Emotional Decision-Making: Why It’s a Risky Undertaking

Emotional Decision-Making: Why It’s a Risky Undertaking

What role should emotions play in decision-making? How can you mitigate their influence? In Solve for Happy, Mo Gawdat argues that emotional decision-making is dangerous. He recommends that you put your reason in the driver’s seat, and he shares advice on how you can keep your emotions from getting in the way of your decisions. Continue reading to learn Gawdat’s argument and recommendations.

What Is Your True Self? Exploring the Deepest Level of You

What Is Your True Self? Exploring the Deepest Level of You

What is your true self? Is there something to intuition? How do you trust yourself? Martha Beck argues that, at your deepest level of self, you know what will make you happy and what kind of life you want to lead. You also know how you feel and what is true about your own life. This deepest level of self is your personal nature. Continue reading to learn more about Beck’s theory of identity.

Stoic Negative Visualization: Learning to Want What You Have

Stoic Negative Visualization: Learning to Want What You Have

What’s Stoic negative visualization? How can it actually make you happier? You can develop a Stoic practice by following six basic techniques derived from ancient philosophy. The first technique is negative visualization. Considering that Stoicism aims to offer a path toward joy, this practice is counterintuitive. But, it works. Continue reading to learn what Stoic negative visualization is and see how you can use this technique to appreciate more, handle disappointments better, and even grieve with less pain.

Faulty Assumptions: How Predictions & Stereotypes Cause Harm

Faulty Assumptions: How Predictions & Stereotypes Cause Harm

How can it be dangerous to make assumptions? Why should you be careful when making predictions? Why are stereotypes harmful? In Solve for Happy, Mo Gawdat discusses several weaknesses (or “blind spots,“ as he calls them) that can cause you to be unhappy. Some of these are faulty assumptions that can take the form of predictions or stereotypes. Read more to understand why you make faulty assumptions and learn how you can mitigate them.

Martha Beck: The Way of Integrity (Book Overview & Takeaways)

Martha Beck: The Way of Integrity (Book Overview & Takeaways)

Do you feel like you’re living out of sync with who you truly are? Who are you, deep down? What do you really want out of life? A book by Martha Beck, The Way of Integrity, is a guide to living in alignment with your true self. Beck argues that, deep down, you know who you want to be and what you want to do with your life. She contends that the greatest source of chronic misery is living out of alignment with these wants. Keep reading for an overview of this book and understand Beck’s solution to chronic unhappiness.

Stoicism: Control What You Can, & Don’t Sweat Everything Else

Stoicism: Control What You Can, & Don’t Sweat Everything Else

Do you worry more than you need to? Do you set yourself up for disappointment? In his book A Guide to the Good Life, philosophy professor William B. Irvine discusses a major tenet of Stoicism: Control what you can, and don’t worry about anything else. By doing this, you also control your happiness. Don’t give up that joy by stressing about what’s beyond your control. Learn how this Stoic practice works, and discover how you can put it to work for you.

Don’t Let People Bring You Down or Rile You Up: Act Like a Stoic

Don’t Let People Bring You Down or Rile You Up: Act Like a Stoic

How much do you let other people affect your mood and behavior? How can you minimize their impact on you? If you could get advice from an ancient Stoic philosopher, you’d hear this: Don’t let people bring you down or rile you up. Philosophy professor William B. Irvine explains how to avoid negative people, be patient and forgiving toward others, handle insults with maturity, and never display anger. Keep reading for this practical advice from ancient philosophy.

Is Fear Good? No—You Must Confront It & Send It Packing

Is Fear Good? No—You Must Confront It & Send It Packing

Is fear good? Does it serve a positive purpose? If not, how can you get rid of fear? According to Mo Gawdat, fear is useless and just gets in the way of your happiness. In his book Solve for Happy, he recommends confronting your fear and dispelling it by asking seven questions that expose it as an unworthy intrusion in your life. Read more to learn Gawdat’s argument and his advice on how to confront your fear.