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Why 95% of Your Life Runs on Programs You Never Chose | Bruce Lipton

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In this episode of The School of Greatness, Bruce Lipton explains how our early childhood experiences shape our subconscious programming. He describes how children's brains operate in a theta state during their first seven years of life, absorbing behaviors and beliefs directly from their environment. These subconscious programs, often formed without our awareness, control approximately 95% of our daily behaviors.

Lipton outlines several approaches for identifying and modifying limiting subconscious beliefs, including muscle testing and energy psychology techniques like Psych-K. He discusses the relationship between self-love and manifesting abundance, emphasizing that creating positive change requires both mental shifts and concrete actions. The episode covers practical methods for implementing these changes, such as using present-tense affirmations and maintaining awareness of negative thought patterns.

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Why 95% of Your Life Runs on Programs You Never Chose | Bruce Lipton

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The Formation and Impact of Subconscious Programming

Bruce Lipton explains that our subconscious programming, which shapes our beliefs and behaviors, is primarily formed during our first seven years of life. During this period, children's brains operate in a theta state—similar to hypnosis—allowing them to absorb behaviors and programs directly from their environment without filtering.

Early Programming and Its Effects

According to Lipton, approximately 60% of subconscious programs acquired in childhood are disempowering or self-sabotaging. These programs control 95% of our behavior, with only 5% of our experiences being truly conscious. This means most of our daily actions run on "autopilot," driven by subconscious programming that we acquired as children.

Techniques for Reprogramming the Subconscious

Lipton introduces several methods for identifying and changing limiting subconscious beliefs. He discusses muscle testing as a technique to uncover discrepancies between conscious assertions and subconscious beliefs. He also highlights energy psychology, particularly a process called Psych-K, which can reportedly rewrite subconscious programming in as little as 15 minutes.

For daily practice, Lipton recommends using positive present-tense affirmations, especially before sleep, and maintaining awareness of negative thought patterns to break harmful thinking habits.

Self-Love and Manifesting Abundance

Lipton observes that most people struggle with self-love, which hampers their ability to care for themselves and create the life they desire. He emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from problems to desires, and from victim mentality to conscious creation. Most importantly, Lipton stresses that manifesting abundance requires not just positive thinking, but also taking concrete action toward one's goals.

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  • The theta state is a type of brainwave pattern with a slow frequency, typically 4-8 Hz, associated with deep relaxation and light sleep. It occurs during meditation, hypnosis, and early childhood, facilitating heightened suggestibility and learning. This state allows the brain to absorb information without critical analysis, making it easier to form subconscious beliefs. Understanding theta waves helps explain why early experiences strongly influence subconscious programming.
  • Subconscious programming refers to the automatic mental patterns and beliefs stored below conscious awareness that influence thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It forms through repeated experiences, emotional responses, and learned behaviors, especially during early childhood when the brain is highly impressionable. These programs act like software running in the background, guiding reactions without deliberate thought. They are shaped by family, culture, and environment, embedding core beliefs about self and the world.
  • Muscle testing, also called applied kinesiology, involves assessing muscle strength in response to specific statements or stimuli. Practitioners believe that the body's muscle response reveals subconscious truths or imbalances. A weak muscle response may indicate a negative or false belief, while a strong response suggests alignment or truth. This method is used to identify hidden beliefs or energy blockages affecting well-being.
  • Energy psychology is a therapeutic approach combining psychological techniques with stimulation of the body's energy systems, such as tapping on acupuncture points. It aims to clear emotional blockages and reprogram negative beliefs by balancing the body's energy flow. Methods like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) use tapping to reduce stress and trauma responses. The approach is based on the idea that emotional distress disrupts energy flow, and restoring balance promotes healing.
  • Psych-K is a process that uses muscle testing to identify subconscious beliefs and then applies specific body postures or "balances" to change them. It aims to bypass the critical conscious mind and communicate directly with the subconscious to create positive belief shifts. The method is considered a form of energy psychology and is often used to reduce stress and improve mental well-being. Scientific evidence on its effectiveness is limited and mostly anecdotal.
  • Positive present-tense affirmations are statements phrased as if the desired outcome is already true, which helps reprogram the subconscious mind by reinforcing new beliefs. Saying them before sleep is effective because the brain enters a relaxed state, making it more receptive to suggestions. This timing leverages the brain's natural transition into subconscious processing during sleep. Repeating affirmations consistently strengthens neural pathways linked to positive beliefs.
  • Conscious control involves deliberate, aware decision-making and actions. Subconscious control operates automatically, based on ingrained habits and beliefs without active awareness. The subconscious processes vast amounts of information quickly, freeing the conscious mind to focus on fewer tasks. This division helps explain why many behaviors feel automatic or habitual.
  • "Victim mentality" refers to a mindset where a person consistently sees themselves as a victim of circumstances, blaming external factors for their problems and feeling powerless to change their situation. "Conscious creation" means actively shaping one's life through intentional thoughts, beliefs, and actions rather than passively reacting to events. It involves taking responsibility for one's experiences and deliberately working toward desired outcomes. This shift empowers individuals to move from feeling stuck to actively designing their reality.
  • Manifesting abundance involves aligning your mindset with clear goals and taking consistent, practical steps toward achieving them. It requires overcoming subconscious blocks that limit your belief in success. Visualization and affirmations help reinforce positive neural pathways, but action transforms intention into reality. Without effort, positive thinking alone rarely produces tangible results.
  • Bruce Lipton's ideas are based on a mix of cell biology and popular psychology but lack strong support from mainstream neuroscience or psychology. The concept of the brain operating in a "theta state" during early childhood is loosely related to brainwave research but is not conclusively linked to subconscious programming formation. Muscle testing and Psych-K are considered alternative therapies with limited scientific validation and are often viewed skeptically by the medical community. Overall, these claims are more anecdotal and theoretical than empirically proven.

Counterarguments

  • The extent to which subconscious programming is formed during the first seven years of life is debated, with some psychologists arguing that personality and behavior continue to be shaped throughout adolescence and adulthood.
  • The claim that 60% of subconscious programs are disempowering or self-sabotaging is not universally accepted, as it is difficult to quantify such programs and their impact on behavior.
  • The assertion that 95% of our behavior is controlled by the subconscious is a contested figure; cognitive scientists and psychologists often argue that conscious decision-making plays a more significant role than what is suggested here.
  • The effectiveness of muscle testing and energy psychology techniques like Psych-K in uncovering and altering subconscious beliefs is not widely supported by empirical scientific research.
  • The use of positive affirmations and their impact on subconscious programming is a subject of debate, with some studies suggesting they may have limited effectiveness, particularly for individuals with low self-esteem.
  • The concept of manifesting abundance through positive thinking and action is criticized for oversimplifying complex social, economic, and psychological factors that influence success and personal fulfillment.
  • The idea of shifting from a victim mentality to one of conscious creation, while empowering, may not fully acknowledge external factors and systemic issues that can limit individual agency and opportunities.

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Why 95% of Your Life Runs on Programs You Never Chose | Bruce Lipton

The Formation and Impact of Subconscious Programming

Bruce Lipton stresses the significance of subconscious programming in determining beliefs and behaviors throughout life.

Beliefs and Behaviors Are Shaped by Early Subconscious Programs

Lipton explains that during the formative years of life, particularly the first seven, children’s brains act primarily in the theta state, which is like being in a state of hypnosis. This state is crucial for learning behaviors and programs directly from parents and their environment without any filtering. Consequently, whatever the family environment presents—affluence or struggle—becomes downloaded as programs in the child's subconscious.

