Do you feel like you have control of your own life? What does it mean to reclaim the narrative?
Your life is the only one you’ll ever get, so you must take control of it. Britney Spears realized this after years of suffering from abuse under her conservatorship, and she took the steps to take back her life.
Check out why you should reclaim your life, even if it may seem scary.
Reclaiming the Narrative
Familial and societal expectations may make it difficult for you to reclaim your life and be your true, authentic self. Celebrities like Spears find this especially true when the demands and expectations for what they say and do can be far greater than what others experience. Spears describes how her public persona has been shaped by others for so many years, and why it’s been so vitally important for her to find her own voice and take control of her story.
Spears acknowledges that the world that fame offers is just an illusion and that she’s one of those who didn’t handle it well. Many times in her life, she gave into pressure to keep touring, performing, and putting on a brave face when she should have slowed down to take care of herself. She often let other people tell her story in a way that served them instead of her, whether that was her family and friends, the entertainment press, or her own PR team. Every time someone else cashed in on her fame, they added to the fake “Britney Spears” persona that was all the public knew and that Spears herself sometimes came to believe.
(Shortform note: For celebrities, controlling their media narrative is even harder today than it was before Spears’s conservatorship began. One reason is the social media wildfire of online disinformation—false news reports of celebrity arrests, product endorsements, or even their deaths. Many false stories are made possible by deepfake technology that lets someone alter video footage to replace a person’s face with somebody else’s. Not only do deepfakes harm celebrities’ reputations, but they also make it hard to trust what may be legitimate news stories.)
After escaping from her conservatorship, Spears says that reclaiming her narrative and finding her own voice were essential to healing the wounds of her past, as well as taking charge of her future. As a child, she expressed her authenticity through music—a form of communication where the words didn’t matter as much as the emotion they conveyed. She also believes that her wild and rebellious years during the height of her stardom were important to testing her limits and finding out who she was.
Now that Spears is once again in control of her life and decisions, she says she needs time to nourish the woman inside her while tending to the pain that the child in her has suffered. She’s recorded one new song—“Hold Me Closer”—which helped her regain her artistic voice. Aside from that, Spears won’t immediately go back to making music, but is instead taking time to heal and be herself. In the meanwhile, Spears expresses gratitude to God, to her fans, and to everyone who supports her for being able to experience the fullness of life.
| The Authentic Life After an ordeal of the kind Spears went through, the road to healing would be long for anyone, but wellness experts would certainly agree that by taking time to find her authentic self, Spears is on the right path. In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown defines authentic living in terms of worthiness—the conviction that you are good enough as you are, flaws and all. To live an authentic life, Brown says that you must accept yourself unconditionally, stop trying to meet other people’s expectations, and accept that you’re worthy of love and compassion. Cultivating such worthiness means being kind to yourself while having the courage to honestly express who you are. According to her memoir, Spears is striving for all of this as best as she can. |
