan Holiday, the author of Ego Is the Enemy, ego is an unhealthy belief in one’s own importance that distorts our perception of the world so that we see ourselves as central figures and see everyone else as either subservient or oppositional. Further, he argues that seeing the world this way causes a host of adverse consequences such as difficulty accomplishing things (because ego causes us to overestimate our abilities) and connecting with people. In this article, we’ll discuss Holiday’s advice

The Role of Attitude in Conflict Resolution

How do you approach conflict? Are you the kind of person who resolves conflicts peacefully or drags them out? Your attitude in conflictual situations plays a crucial role in the final outcomes. According to the Arbinger Institute—a leading consultant in conflict resolution, mindset change, and leadership training since 1979—a person who finds themselves in constant conflict embodies what they call a “combative mindset”—a conflict attitude characterized by self-focused viewpoints that lead them to worsen conflict instead of cooperating to resolve it. In this article, we’ll examine the combative mindset, how it makes conflict worse, and the biases that lead people

Tony Robbins: Emotions (and How to Master Them)

How can you master your emotions the Tony Robbins way? What are some healthy ways to process emotions? In Awaken the Giant Within, Tony Robbins offers some techniques for processing your emotions and mastering them. Learning how to interpret, understand, and control your emotions can help you to improve your relationships, mindset, and responses to difficult situations. Keep reading for Tony Robbins’ emotions advice.

Tony Robbins: Personal Rules for Empowerment

What are Tony Robbins’ personal rules? How can having effective personal rules improve your life? According to Tony Robbins, personal rules are the guidelines that decide if you’ve reached your values. For example, you may have a rule that you need a certain amount of money in the bank to feel that you’ve fulfilled your value of security. Creating effective and powerful empowering personal rules will allow you to feel more positive emotions in your daily life. Keep reading for more on Tony Robbins’ personal rules.

Why Sexual Equality Doesn’t Apply to Sex

Think and Grow Rich: Sexual Transmutation Demystified

Are egalitarianism and sexual desire mutually exclusive? How do they contradict each other? How can we foster sexual equality when the act of sex itself is a power play? According to Esther Perel, the author of Mating in Captivity, egalitarianism and sexual desire are inherently at odds with each other. Egalitarianism is all about fairness and respect, while sexual desire is driven by aggression and power play. However, this doesn’t mean that egalitarianism and desire have to be a balancing act. Here’s what couples therapist Esther Perel has to say about sexual equality.

Causes of Interpersonal Conflict: Why Do We Fight?

What do you think causes interpersonal conflict at a high level? What makes trivial conflicts escalate into full-blown arguments? We all struggle with conflicts, both on a smaller scale—in our businesses and families—and on a grand scale—politically and intergovernmentally. Of course, the causes of interpersonal conflict are varied and wide-ranging. At a high level, however, many of them can all be boiled down to our inability to recognize and acknowledge that we are part of the problem. In this article, we’ll discuss what causes conflict, according to a leading consultant in conflict resolution the Arbinger Institute.

Brené Brown: The 3 Aspects of Wholehearted Living

What are the three aspects of Brené Brown’s wholehearted living program? Why are love, belonging, and vulnerability essential to living wholeheartedly? In Brené Brown’s lecture The Power of Vulnerability, she discusses the three aspects of wholehearted living: love, belonging, and vulnerability. To Brené Brown, love removes the pressure of adhering to cultural and societal demands, belonging is the desire to be a part of something larger than ourselves, and vulnerability is the willingness to share your authentic self, no matter the consequences. Continue reading to learn about the three aspects of Brené Brown’s wholehearted living.

Tony Robbins and Positive Thinking: 5 Techniques to Try

What are the best of Tony Robbins’ positive thinking techniques? How can positive thinking transform your mindset, mood, and behavior? You possess the power to radically transform your life for the better through positive thinking. With certain tools, you can control your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to have an empowering mindset. Tony Robbins’ positive thinking techniques can help you transform your life for the better. Learn more about Tony Robbins’ positive thinking techniques below.

The Coddling of the American Mind: 3 Untruths

What are the 3 untruths in The Coddling of the American Mind? What two big impacts do these untruths have in colleges? In the book The Coddling of the American Mind, there are 3 untruths among college students today: the untruth of fragility, the untruth of emotional reasoning, and the untruth of us versus them. The book’s authors claim that these 3 untruths have two very serious consequences for college students. Keep reading for details about the 3 untruths in The Coddling of the American Mind.

How to Naturally Lower Your Risk of Depression

6 Common Signs You Are Suppressing Your Emotions

How common is depression? What are its main causes? What are some things you can do to lower your risk of falling into a depressive episode? Seven percent of the population suffers from at least one depressive episode each year, but the definitive cause is still unknown. You can somewhat lower your risk of depression by eating healthy and exercising regularly. Here is how to lower your risk of depression naturally.