Why Do People Fall Out of Love? The #1 Reason

Why Do People Fall Out of Love? The #1 Reason

We all seek love, and some of us are lucky enough to fall in love. But sometimes, people stop loving each other. Why do we fall out of love? How can a burning fire of love turn into just disappointing gray ashes? It all has to do with how we approach love and think about it. The beginning, falling in love, is easy. But most people don’t realize that this is only a temporary period, and what happens after requires work. Learn more below about why people fall out of love.

Relationship Problems: The Single Best Remedy

Relationship Problems: The Single Best Remedy

How do I deal with relationship problems? Why isn’t my marriage working? Marriage is the happy ending of most fairy tales. This can give you the idea that if you have relationship problems after getting married, you must be doing something wrong. But relationship problems and marriage problems are normal. Read on to learn why relationship problems happen and how to remedy them, from Gary Chapmans The 5 Love Languages.

Love Is a Choice, Not a Feeling (Explained)

Love Is a Choice, Not a Feeling (Explained)

Love is often described as a feeling, like butterflies in your stomach. But this is only a temporary state of love that usually ends with the honeymoon period. Afterward, love requires conscious effort and care to nurture the relationship and keep it alive. This gives rise to the idea, “Love is a choice, not a feeling.” Learn more aspects to the idea that “Love is a choice, not a feeling” below. Learn what choosing to love means, and how you can put in deliberate effort to keep the love alive.

Gottman’s Love Lab: How to Predict Divorce in 3 Minutes

Gottman’s Love Lab: How to Predict Divorce in 3 Minutes

Is it possible to accurately predict the success or failure of a marriage in just 3 minutes? Does each couple have a relationship DNA that can reveal the fate of their marriage to anyone who knows what to look for? Does Gottman’s love lab results tell you how best to make your relationship fluorish? John Gottman thinks so. Read on to learn about Gottman’s “love lab” and what your facial expressions say about your marriage.

Eckhart Tolle on Relationships: How to Truly Connect to Others

Eckhart Tolle on Relationships: How to Truly Connect to Others

Want to build stronger relationships with your spouse, partner, and loved ones? How does being present improve your relationships? Here we’ll discuss Eckhart Tolle’s best advice on relationships, and how to be present in a relationship. Being present impacts your inner state first and foremost. That affects your behavior and, inevitably, how you interact with people around you. 

How to Understand Your Relationships: Evaluation Tool

How to Understand Your Relationships: Evaluation Tool

Next, consider your current relationships. Overall, do they make you happy? Are your relationships positive, supportive, and helpful? 

Here’s an exercise to help you answer these questions, and evaluate your current relationships. Make a list of every relationship — include every person with whom you interact regularly —  in which you’re currently involved. Add two more columns and fill it them in as follows: