100 Best Assertiveness Books of All Time

We've ranked the best assertiveness books using expert recommendations, sales data, and millions of reader ratings. At Shortform, we know books. Our book guides are the best in the world. Learn why.

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion book cover1

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

Robert B. Cialdini

5.0
Influence, the classic book on persuasion, explains the psychology of why people say "yes"—and how to apply these understandings. Dr. Robert Cialdini is the seminal expert in the rapidly expanding field of influence and persuasion. His thirty-five years of rigorous, evidence-based research along with a three-year program of study on what moves people to change behavior has resulted in this highly
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead book cover2

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

Brené Brown

4.8
Researcher and thought leader Dr. Brené Brown offers a powerful new vision that encourages us to dare greatly: to embrace vulnerability and imperfection, to live wholeheartedly, and to courageously engage in our lives.

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life book cover3

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

Mark Manson

4.8
Alternate cover edition of ISBN 9780062457738

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "Fk positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is fked and w
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ book cover4

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

Daniel Goleman

4.6
Everyone knows that high IQ is no guarantee of success, happiness, or virtue, but until Emotional Intelligence, we could only guess why. Daniel Goleman's brilliant report from the frontiers of psychology and neuroscience offers startling new insight into our "two minds"—the rational and the emotional—and how they together shape our destiny.

Through vivid examples, Goleman delineates the five crucia
The Gifts of Imperfection book cover5

The Gifts of Imperfection

Brené Brown

4.6
New York Times best-selling author and professor Brené Brown offers a powerful and inspiring book that explores how to cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to embrace your imperfections and to recognize that you are enough.

Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life book cover6

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life

Henry Cloud, John Townsend

4.6
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to h
The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness book cover7

The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness

Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga

4.6
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up for the mind, The Courage to Be Disliked is the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to free yourself from the shackles of past experiences and others’ expectations to achieve real happiness.

The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous bestseller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the
The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment book cover8

The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment

Eckhart Tolle

4.6
Eckhart Tolle is emerging as one of today's most inspiring teachers. In The
Power of Now, a #1 national bestseller, the author describes his transition
from despair to self-realization soon after his 29th birthday. Tolle took
another ten years to understand this transformation, during which time he
evolved a philosophy that has parallels in Buddhism, relaxation techniques,
and meditation theory but is
Magic of Thinking Big book cover9

Magic of Thinking Big

David J. Schwartz

4.5
The Magic of Thinking Big gives you useful methods, not empty promises. Dr. Schwartz presents a carefully designed program for getting the most out of your job, your marriage and family life, and your community. He proves that you don't need to be an intellectual or have innate talent to attain great success and satisfaction, but you do need to learn and understand the habit of thinking and behavi
The E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don't Work and What to Do About It book cover10

The E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don't Work and What to Do About It

Michael E. Gerber

4.5
E-Myth \ 'e-,'mith\ n 1: the entrepreneurial myth: the myth that most people who start small businesses are entrepreneurs 2: the fatal assumption that an individual who understands the technical work of a business can successfully run a business that does that technical work

Voted #1 business book by Inc. 500 CEOs.

An instant classic, this revised and updated edition of the phenomenal bestseller dis
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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

Melody Beattie

4.5
The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life.

Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to someone else's, you may be codependent--and you may find you
Stop Letting Everything Affect You: How to Break Free from Overthinking, Emotional Chaos, and Self-Sabotage book cover12

Stop Letting Everything Affect You: How to Break Free from Overthinking, Emotional Chaos, and Self-Sabotage

Daniel Chidiac

4.4

STOP LETTING EVERYTHING AFFECT YOU is a transformative guide for anyone who overthinks every interaction, gets stuck in emotional chaos, and finds themselves trapped in cycles of self-sabotage. With raw honesty and practical wisdom, Daniel Chidiac reveals why small things ruin your entire day and offers proven strategies to finally break free.This book will teach you how to:Stop letting little thi

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself book cover13

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

Kristin Neff

4.4
From leading psychologist Dr. Kristin Neff comes a step-by-step guide explaining how to be more self-compassionate and achieve your dreams in life

The relentless pursuit of high self-esteem has become a virtual religion—and a tyrannical one at that. Our ultracompetitive culture tells us we need to be constantly above average to feel good about ourselves, but there is always someone more attractive,
As a Man Thinketh book cover14

As a Man Thinketh

Allen

4.4
The mind guides our footsteps as we progress along the pathway of life.

Purity of mind leads inevitably to purity of life, to the precious love and understanding that should control our everyday acts and attitudes towards friends and foes.

But where must one look for guidance? How does one achieve purity of mind that alone brings happiness and confidence?

The author offers his clear answers in this b
Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life... And Maybe the World book cover15

Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life... And Maybe the World

William H. McRaven

4.4
If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.

If you make your bed every morning, you will have accomplished the first task of the day. It will give you a small sense of pride and it will encourage you to do another task and another and another. By the end of the day, that one task completed will have turned into many tasks completed. Making your bed will also reinforce the fact th

Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead book cover16

Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead

Sheryl Sandberg

4.4
Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In is a massive cultural phenomenon and its title has become an instant catchphrase for empowering women. The book soared to the top of bestseller lists internationally, igniting global conversations about women and ambition. Sandberg packed theatres, dominated opinion pages, appeared on every major television show and on the cover of Time magazine, and sparked ferocious deb
The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse book cover17

The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse

Charlie Mackesy

4.4
The Sunday Times Bestseller and New York Times Bestseller.

'You will not be able to buy a more beautiful book for Christmas for somebody you love' Chris Evans

A book of hope for uncertain times.

Enter the world of Charlie's four unlikely friends, discover their story and their most important life lessons.

The conversations of the boy, the mole, the fox and the horse have been shared thousands of times
You Can Heal Your Life book cover18

You Can Heal Your Life

Louise Hay

4.4
Hay's internationally acclaimed bestseller--in which the author shares her personal experiences with healing, including how she cured herself after being diagnosed with "incurable" cancer--is now available in a beautifully bound gift edition.
Breaking The Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One book cover19

Breaking The Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One

Joe Dispenza

4.4
You are not doomed by your genes and hardwired to be a certain way for the rest of your life. A new science is emerging that empowers all human beings to create the reality they choose. In Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, renowned author, speaker, researcher, and chiropractor Dr. Joe Dispenza combines the fields of quantum physics, neuroscience, brain chemistry, biology, and genetics to sho
Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative book cover20

Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative

Austin Kleon

4.4
You don’t need to be a genius, you just need to be yourself. That’s the message from Austin Kleon, a young writer and artist who knows that creativity is everywhere, creativity is for everyone. A manifesto for the digital age, Steal Like an Artist is a guide whose positive message, graphic look and illustrations, exercises, and examples will put readers directly in touch with their artistic side.
The 50th Law book cover22
The ultimate hustle is to move freely between the street and corporate worlds, to find your flow and never stay locked in the same position. This is a manifesto for how to operate in the twenty-first century, where everything has been turned on its head. Building on the runaway success of Robert Greene's The 48 Laws of Power (almost five million copies sold), the 'modern Machiavelli' teams up with
Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself book cover23

Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself

Aziz Gazipura

4.3
The Seat of the Soul book cover25

The Seat of the Soul

Gary Zukav

4.3
With the same extraordinary skill that he used to demystify scientific abstraction and the new physics, Gary Zukay, the award-winning author of The Dancing Wu Li Masters, here takes us on a brilliant and penetrating exploration of the new phase of evolution we have now entered.
With lucidity and elegance, Zukav explains that we are evolving from a species that pursues power based upon the percept
The Ideal Team Player: How to Recognize and Cultivate The Three Essential Virtues book cover26

The Ideal Team Player: How to Recognize and Cultivate The Three Essential Virtues

Patrick M. Lencioni

4.3

In his classic book, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Patrick Lencioni laid out a groundbreaking approach for tackling the perilous group behaviors that destroy teamwork. Here he turns his focus to the individual, revealing the three indispensable virtues of an ideal team player.

