The Real Key to Power? Play by the Rules

The Real Key to Power? Play by the Rules

We’re taught that in order to be powerful and innovative, we need to break the rules. But while some rules are made to be broken, many principles became rules because they were effective. More often than not, it pays to play by the rules, especially if your goal is power. Below, discover the top 15 rules for power. We’ll cover how these rules of power came from the aristocratic court system and how we can still play by the rules today to gain power in the modern world.

48 Laws of Power | Law 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself—Isolation is Dangerous

48 Laws of Power | Law 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself—Isolation is Dangerous

Overview of Law #18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself—Isolation is Dangerous Never isolate yourself when you come under pressure. This just cuts you off from information you need and people who could help you, and when real danger arises you won’t see it coming. Instead, make a point of being outgoing. Contact with others increases your power. Isolation is dangerous.

Law 14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy (48 Laws of Power)

Law 14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy (48 Laws of Power)

Overview of Law #14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy Collecting information through spying is essential to wielding power. When you know your opponent’s secrets, you can predict his behavior and control him. You can enlist spies to gather intelligence for you, but it’s better to be a spy yourself. Adopt a friendly manner and you’ll get people to spill their plans and weaknesses. Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy.

Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor (48 Laws of Power)

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Overview of Law #16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor Once you’ve become well-known and admired, use absence to increase respect and honor. The more you’re seen and heard from after a certain point, the more you cheapen your brand. People will lose interest and respect for you. But if you make yourself scarce for a while, you’ll renew people’s respect and appreciation.

48 Laws of Power | Law 2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends

48 Laws of Power | Law 2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends

Overview of Law #2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends; Learn How to Use Enemies Keep a close eye on your friends — they easily become envious and resentful, and will undermine you. In contrast, if you promote an enemy, he’ll be more loyal than a friend in an effort to prove himself. So use your enemies. If you lack enemies, you should create some. Never put too much trust in friends. Learn how to use enemies.