Losing a Parent: The One Silver Lining

Losing a Parent: The One Silver Lining

Losing a parent is one of the most devastating things that can happen to a child. But, once the initial, most acute grieving subsides, is it possible that losing a parent can make a child stronger? We’ll cover the theory of “desirable difficulties” and look at why it may not be a coincidence that some of the most successful people in history lost a parent when they were young.

Law 46: Never Appear Too Perfect (48 Laws of Power)

Law 46: Never Appear Too Perfect (48 Laws of Power)

Overview of Law #46: Never Appear Too Perfect Your talents and achievements will generate envy. The envious will work quietly against you. To forestall or mitigate envy, admit to a flaw or weakness, emphasize the role of luck, or downplay your talents. Envy is extremely dangerous — recognize it and don’t let it escalate. This is why you should never appear too perfect.

Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect (48 Laws of Power)

Law 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect (48 Laws of Power)

Overview of Law #44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect Use the mirroring technique to control people. When you mirror opponents’ actions, doing as they do, they can’t figure out your strategy. Seduce people by mirroring their emotions and interests; create the illusion that you share their values. Few can resist when you reflect their deepest needs and desires.