In The Ideal Team Player, Lencioni tells the story of Jeff Shanley, a leader desperate to save his uncle’s company by re

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values book cover27

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values

Robert M Pirsig

4.3
This lyrical, evocative, thought-provoking journal of a man's quest for truth - and for himself - has touched and changed an entire generation, and is ready to reach out to a new one. At its heart, the story is all too simple: a man and his son take a motorcycle trip across America. But this is not a simple trip at all, for around every corner, through mountain and desert, wind and rain, and seari
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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope - Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy

Manuel J. Smith

4.3
The best-seller that helps you say: "I just said 'no' and I don't feel guilty!" Are you letting your kids get away with murder? Are you allowing your mother-in-law to impose her will on you? Are you embarrassed by praise or crushed by criticism? Are you having trouble coping with people? Learn the answers in "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty," the best-seller with revolutionary new techniques for gett
The 33 Strategies of War book cover29

The 33 Strategies of War

Robert Greene

4.3
Brilliant distillations of the strategies of war—and the subtle social game of everyday life—by the bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power and Mastery

Robert Greene’s groundbreaking guides, The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, and his latest book, Mastery, espouse profound, timeless lessons from the events of history to help readers vanquish an enemy, ensnare an unsuspecting victim, or b
When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times book cover30

When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times

Pema Chödrön

4.3
There is a fundamental opportunity for happiness right within our reach, yet we usually miss it—ironically while we are caught up in attempts to escape pain and suffering. Drawn from traditional Buddhist wisdom, Pema Chödrön's radical and compassionate advice for what to do when things fall apart in our lives goes against the grain of our usual habits and expectations. There is only one approach t
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The Assertiveness Workbook: How to Express Your Ideas and Stand Up for Yourself at Work and in Relationships

Randy J. Paterson

4.3
Effective communication is a critical skill that influences your professional success, the stability of your family life, and your personal happiness. Your ability to communicate effectively is seriously hampered if you can't assert yourself constructively. If you've ever felt paralyzed by an imposing individual or strongly argued opposing point of view, you know that a lack of assertiveness can l
The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life: Before 8AM book cover32

The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life: Before 8AM

Hal Elrod

4.3
What if you could miraculously wake up tomorrow and any—or every area of your life was transformed? What would be different? Would you be happier? Healthier? More successful? In better shape? Would you have more energy? Less Stress? More Money? Better relationships? Which of your problems would be solved?

What if I told you that there is a "not-so-obvious" secret that is guaranteed to transform any
The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You book cover33

The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You

Elaine N. Aron

4.3
Do you have a keen imagination and vivid dreams? Is time alone each day as essential to you as food and water? Are you "too shy" or "too sensitive" according to others? Do noise and confusion quickly overwhelm you? If your answers are yes, you may be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP).

Most of us feel overstimulated every once in a while, but for the HSP, it's a way of life. In this groundbreaking boo
Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well book cover34

Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well

Douglas Stone, Sheila Heen

4.3
The bestselling authors of the classic Difficult Conversations teach us how to turn evaluations, advice, criticisms, and coaching into productive listening and learning

We swim in an ocean of feedback. Bosses, colleagues, customers—but also family, friends, and in-laws—they all have “suggestions” for our performance, parenting, or appearance. We know that feedback is essential for healthy relations
Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha book cover35

Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha

Tara Brach

4.3
For many of us, feelings of deficiency are right around the corner. It doesn’t take much--just hearing of someone else’s accomplishments, being criticized, getting into an argument, making a mistake at work--to make us feel that we are not okay. Beginning to understand how our lives have become ensnared in this trance of unworthiness is our first step toward reconnecting with who we really are and
Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender book cover36

Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender

David R. Hawkins

4.3
Letting Go describes a simple and effective means by which to let go of the obstacles to enlightenment and become free of negativity. During the many decades of the author's clinical psychiatric practice, the primary aim was to seek the most effective ways to relieve human suffering in all of its many forms. The inner mechanism of surrender was found to be of great practical benefit and is describ
The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connections and Courage book cover37

The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connections and Courage

Brené Brown

4.3
Show Up and Let Yourself be Seen

Is vulnerability the same as weakness? “In our culture,” teaches Dr. Brené Brown, “we associate vulnerability with emotions we want to avoid such as fear, shame, and uncertainty. Yet we too often lose sight of the fact that vulnerability is also the birthplace of joy, belonging, creativity, authenticity, and love.” On The Power of Vulnerability, Dr. Brown offers an
Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life book cover38

Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life

Gary John Bishop

4.3
New York Times Bestseller

Joining the ranks of The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, You Are a Badas*, and F*ck Feelings comes this refreshing, BS-free, self-empowerment guide that offers an honest, no-nonsense, tough-love approach to help you move past self-imposed limitations.

