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Advice From the Way of the Superior Man—David Deida

What does it mean to become a “superior man,” according to David Deida? What advice does the book on learning to be yourself? In The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, he gives advice on how to live authentically and follow your purpose. Deida rebels against the traditional views of masculinity and says that it’s okay for men to admit fear, accept and give love, seek purpose, and more. Keep reading for a brief overview of how to live with authenticity and purpose from The Way of the Superior Man.

The 7 Signs You Are Dating a “Nice Guy”

What is dating a “nice guy” like? Are self-proclaimed “nice guys” actually as nice as they say they are? According to Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, many men who claim they are “Nice Guys” are actually far from nice. Glover’s conception of a Nice Guy doesn’t refer to someone who is kind and genuine, but someone who is insecure, people-pleasing, manipulative, and repressed. Keep reading to find out if you’re dating a nice guy.

The History of Human Sexuality: The Standard Narrative

Why do the authors of Sex at Dawn say the standard narrative of the history of human sexuality is incorrect? What do the authors claim is the standard narrative? Do other scientists agree? In their book Sex at Dawn, Ryan and Jethá argue against the standard narrative of the history of human sexuality. They begin their argument by laying out the supposed standard narrative in preparation to refute it. However, some scientists claim that what Ryan and Jethá are using is actually the cultural narrative. Keep reading for Ryan and Jethá’s version of the standard narrative of the history of

Why Male Friendships Are So Important for Men

Why are male friendships so important? Why do men sometimes struggle to form friendships? What are some great tips that can help? Everyone needs friends—in fact, research has shown that friendships (or a lack of them) affect our physical and mental well-being. For men, building friendships can be difficult, which can lead to loneliness, mental health problems, and an unfair dependence on romantic partners. Keep reading for the ultimate guide to male friendships, including why they’re important, why men struggle to form them, and some tips for men who are struggling.

How to End a Toxic Relationship in 5 Steps

Do you want to know how to end a toxic relationship? What empowering steps do you need to take to prepare yourself? Deciding that it’s time to end a toxic relationship is hard in itself—but how can you follow through with it? The key is to prepare and empower yourself beforehand by finding a network of supportive people and reminding yourself why the relationship isn’t working. Here’s how to end a toxic relationship in five steps.

Codependent Caretaking: Signs to Look Out For

What is a codependent caretaker? How can you tell if you are one? Sometimes, actions that seem generous and kind can actually be insidious. Genuinely caring for someone is not the same thing as caretaking, which is defined as giving care to others with your own needs in mind. From there, it’s a slippery slope towards codependent caretaking. Learn more about codependent caretaking and why it happens below.

Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last? The Surprising Answer

Why do nice guys finish last? Are so-called nice guys actually as nice as they say they are? The phrase “nice guys finish last” is often used to describe the fact that women seemingly say they go for “nice guys” but actually go for jerks. However, Dr. Robert Glover looks at this phrase in a different way, showing that so-called “Nice Guys” are often not-so-nice at all. Here’s another way of answering the question “why do nice guys finish last?”

The Best (and Worst) Books on Dating

Looking for the best books on dating and relationship advice? Which books best fit your needs, and which ones should you avoid? Books about dating have been around for ages, and the advice changes with the societal and cultural changes that happen over time. So, with the abundance of material out there, it can be difficult to know which book is right for you. This is why we put together this list of the best books on dating. We separated our list into three categories: the best books for couples, books about psychology and communication, and books for the tough

How to Practice Mindfulness in Relationships

Why is it important to be present in a relationship? How can a lack of presence sabotage your relationship? When you are not present in a relationship, it’s very easy to misconstrue actions and situations and become reactionary, even explosive. Sooner or later, your lack of presence will poison the relationship to the point where it can no longer be mended. Practicing mindfulness in relationships is a two-step process: 1) first, accept yourself, and 2) second, foster non-judgmental communication with your partner. We’ll discuss both of these principles below.

10 Signs He Is Not a Nice Guy (Even if He Says He Is)

What are the signs he is not actually a nice guy, even if he thinks and says that he is? How can you spot this deceptive nice guy? In his book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover explains the frustrating—and often manipulative—Nice Guy mindset. According to Glover, a not-so-nice-guy is someone who might claim to be nice, but in reality, they are fueled by fear, insecurity, and external validation. He lists the key signs that he is actually not a nice guy like he says he is. Below are the ten tell-tale signs he is not a nice guy.