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Who was Sergeant Lee Ye-ram? What difference is her short life—and awful death—making?

The tragic case of South Korean Air Force Sergeant Lee Ye-ram exposed deep flaws in the military’s treatment of women and handling of sexual assault allegations. Her story highlights the urgent need for systemic reform to protect servicewomen and uphold accountability.

Continue reading for a summary of Stephanie Soo’s discussion of Lee Ye-ram in an episode of her podcast Rotten Mango.

Sergeant Lee Ye-ram’s Story

The tragic story of South Korean Air Force Sergeant Lee Ye-ram reveals severe systemic issues within the South Korean military culture. After enduring sexual assault and 81 agonizing days seeking justice, Ye-ram took her own life.  

Despite Ye-ram’s dedication as a disciplined service member, she faced challenges navigating the military’s strict hierarchy. Her accomplishments meant less than her rank and gender. The coercive culture was epitomized by after-hours work dinners, which Ye-ram attended despite her night duties. This underscores the expectations placed on female officers.

The assault occurred after one such dinner honoring a business venture unrelated to the Air Force. On the ride back, Senior Officer Jang persistently made unwanted advances despite Ye-ram’s clear refusal. His behavior was recorded on the vehicle’s audio system. Texts to her fiancé reveal the pressure Ye-ram felt to conform. 

Although Ye-ram courageously reported the incident and sought help, she met skepticism. The military requested a lie detector test and neglected to promptly investigate the recordings. This reaction exposes deeper institutional failures in addressing sexual violence.

In the aftermath, Ye-ram’s mental health deteriorated, leading to extended leave. She later faced isolation and labeling as troublesome. Public outcry after her death sparked further investigation and minor sanctions for Jang. But, for Ye-ram’s loved ones, the ripple effects prove profound.

Her brother penned a tribute song with friends, encapsulating personal messages from her father and mother, who expressed enduring love and hopes to reunite in another life. Stephanie Soo shared deep admiration for Ye-ram’s commitment to service, conveying her as the embodiment of national ideals. While urging self-care, Soo advocated systemic reform to protect servicewomen. Ye-ram’s tragic story underscores the need for change.


The heartrending case of Sergeant Lee Ye-ram exposed deep-rooted gender inequality within South Korea’s strict military hierarchy. This structure has perpetuated disparities and an environment where sexual harassment and assault persist. Ye-ram’s tragic suicide spotlights the military’s systemic failures in addressing sexual violence.

Recent events have illuminated the difficulties victims face in seeking justice and support. Ye-ram’s experience shows not only the physical trauma but also the mental health toll endured, exacerbated by isolation and institutional deficiencies. Her death underscores the urgent need for military culture reform and robust mental health services.

This case highlights themes of gender discrimination, unaddressed sexual violence, mental health impacts, family bonds, and national mourning. Reforming military culture and addressing gender imbalances is crucial moving forward. Additionally, supporting assault victims while increasing accountability is desperately needed.  

Ye-ram’s death has sparked public outrage and demands for military reform aimed at tackling gender inequality and improving sexual assault responses. Her tragic case serves as an impetus to address these systemic shortcomings.

More Perspectives

While the South Korean military undoubtedly has systemic issues that enabled Sergeant Lee Ye-ram’s sexual assault, it is important not to view these problems as unique to South Korea. Sexual violence persists across global military institutions, pointing to deeper structural failures in addressing power imbalances, toxic masculinity, and inadequate accountability. 

Also, although individual acts of sexual misconduct should be fully investigated and condemned, blame should not fall on an entire military culture based on isolated incidents. The inappropriate actions of a few individuals should not eclipse the professionalism of the vast majority of service members. It is vital to address the specific perpetrators and enablers rather than generalizing about an institution as a whole.

To effectively tackle military sexual assault, the approach must expand beyond criticizing any single culture. Comprehensive solutions should include robust reporting procedures, victim support systems, consent and respect training, and fair accountability processes that respect the rights of both victims and accused. Recognizing that these challenges stem from broad societal issues around gender and power allows us to create safer environments for all service members.

The late sergeant Lee Ye-ram was sentenced to nine years in prison

Late Air Force Sergeant Ye-Ram Lee, who was complaining of sexual harassment, made an extreme choice, the trial for the perpetrator continued. The sentence is lower than the prosecution’s request, and the charges of threatening retaliation against the victim were not recognized, and the bereaved family strongly opposed it.

South Korea’s Military Needs Bold Reforms

South Korea’s Changing Military. South Korea’s armed forces are shrinking. To offset the military’s dwindling supply of soldiers, the country is reforming its forces to accommodate a necessary reduction from a 599,000-strong force to a size of 522,000 troops by 2022. This figure includes both conscripts and volunteer forces.

South Korean Military Struggles to Root Out Sexual Assaults

Oct. 15, 2021 SEOUL — The soldiers were driving back to the South Korean air force base after dinner and drinks on March 2. In the back seat was Master Sgt. Lee Ye-ram.

Sergeant Lee Ye-ram: Stephanie Soo Discusses the Tragic Story

Elizabeth Whitworth

Elizabeth has a lifelong love of books. She devours nonfiction, especially in the areas of history, theology, and philosophy. A switch to audiobooks has kindled her enjoyment of well-narrated fiction, particularly Victorian and early 20th-century works. She appreciates idea-driven books—and a classic murder mystery now and then. Elizabeth has a blog and is writing a book about the beginning and the end of suffering.

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