Are you tired of feeling fu*ked up? If you are, Gary John Bishop has the answ
Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail book cover39

Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

Cheryl Strayed

4.3
An alternate cover for this ISBN can be found here.

At twenty-two, Cheryl Strayed thought she had lost everything. In the wake of her mother’s death, her family scattered and her own marriage was soon destroyed. Four years later, with nothing more to lose, she made the most impulsive decision of her life. With no experience or training, driven only by blind will, she would hike more than a thousand
The Power of Your Subconscious Mind book cover40

The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

Joseph Murphy

4.3
In The Power of Your Subconscious Mind, Dr. Joseph Murphy gives you the tools you will need to unlock the awesome powers of your subconscious mind. You can improve your relationships, your finances, your physical well-being. Once you learn how to use this unbelievably powerful force there is nothing you will not be able to accomplish. Join the millions of people who have already unlocked the power
Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope book cover42

Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope

Mark Manson

4.3
From the author of the international mega-bestseller The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck comes a counterintuitive guide to the problems of hope.

We live in an interesting time. Materially, everything is the best it’s ever been—we are freer, healthier and wealthier than any people in human history. Yet, somehow everything seems to be irreparably and horribly f*cked—the planet is warming, government
No More Mr. Nice Guy book cover43

No More Mr. Nice Guy

Robert Glover

4.3
Originally published as an e-book that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder
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The Assertiveness Guide for Women: How to Communicate Your Needs, Set Healthy Boundaries, and Transform Your Relationships

Julie de Azevedo Hanks PhDLCSW and Riane Eisler JD

4.2
Isn’t it time you took a stand? Many women struggle with assertiveness, but if you’re prone to anxiety and avoidance, it is especially difficult. Grounded in attachment theory, this essential guide will help you identify your thoughts and feelings, balance your emotions, communicate your needs, and set healthy boundaries to improve your life.

When you’re assertive, you’re able to communicate your n
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Assertiveness: How to Stand Up for Yourself and Still Win the Respect of Others

Judy Murphy

4.2
This book shows you how to be a more confident, assertive individual.

It teaches you the necessary skills to be decisive and in control of your life.

With the information in this guide, you will learn to improve your relationships, move your career forward, and earn the respect of your friends, family, spouse, co-workers, even your boss.
Six Pillars of Self-Esteem book cover47

Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

Nathaniel Branden

4.2
Nathaniel Branden's book is the culmination of a lifetime of clinical practice and study, already hailed in its hardcover edition as a classic and the most significant work on the topic. Immense in scope and vision and filled with insight into human motivation and behavior, The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem is essential reading for anyone with a personal or professional interest in self-esteem. The b
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Assertiveness for Earth Angels: How to Be Loving Instead of "Too Nice"

Doreen Virtue

4.2
Do people take advantage of your niceness? In this groundbreaking book, Doreen Virtue teaches Earth Angels —extremely sweet people who care more about others’ happiness than their own—how to maintain their inner peace and loving nature while at the same time holding boundaries. You’ll discover how to overcome fears about saying no, and how to ask for what you want from those around you and from th
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment book cover49

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

Steve Harvey

4.2
“Harvey offers surprising insights into the male mentality and gives women strategies for taming that unruly beast.”
—Philadelphia Inquirer

“Women should listen to Steve Harvey when it comes to what a good man is about. Steve Harvey dispenses a lot of fabulous information about men.”
—Aretha Franklin

The #1 New York Times bestseller from the new guru of relationship advice, Steve Harvey’s Act Like a L
The Confidence Gap: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt book cover50

The Confidence Gap: A Guide to Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt

Russ Harris

4.2
Too many of us miss out on opportunities in life because we lack self-confidence. Whether it's public speaking, taking on a leadership role, or asking someone for a date, there are situations in which we just don't feel equipped to handle the challenges we face.



Russ Harris offers a surprising solution to low self-confidence, shyness, and insecurity: rather than trying to "get over" our fears, he s
There Is a Bird on Your Head! (Elephant & Piggie, #4) book cover52

There Is a Bird on Your Head! (Elephant & Piggie, #4)

Mo Willems

4.2
Gerald is careful. Piggie is not.
Piggie cannot help smiling. Gerald can.
Gerald worries so that Piggie does not have to.

Gerald and Piggie are best friends.

