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Do you often feel stressed and/or anxious? What exactly is stress, and how is it different from anxiety? Many people use stress and anxiety interchangeably, but they actually stem from different places. You feel stressed when there’s more on your plate than you can handle. You feel anxious when you don’t have control over your future. Keep reading to learn about the difference between stress versus anxiety.
What lies do women tell men? Why do women lie to men in the first place? According to Rollo Tomassi, the author of The Rational Male, there are three lies women tell men: 1) men are privileged, 2) women are mysterious, and 3) women like nice guys. He argues that women tell these lies to dominate men as part of the “feminine agenda.” Let’s examine each lie in turn along with the underlying truth, according to Tomassi.
Are you holding yourself back from reaching your full potential? Do you know you could do so much more with your life, but you just can’t break through a certain threshold? Many people regularly engage in behaviors that they know are holding them back, yet they can’t seem to help themselves. If this sounds like you, you likely have some deep-seated self-limiting beliefs. Because these beliefs are so deeply embedded in your psyche, you don’t even notice how they are holding you back, preventing you from living up to your full potential. Here are three signs that you are holding
Can psychotherapy address low self-esteem? What role does self-esteem play in mental health? According to psychotherapist and self-esteem expert Nathaniel Branden, self-esteem should be the main goal of psychotherapy. In his book The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, he asserts that low self-esteem is the underlying cause of many psychological issues and explains how psychotherapists could modify their practices so that they can improve their clients’ self-esteem. Here’s how self-esteem therapy can be an untapped solution to many mental health problems, according to Branden.
What is the best therapy for trauma? Do you want to try a more traditional approach or something more unconventional? There are many ways to resolve your trauma symptoms in therapy. In his book It Didn’t Start With You, Mark Wolynn talks about two different methods of conducting trauma-based therapy: language-based approach and psychedelic-assisted therapy. Keep reading to learn about the best therapy for healing trauma, according to Mark Wolynn.
Why do we self-sabotage? In other words, why do we make decisions that prevent us from living our best life? According to Gay Hendricks, the author of The Big Leap, self-sabotage ensues when we reach what he calls the “Upper Limit Problem”—the maximum amount of success and happiness we are comfortable with experiencing. Once we reach that threshold, we will self-sabotage by making unwise decisions in order to return to the comfortable baseline. Here’s why we self-sabotage and how to stop doing it once and for all.
What do women want in men? Do women really like “bad guys”? There’s not one concrete answer to what women expect from men when they’re dating or in a relationship. According to Rollo Tomassi, the author of The Rational Male, women are drawn to guys who act rude and are full of themselves. Robert Glover, on the other hand, says that women aren’t attracted to those types of men. Check out the debate between Tomassi and Glover on what women really want in a man.
Is one’s self-esteem the result of internal or external factors? What role does culture play in self-esteem? Although self-esteem starts with your own behavior, external factors still play a role. According to psychotherapist and self-esteem expert Nathaniel Branden, one of the major external factors influencing self-esteem is the culture where you grew up. Keep reading to learn how cultures affect the self-esteem of their members—and how cultural values that support or discourage self-esteem affect the overall health of societies.
What is Mark Wolynn’s book It Didn’t Start With You about? What is the key message to take away from the book? It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn is an exploration of the trauma you could develop from your family during childhood. He links psychology and biology to explain how generational trauma develops and presents his language-based approach to uncovering and healing inherited trauma. Here’s a brief overview of It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn.
Why do we sabotage our romantic relationships? What are some of the most common self-sabotaging behaviors in relationships? According to psychologist Gay Hendricks, we’re not evolutionarily built for deep, loving relationships—we’re evolved to meet basic needs and reproduce. This means that we naturally feel uncomfortable when we experience intensely positive emotions in relationships. As a result, we often subconsciously sabotage our romantic relationships by picking fights, keeping a score, and perpetuating dysfunctional communication patterns. Here’s why we sabotage our most important relationships and how to put an end to this cycle.