Addressing Child Misbehavior: Logic vs Emotion

Addressing Child Misbehavior: Logic vs Emotion

What is the best way to address child misbehavior problems? What can you do to help your child calm down and approach the situation from the place of reason as opposed to emotion? Most child misbehavior problems can be attributed to their inability to self-regulate emotionally. When a child is in the midst of an emotional takeover, they are not capable of processing your reasoning. Therefore, the only way to address the problem is to connect with emotions, and only then, redirect to logic. Here is a helpful strategy to help you address child misbehavior problems.

Qualities of a Good Negotiator: It’s All About the Heart

A Guide to Developing Effective Negotiation Strategies

What are the qualities of a good negotiator? What do successful negotiators do differently from those that are merely mediocre? The qualities of a good negotiator are all related to emotional intelligence and understanding your counterpart’s desires and fears. Negotiation is more about the heart than the mind. Keep reading for more about the qualities of a good negotiator.

Kin Selection: The Danger of Putting Family First

Kin Selection: The Danger of Putting Family First

What is kin selection? How does kin selection disadvantage some family members and prioritize others? Kin selection is a situation in nature where some relatives allow themselves to be put at a disadvantage for the benefit of others. When there are limited resources, they have to be divided between parents and children and between mates. Read more about kin selection and how it works.

Emotions in Decision Making: A Double-Edged Sword

Emotions in Decision Making: A Double-Edged Sword

What is the role of emotions in decision making? How much weight should you give your emotions in making the final choice? When it comes decision-making, emotions are like a double-edged sword. They can guide you towards an optimal path forward, but they can also warp your perspective and obscure it even further. Keep reading for more about emotions in decision making.

Child’s Tantrums: Ignore, Command, or Connect?

Child’s Tantrums: Ignore, Command, or Connect?

What is the best way to respond to your child’s tantrums? Should you ignore them? Command your child to obey? Although conventional wisdom tells parents to ignore their child’s tantrums to avoid encouraging the bad behavior, that approach doesn’t help with long-term resolution. Instead, connect with your child emotionally and brainstorm the solution together. Read about how to handle your child’s tantrums using the connect-and-redirect strategy.

Robert Axelrod: The Prisoner’s Dilemma Simulation

Robert Axelrod: The Prisoner’s Dilemma Simulation

Who is Robert Axelrod? How does his simulation of the Prisoner’s dilemma explain survival tactics in nature? Robert Axelrod created a tournament in which programmers designed a program to respond to the Prisoner’s Dilemma. The lessons learned showed how species might balance cooperation and competition to reach an Evolutionarily Stable Strategy. Read more about Robert Axelrod and the application of the Prisoner’s Dilemma to evolution.

Emotional Self-Control: Think Before You Act

Emotional Self-Control: Think Before You Act

What is emotional self-control? Is it a matter of temperament? Or can you improve it through practice? Emotional self-control is the ability to manage difficult emotions, thoughts, and impulses, preventing them from spilling over into your behavior. In other words, it is the ability to think before you act. Read more about emotional self-control and what you can do to develop it.