In There Is a Bird On My Head!, Gerald discovers that there is something worse than a bird on your head-two birds on your head! Can Piggie help her best friend?


The Lion Inside book cover53

The Lion Inside

Rachel Bright, Jim Field

4.1
A rhyming story about one little mouse trying to make himself heard and discovering along the way that even the smallest of us has the heart of a lion.
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Stop People Pleasing: Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover

Patrick King

4.1
The Dip: A Little Book That Teaches You When to Quit (and When to Stick) book cover55

The Dip: A Little Book That Teaches You When to Quit (and When to Stick)

Seth Godin

4.1
A New York Times, USA Today, and Wall Street Journal bestseller

In this iconic bestseller, popular business blogger and bestselling author Seth Godin proves that winners are really just the best quitters. Godin shows that winners quit fast, quit often, and quit without guilt--until they commit to beating the right Dip.

Every new project (or job, or hobby, or company) starts out fun...then gets rea
Read People Like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People’s Emotions, Thoughts, Intentions, and Behaviors (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 1) book cover56

Read People Like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People’s Emotions, Thoughts, Intentions, and Behaviors (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 1)

Patrick King

4.1
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What Do You Do with a Problem?

Kobi Yamada, Mae Besom

4.1
From the same author and illustrator as our #1 nationally best-selling What Do You Do With an Idea? comes a new book to encourage you to look closely at problems and discover the possibilities they can hold.

What do you do with a problem? Especially one that follows you around and doesn't seem to be going away? Do you worry about it? Ignore it? Do you run and hide from it?

This is the story of a per
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Master Your Emotions: A Practical Guide to Overcome Negativity and Better Manage Your Feelings

thibaut meurisse

4.1
Struggling to let go of negative emotions? Discover a step-by-step process to living a happier, more fulfilling life. Weighed down by negativity? Are painful emotions keeping you from doing the things you love? Author and founder of WhatIsPersonalDevelopment.org Thibaut Meurisse wants to help you take back your life. Through his latest book, you
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self book cover59

The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

Alice Miller

4.1
The bestselling book on childhood trauma and the enduring effects of repressed anger and pain

Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided millions of readers with an answer--and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.

Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memori
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Mary Anne Saves the Day

Ann M Martin, Raina Telgemeier

4.1
Who would have guessed that when the BSC girls get in a huge fight, it's shy and quiet Mary Anne who manages to save their friendship?When a terrible fight breaks out among the four Baby-Sitters Club friends, Mary Anne is left to her own devices. She has to sit by herself at lunch, make new friends, and deal with her overprotective father without advice from the BSC gang. But the worst part is whe
Speak book cover61

Speak

Laurie Halse Anderson

4.1
The first ten lies they tell you in high school.

"Speak up for yourself—we want to know what you have to say."

From the first moment of her freshman year at Merryweather High, Melinda knows this is a big fat lie, part of the nonsense of high school. She is friendless, outcast, because she busted an end-of-summer party by calling the cops, so now nobody will talk to her, let alone listen to her. As
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Her Mother's Hope

Francine Rivers

4.1
2011 Retailers Choice Award winner!
The first in an epic two-book saga by beloved author Francine Rivers, this sweeping story explores the complicated relationships between mothers and daughters over several generations. Near the turn of the 20th century, fiery Marta leaves Switzerland determined to find life on her own terms. Her journey takes her through Europe and finally lands her with children
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The Art of Everyday Assertiveness: Speak Up. Say No. Set Boundaries. Take Back Control.

Patrick King

4.1
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Gmorning, Gnight!: Little Pep Talks for Me & You

Lin-Manuel Miranda, Jonny Sun

4.1
From the creator and star of Hamilton, with beautiful illustrations by Jonny Sun, comes a book of affirmations to inspire readers at the beginning and end of each day.

Good morning. Do NOT get stuck in the comments section of life today. Make, do, create the things. Let others tussle it out. Vamos!


Before he inspired the world with Hamilton and was catapulted to international fame, Lin-Manuel Mirand
The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness book cover65

The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness

Timothy Keller

4.1
‘What are the marks of a supernaturally changed heart?’

This is one of the questions the Apostle Paul addresses as he writes to the church in Corinth. He’s not after some superficial outward tinkering, but instead a deep–rooted, life–altering change that takes place on the inside. In an age where pleasing people, puffing up your ego and building your résumé are seen as the methods to ‘make it’, the
Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life book cover66

Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life

Susan Forward, Craig Buck

4.1
All parents fall short from time to time. But Susan Forward pulls no punches when it comes to those whose deficiencies cripple their children emotionally. Her brisk, unreserved guide to overcoming the stultifying agony of parental manipulation—from power trips to guilt trips and all other killers of self worth—will help deal with the pain of childhood and move beyond the frustrating relationship p
Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment book cover67

Worth: The New Science of Self-Esteem and Secure Attachment

Marisa G. Franco PhD

4.1

From the New York Times bestselling author of Platonic, a groundbreaking guide exploring the promise (and limits) of secure attachment to help us feel better and boost our self-esteem.“I can't think of anyone who won’t need this book.” —Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author and host of For the LoveWhat if what you thought you knew about secure attachment was wrong? Or worse, making you m

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Speak Up, Wonder Pup: A Kid's Guide to Standing Up for Yourself (Self-Regulation)

Angela Murphy and Davis Graham

4.1
The C.S. Lewis Signature Classics (8-Volume Box Set) book cover69

The C.S. Lewis Signature Classics (8-Volume Box Set)

C. S. Lewis

4.1
A gorgeous boxed set that includes all eight paperback volumes of the C. S. Lewis Signature Classics.

Boxed together for the first time, here are the signature spiritual works of one of the most celebrated literary figures of our time. Perfect for gift-giving, The C. S. Lewis Signature Classics (8-Volume Box Set) contains:


Mere Christianity
The Screwtape Letters
The Great Divorce
The Problem of Pain
Mir
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Embraced: 100 Devotions to Know God Is Holding You Close

Lysa TerKeurst

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Embraced is the beautiful new devotional from Lysa TerKeurst, the president of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the New York Times bestselling author of Uninvited, The Best Yes, Unglued, and Made to Crave. Embraced features 100 devotions that will resonate with women in all stages of life by giving them a godly perspective on the issues they face each day.

A real embrace indicates an intimate level of
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Book of Possibility

Jim Curtis

4.0

For fans of Manifest and Don’t Believe Everything You Think, a practical and compassionate guide to healing from transformational coach Jim Curtis, using decades of experience and breakthrough techniques to help you unlock the power of your subconscious mind, release fear, and create lasting change.Real transformation doesn’t come from forcing your life to look a certain way on the outside. It beg

Healing the Shame that Binds You book cover72

Healing the Shame that Binds You

John Bradshaw

4.0
“I used to drink,” writes John Bradshaw, “to solve the problems caused by drinking. The more I drank to relieve my shame-based loneliness and hurt, the more I felt ashamed.”

Shame is the motivator behind our toxic behaviors: the compulsion, co-dependency, addiction and drive to superachieve that breaks down the family and destroys personal lives. This book has helped millions identify their person
It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People book cover73

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

Ramani Durvasula PhD

4.0
Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely book cover74

Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely

Lysa TerKeurst

4.0
The enemy wants us to feel rejected . . . left out, lonely, and less than. When we allow him to speak lies through our rejection, he pickpockets our purpose. Cripples our courage. Dismantles our dreams. And blinds us to the beauty of Christ’s powerful love.

In Uninvited, Lysa shares her own deeply personal experiences with rejection—from the incredibly painful childhood abandonment by her father to
Don't Believe Everything You Think (Expanded Edition): Why Your Thinking Is the Beginning & End of Suffering book cover75

Don't Believe Everything You Think (Expanded Edition): Why Your Thinking Is the Beginning & End of Suffering

Joseph Nguyen and Simon & Schuster Audio

4.0
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Self-Care Check-In: A Guided Journal to Build Healthy Habits and Devote Time to You

GG Renee Hill

4.0
Unlock joy and cultivate growth―guided journaling with practical self care strategies

Self care isn’t about escaping life’s problems―it can actually help you solve them. The Self Care Check-in is a guided journal packed with research-based techniques to help you manage stress, nurture your values and goals, and take steps toward concrete change. Equipped with these tools, you can open the door to a
Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You book cover77

Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You

Susan Forward, Donna Frazier

4.0
Emotional blackmail is a powerful form of manipulation in which people close to us threaten to punish us for not doing what they want. Emotional blackmailers know how much we value our relationships with them. They know our vulnerabilities and our deepest secrets. They can be our parents or partners, bosses or coworkers, friends or lovers. And no matter how much they care about us, they use this i
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How Lucky Am I