He illustrates parental influence on subconscious programming by pointing out that children of musician parents often become musicians due to the substantial influence and training received during those formative years. He also reflects on his own experiences, mentioning his dysfunctional family background and how it led to him having trouble in relationships.

As Children, We Unconsciously Absorb Behaviors and Programs From Parents and Environment, Without Filtering Good or Bad

He further emphasizes that children unconsciously absorb behaviors and programs from their parents without exercising any judgement on the nature of these behaviors, directly recording messages like "I'm not lovable" or "I don't deserve this" into their subconscious. Because the first seven years operate with whole-brain activity, children can effortlessly learn a lot from their surroundings. Lipton suggests that children can become disempowered when they internalize beliefs that diminish their power instead of beliefs that empower them. Positively affirming children with beliefs of intelligence and creativity can lead to favorable life outcomes because these affirmations become part of their subconscious programming.

60% of Subconscious Programs Are Disempowering or Self-Sabotaging

Approximately 60% of the subconscious programs that people acquire in childhood are disempowering or self-sabotaging, according to Lipton. These often involve limiting beliefs obtained from others, such as the false idea suggested by the Darwinian theory that life is a battleground of competition, causing people to adopt behaviors based on that misconception.

Lipton explains that beliefs like thinking one is predestined to get cancer because of genetics can lead to a life lived in fear, even though there is no direct gene that causes cancer. Instead, it is often lifestyle choices that trigger such diseases in people with specific genes. He emphasizes that the vast majority of cancer cases do not have a family history, suggesting that lifestyle and consciousness play a significant role in health outcomes. Holding onto beliefs of victimhood can disempower people, leading them to surrender control to external authorities such as professional practitioners or religious institutions.

Subconscious Programs Control 95% of Behavior

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  • The theta state is a brainwave pattern occurring at a slower frequency than normal waking states, typically between 4-8 Hz. It is associated with deep relaxation, creativity, and heightened suggestibility, often seen during light sleep or meditation. In early childhood, the brain frequently operates in this state, making children highly receptive to absorbing information and forming subconscious patterns. This state facilitates learning without critical filtering, embedding experiences deeply into the subconscious.
  • Subconscious programming refers to the automatic mental patterns and beliefs formed below conscious awareness that influence thoughts and behaviors. It is created primarily during early childhood when the brain is highly impressionable and absorbs information from the environment without critical analysis. These programs act like software running in the background, guiding reactions and decisions without active thought. Over time, repeated experiences and messages reinforce these subconscious patterns, making them deeply ingrained.
  • Whole-brain activity in early childhood means both the left (logical) and right (creative) hemispheres of the brain are highly active and integrated. This contrasts with later life when the brain tends to specialize, with one hemisphere dominating certain functions. Early whole-brain activity allows children to absorb information holistically and intuitively. As the brain matures, conscious, analytical thinking becomes more prominent, reducing this integrated state.
  • The claim that 60% of subconscious programs are disempowering or self-sabotaging is based on observations in psychology and behavioral studies, though exact percentages vary by source. These programs often originate from negative experiences or limiting beliefs absorbed in childhood. They influence automatic reactions and decision-making, often without conscious awareness. Addressing these programs typically requires therapeutic or self-awareness techniques to reprogram limiting beliefs.
  • Darwinian theory, or Darwinism, primarily describes natural selection as a mechanism for evolution, where organisms better adapted to their environment tend to survive and reproduce. This scientific concept has sometimes been misinterpreted socially as "survival of the fittest," implying constant competition and conflict among individuals. Such misinterpretations can lead to limiting beliefs that life is only about struggle and competition, ignoring cooperation and mutual support found in nature. Lipton critiques this narrow view as a false belief that can negatively shape subconscious programming.
  • Cancer is caused by mutations in genes that control cell growth and division, but no single gene directly causes all cancers. Genetic predisposition means some people inherit mutations that increase their risk, but lifestyle factors like smoking, diet, and exposure to toxins often trigger these mutations. Most cancers result from a combination of genetic susceptibility and environmental or lifestyle influences. Therefore, genes set the stage, but lifestyle choices largely determine whether cancer develops.
  • The idea that 95% of behavior is subconscious comes from research in psychology and neuroscience showing most mental processes happen without conscious awareness. The subconscious mind handles routine tasks and automatic responses to save conscious effort for complex decisions. Conscious awareness is limited and can only focus on a few things at once, so the brain delegates most functions to subconscious processes. This explains why habits and emotional reactions often occur without deliberate thought.
  • Subconscious programs are patterns of thought and behavior stored in the brain that operate automatically without deliberate intention. They guide routine actions and reactions by triggering learned responses based on ...

