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What does it mean to be nice? Is it important to be nice to others? According to Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura, we’re raised to believe that it’s important to be nice. Parents, teachers, and other adults consistently remind children to be polite and follow the rules, but Gazipura claims it’s not about being good at all. Keep reading to learn the true reason why people act nice.
What’s the problem with being nice? Can you be too nice to people? Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura says that being nice isn’t about being good. He explains that niceness stems from a fear of rejection that makes people be nicer than they should. Continue reading to learn why you should be less nice.
Should you stop being too nice? What happens when you stop being nice? According to Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura, when you stop being nice, your life transforms. You gain the freedom to be your true self without shame, guilt, or fear. Here’s how to stop being too nice so you can live a fulfilling life.
Why do people read fiction? What do audiences want writers to give them? If you’re a writer of fiction or an aspiring story writer, it’s important that you know what readers are looking for when they pick up a story to read. They want to feel something, and they want to understand life better. Continue reading to learn about these two elements that fiction readers hope to find in each story.
How can your story’s theme inspire you as you write? At what point in the writing process should you select a theme? A good story is more than just a series of events. A story should be about something, and you develop that element as the story unfolds. We’ve put together several insights and pieces of advice from story-writing experts Stephen King, Rob Biesenbach, Lisa Cron, Joseph Campbell, and Robert McKee. Read more to learn how to write the theme of a story in a way that inspires you as well as your readers.
What are the benefits of female networking? How can women build a business network? How Women Rise by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith explains that women tend to excel at building social networks but may struggle to make effective use of them. This is because using contacts to advance their careers and asking others for help makes women feel manipulative and selfish. Continue reading to learn why women need to take advantage of networking, and how they can make connections.
How do you set healthy boundaries? What type of boundaries do you want to set? Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura says that your internal feelings (your likes, dislikes, opinions, and intuition) inform your boundaries. Therefore, establishing boundaries begins with knowing yourself better, starting with what you want. Learn how to set healthy boundaries and prioritize your own wants and needs.
What do you want to be sure to include in every story you write? What are the essential ingredients that help make a story coherent and compelling? According to storytelling experts, readers want two things: an emotional impact and a truth about life. If you want to satisfy these desires, the experts agree that your story needs three basic elements: a realistic and relatable protagonist, a goal that’s blocked by obstacles, and a big-picture theme. Continue reading to find out what the experts have to say about each of these basic elements of a story.
What does it mean to “write what you know”? Do you make the most of serendipity? Before you can sit down and write a story, you have to figure out what to write about. Coming up with story ideas can be hard. But, ideas are out there; you just need to know where they can be found and be sure to notice them. We’ve collected tips from several storytelling experts on how to find story ideas. Read on to get advice from Rob Biesenbach, Stephen King, and Elizabeth Gilbert.
Are you afraid of being your authentic self? How can you speak your mind without fear? There’s never a bad time to be your authentic self, one who speaks your mind. According to Not Nice by Aziz Gazipura, people avoid speaking their minds for several reasons we’ll get into below. Let’s look at how to speak your mind without fear.