Christian Watson

4.0

INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • In this poignant, affirming, and beautifully illustrated journey, social media sensation Mr Skelly explores the ups and downs of existence and discovers the makings of a meaningful life."How lucky am I, to have lost what I wanted, to find what I deserved"Join beloved Mr Skelly, a gentle skeleton wandering across lush landscapes and treacherous terrains, throu

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Your Perfect Right: Assertiveness and Equality in Your Life and Relationships

Robert E. Alberti, Michael L. Emmons

4.0
Since 1970, this book has made assertiveness training a household word, achieving the status of #1 assertive training book and #5 self-help book according to a survey of psychologists' recommendations to clients as reported in the July 1989 issues of The New York Times and Psychology Today.
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Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible

Sabrina Alexis Bendory

4.0

Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible is a transformative guide for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, overthinking, or settling for less—especially in relationships. Whether you’re anxiously attached and constantly chasing love, emotionally unavailable and afraid to let anyone in, or simply tired of abandoning yourself to be chosen, this book will help you break t

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Overload: How to Unplug, Unwind, and Unleash Yourself from the Pressure of Stress

Joyce Meyer

4.0
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High Noon

Nora Roberts

4.0
Police Lieutenant Phoebe MacNamara found her calling at an early age when an unstable man broke into her family's home, trapping and terrorizing them for hours. Now she's Savannah's top hostage negotiator, defusing powderkeg situations with a talent for knowing when to give in-and when to jump in and take action. It's satisfying work-and sometimes those skills come in handy at home dealing with he
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The Coffee Bean: A Simple Lesson to Create Positive Change

Damon West

4.0
From bestselling author Jon Gordon and rising star Damon West comes The Coffee Bean an illustrated fable that teaches readers how to transform their environment, overcome challenges, and create positive change.

Life is often difficult. It can be harsh, stressful, and feel like a pot of boiling hot water. The environments we find ourselves in can change, weaken, or harden us, and test who we truly
The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series) book cover84

The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series)

Melody Beattie

4.0
Written for those of us who struggle with codependency, these daily meditations offer growth and renewal, and remind us that the best thing we can do is take responsibility for our own self-care.

Melody Beattie integrates her own life experiences and fundamental recovery reflections in this unique daily meditation book written especially for those of us who struggle with the issue of codependency.
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It All Starts When You Do: How to Do the Real Work of Self-Healing

Kier Gaines LPC

4.0

What if the biggest obstacle to happiness isn't your environment, your past, or other people—but a blindness to some uncomfortable truths about yourself? In the book his fans have been waiting for, one of the internet’s most beloved therapists, Kier Gaines, sets the record straight: mantras and toxic positivity won’t solve your problems. Instead, Gaines offers a bold new path to getting what you w

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The Motivation Manifesto

Brendon Burchard

4.0
“The Motivation Manifesto is a poetic and powerful call to reclaim our lives and find our own personal freedom. It’s a triumphant work that transcends the title, lifting the reader from mere motivation into a soaringly purposeful and meaningful life. I love this book.” — Paulo Coelho

The Motivation Manifesto is a pulsing, articulate, ferocious call to claim our personal power. World-renowned high p
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Dear Universe: 200 Mini-Meditations for Instant Manifestations

Sarah Prout

4.0
Discover how to use the power of your feelings to create the success, love, and joy you deserve, with emotional empowerment expert, Sarah Prout

For years it has been said, “you can achieve anything you set your mind to.” But have you ever wondered why so many people struggle to achieve health, wealth, and happiness? Why do we bottle-up our emotions and feel like life is happening to us, rather tha
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Invisible Emmie

Terri Libenson

4.0
This is the story of two totally different girls—quiet, shy, artistic Emmie and popular, outgoing, athletic Katie—and how their lives unexpectedly intersect one day when an embarrassing note falls into the wrong hands.
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Grumpy Bird

Jeremy Tankard

4.0
Bird wakes up feeling grumpy. Too grumpy to eat or play -- too grumpy even to fly. "Looks like I'm walking today," says Bird. He walks past Sheep, who offers to keep him company. He walks past Rabbit, who also could use a walk. Raccoon, Beaver, and Fox join in, too. Before he knows it, a little exercise and companionship help Bird shake his bad mood.