Counterarguments

  • The claim that 95% of behavior is controlled by the subconscious is a theoretical estimate and may not accurately reflect the complexity of human cognition and behavior, which can vary widely among individuals.
  • The idea that children's brains are in a theta state and function like hypnosis in the first seven years is an oversimplification and may not account for the nuanced ways in which children interact with and interpret their environments.
  • The assertion that 60% of subconscious programs are disempowering or self-sabotaging is not universally quantifiable and may vary greatly depending on individual experiences and environments.
  • The emphasis on subconscious programming may understate the role of conscious decision-making and the ability of individuals to change their behaviors and beliefs through self-awareness and effort.
  • The concept that beliefs about genetics predetermining diseases can lead to a life lived in fear may not acknowledge the complexity of how people understand and react to their genetic predispositions.
  • The focus on the negative impact of subconscious programming might overlook the potential resilience and adaptability of individuals to overcome early negative programming.
  • The idea that daily life is mostly automated by subconscious programming could be challenged by pointing out the instances where conscious reflection and decisi ...

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Techniques and Strategies For Reprogramming the Subconscious

Bruce Lipton discusses various strategies and techniques designed to address and reprogram subconscious beliefs to align with conscious desires and aspirations.

Muscle Testing Shows Belief Discrepancies

Muscle testing is a technique used to uncover discrepancies between conscious assertions and subconscious beliefs. If someone states a belief that is not aligned with their subconscious, such as "I love myself," this misalignment will cause a weakening in muscle strength, indicating subconscious resistance that needs to be addressed.

Energy Psychology: Psych-K Rewrites Subconscious In 15 Minutes

Bruce Lipton introduces energy psychology, particularly a process called Psych-K, which aims to rewrite subconscious programming quickly and efficiently. Psych-K involves engaging the brain in a "whole-brain learning state" to facilitate rapid change.

Lipton talks about the profound changes noted by neuroscientist Jeff Fannin post-Psych-K, as evidenced by EEG readouts that indicate an altered brain activity pattern—a whole-brain function. Lipton himself had a positive experience with Psych-K, seeing results that reinforced the process's effectiveness, without fully understanding what or how it worked.

Positive Affirmations and Habits Can Reprogram the Subconscious

Lipton stresses the importance of feeding the subconscious with positive present-tense affirmations before sleeping, as these thoughts can ferment in the mind and influence subconscious programming. Suggested affirmations include statements like "I deserve" or "I am healthy, I am wealthy."

He suggests that when mindfulness is challenging, reprogramming the subconscious is an alternative for manifesting desires and a ...

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  • Muscle testing as a diagnostic tool for uncovering subconscious beliefs is not universally accepted in the scientific community, and its efficacy and reliability have been questioned due to a lack of empirical evidence and potential for bias or the placebo effect.
  • The claims about Psych-K's ability to rapidly rewrite subconscious programming in as little as 15 minutes are not supported by extensive peer-reviewed research, and the technique may not have the same effects for everyone.
  • EEG readouts post-Psych-K may not conclusively prove that the technique induces a whole-brain function, as EEG patterns can be influenced by a variety of factors and may not directly correlate with subconscious reprogramming.
  • The effectiveness of positive affirmations is debated, with some research suggesting that for individuals with low self-esteem, positive affirmations can actually have a counterproductive effect, leading to feelings of lower self-worth.
  • The idea that the subconscious is active 95% of the time and that reprogramming it is an effective alternative to mindfulness may oversimplify the complex interplay between conscious and subconscious processes and the role of mindfulness in psych ...