Praised by the Wall Street Journal as "comic pe
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The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse Fifth Anniversary Limited Edition: The Global Bestseller

Charlie Mackesy

4.0
I Want to Trust You, but I Don't: Moving Forward When You’re Skeptical of Others, Afraid of What God Will Allow, and Doubtful book cover91

I Want to Trust You, but I Don't: Moving Forward When You’re Skeptical of Others, Afraid of What God Will Allow, and Doubtful

Lysa TerKeurst

4.0

READ BY THE AUTHOR2025 ECPA CHRISTIAN BOOK AWARD - AUDIOBOOK OF THE YEARNEW YORK TIMESBESTSELLERIn I Want to Trust You, but I Don't, join New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst as you learn how to handle your skepticism and distrust so you can heal from past betrayals and move forward with strength and resilience.Broken trust complicates every bit of the parts of love that should be comf

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Power Thought Cards: A 64 Card Deck (Box Set)

Louise Hay

4.0
A Deck of 64 Affirmation Cards to Help You Find Your Inner Strength. Packaged in a beautiful gift box, this deck of 64 cards contains 128 unique pieces of art exquisitely illustrated by five artists. Each vibrant card contains a powerful affirmation on one side and a visualization on the other to enlighten, inspire, and bring joy to your life.
Practicing the Power of Now: Essential Teachings, Meditations, and Exercises from the Power of Now book cover93

Practicing the Power of Now: Essential Teachings, Meditations, and Exercises from the Power of Now

Eckhart Tolle

4.0
This manual-style book instantly dives into Eckhart Tolle's principles of "living in the moment," which could be a jarring experience for readers who haven't read his preceding book, The Power of Now. For the initiated, though, this makes an excellent companion guide--rich in exercises and meditations to help readers get out of their minds so they can live more peacefully in their bodies. Sometime
Money, and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness book cover94

Money, and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Wealth, Health, and Happiness

Esther Hicks and Jerry Hicks

4.0
The Little Frog's Guide to Self-Care: Affirmations, Self-Love and Life Lessons According to the Internet's Beloved Mushroom F book cover95

The Little Frog's Guide to Self-Care: Affirmations, Self-Love and Life Lessons According to the Internet's Beloved Mushroom F

Maybell Eequay

4.0
The Set Boundaries Workbook: Practical Exercises for Understanding Your Needs and Setting Healthy Limits book cover96

The Set Boundaries Workbook: Practical Exercises for Understanding Your Needs and Setting Healthy Limits

Nedra Glover Tawwab

4.0
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For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence

Alice Miller, Hildegarde Hannum, Hunter Hannum

4.0

For Your Own Good, the contemporary classic exploring the serious if not gravely dangerous consequences parental cruelty can bring to bear on children everywhere, is one of the central works by Alice Miller, the celebrated Swiss psychoanalyst.

With her typically lucid, strong, and poetic language, Miller investigates the personal stories and case histories of various self-destructive and/or violent

The Complete Works book cover98

The Complete Works

Florence Scovel Shinn

4.0
There are few figures in the history of Western Spirituality who are more enigmatic than the fifth or sixth-century writer known as the Pseudo-Dionysius. The real identity of the person who chose to write under the pseudonym of Dionysius the Areopagite is unknown. Even the exact dates of his writings have never been determined. Moreover the texts themselves, though relatively short, are at points
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Homecoming: Reclaiming and Healing Your Inner Child

John Bradshaw

4.0
Using a wealth of practical techniques, informative case histories and unique questionnaires, John Bradshaw demonstrates how your wounded inner child may be causing you pain. You'll learn to gradually, safely, go back to reclaim and nurture that inner child - and literally help yourself grow up again. Homecoming shows you how to:

Validate your inner child through meditations and affirmations
Give y
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The Universe Has Your Back: Transform Fear to Faith

Gabrielle Bernstein

4.0
In her latest book, The Universe Has Your Back , New York Times best-selling author Gabrielle Bernstein teaches readers how to transform their fear into faith in order to live a divinely guided life. Each story and lesson in the book guides readers to release the blocks to what they most long for: happiness, security and clear direction. The lessons help readers relinquish the need to control so