Actionables

  • You can integrate muscle testing into your daily decision-making by using it to check your gut feelings about simple choices. Start with non-critical decisions like choosing what to eat for lunch or which exercise to do. Pay attention to how your muscles respond to each option and notice if there's a pattern of muscle response that correlates with better outcomes for you.
  • Create a bedtime affirmation ritual by recording your own voice saying positive affirmations and play them as you fall asleep. Choose affirmations that resonate with your goals and aspirations, ensuring they are in the present tense. Listening to your own voice can enhance the personal connection and potentially increase the influence on your subconscious.
  • Develop a 'thought interruption' technique by wearing a unique ...

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Self-Love, Consciousness, and Intentionality in Manifesting Abundance

Bruce Lipton delves into the psychology of self-love, consciousness, and the power of intentionality in creating and manifesting a life of abundance.

Most Hold a Belief Of Lacking Self-Love

Without Self-Acceptance, We Can't Care For Ourselves or Create the Life We Want

Lipton discusses the central role of self-love in personal care and living a fulfilled life. He observes that a vast majority of people do not believe in the affirmation "I love myself," which is indicative of a widespread lack of self-love. He suggests that without self-acceptance, people cannot properly care for themselves or create the life they want. Lipton remarks that this lack of self-love could be so profound that individuals might care for their pets better than for themselves.

Presence and Awareness Shift Reality From Negativity

Recognizing Self-Criticism or Victim Mentality Lets Us Choose a Different Response

Lipton warns against disempowerment that stems from perceiving oneself as a victim, a mindset that robs individuals of agency and the capacity to shape their lives according to their desires. He explains that an awareness of this victim mindset allows for a more intentional response to life events. Lipton further notes how his own experience with self-criticism at a traffic light led to a conscious decision to tune into his thoughts and opt for a positive change.

Focus On Desires, Not Problems, to Create Our Lives

Action on Goals Essential For Manifesting Abundance

Lipton argues that shifting one’s focus from problems to desires is instrumental in manifesting an abundant life. He emphasizes focusing on affirmations in the present tense, such as "I deserve," instead of fixating on future aspirations with phrases like "I will be." Lipton brings up quantum physics to support the idea that individ ...

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  • The belief in the power of affirmations and self-love, while beneficial for some, may not address deeper psychological issues that require professional therapy or medical intervention.
  • The concept of manifesting abundance through intention and focus can be criticized for oversimplifying complex socioeconomic factors that affect an individual's ability to achieve their goals.
  • The idea that individuals are creators of their reality might be seen as ignoring or minimizing the impact of external factors such as systemic inequality, discrimination, or random chance.
  • The use of quantum physics to support the idea of manifesting reality is often criticized as a misinterpretation or misuse of scientific concepts.
  • The notion that focusing on desires rather than problems can lead to abundance may not always be practical, as some problems require direct attention and action to be resolved.
  • The emphasis on individua ...

Actionables

  • You can create a self-love jar where you write down one thing you appreciate about yourself each day and place it in the jar. This practice encourages you to focus on your positive attributes and fosters self-acceptance. Over time, you'll accumulate a collection of personal affirmations that you can read whenever you need a self-esteem boost.
  • Start a "pet care for me" routine where you mirror the care you give to your pet for yourself. If you take your dog for a walk, ensure you also do something active for yourself. If you feed your pet high-quality food, choose nutritious options for your meals too. This strategy helps you equate the love you have for your pet with the love you should have for yourself.
  • Implement a "vision board action plan" by creating a vision board with images and phrases that rep ...

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