Book SummaryThree Cups of Tea, by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin

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Western culture often has a distorted view of the people who inhabit the world’s most remote regions—how they live, what they believe, and what it takes for them to survive from day to day. In particular, the media paints Pakistan and Afghanistan as little more than war-torn havens for terrorists, but that portrayal denies the values, cultures, and experiences of those who’ve lived there in peace for generations, struggling to get by without access to things richer nations take for granted, including roads, potable water, and basic education. Nevertheless, these people show kindness and resilience far beyond the stereotypes foisted on them.

That was the lesson Greg Mortenson says he learned in the remote village of Korphe, Pakistan. In Three Cups of Tea (2006), he recounts how the people of Korphe nursed him to health after a failed mountain climbing expedition. Mortenson pledged to repay them by building a school for their village, an endeavor that would require years of work while growing into an even larger goal—to empower whole communities by bringing education to an often-ignored region.

The son of Lutheran missionaries, Mortenson grew up in Tanzania, where he learned to appreciate the diverse cultures he was exposed to. In the US, he pursued a nursing career, driven by his desire to care for his sister, who struggled with epilepsy. During this time, he also began mountain climbing, a passion that would eventually lead to the events that defined his life’s mission. Mortenson’s coauthor, David Oliver Relin, was an international journalist and contributor to...

Three Cups of Tea Summary A School at the Edge of the World

Mortenson’s tale begins with him lost on a glacier flowing down from the heights of the Karakoram mountains in Pakistan. His subsequent encounter with the people of that region would open his eyes to the hardships they suffer and kindle his desire to help. Relin describes Mortenson’s relationship with the village of Korphe, his efforts in the US and Pakistan to gather the resources they needed, and the many years it took to realize his goal.

The region to which Mortenson had traveled is known as Baltistan, a land of high peaks, deep valleys, and ice flows tucked into Pakistan’s far northeastern corner. Relin explains that the Balti people descended from Tibetan Buddhists who moved into the region and converted to Islam. They had lived there quietly for six centuries and were largely ignored by Pakistan’s government, which focused most of its funding on its conflict with India. The only Westerners who came to Baltistan were mountaineers trying to scale K2—the world’s second-highest mountain, and one that’s considered even harder to climb than Everest.

(Shortform note: The [earliest known historical reference to the Balti...

Three Cups of Tea Summary The Central Asia Institute

For Mortenson, 1996 was a pivotal year. In addition to finishing construction on the school in Korphe, his passion project to help the Pakistani people turned into a full-time career. This began with the founding of the Central Asia Institute (CAI), which led to a dramatic increase in how much Mortenson could accomplish—but also to unexpected pushback.

Relin explains that Hoerni, now diagnosed with terminal leukemia, suggested that Mortenson should establish an organization with the express mission to build schools in Pakistan. Mortenson founded the CAI with a $1 million gift from Hoerni, which provided him a salary, funding for continued work abroad, and the wherewithal to recruit a board of directors to oversee the institution’s efforts. Hoerni died in January 1997, not long after seeing photos of the school he’d helped to build.

(Shortform note: If Mortenson’s efforts were already succeeding in Pakistan, then what additional function would the CAI serve, and why did it need a board of directors? The answers are logistical, financial, and legal: Just like a small...

Three Cups of Tea Summary The Lessons of Pakistan

Mortenson’s decade-long mission of building schools didn’t just bring education to Pakistan. He frequently suggests that there are also lessons that Western nations should take to heart regarding their assumptions about people who live in impoverished regions. These include the importance of listening to other cultures, the high value everyone places on education, and that ignorance is the true source of global discord.

Respect for Other Cultures

While Mortenson brought schools and other services to Pakistan’s outlying villages, he developed an appreciation for the ways in which their culture surpassed his own. He specifically comments on how people in Pakistan welcome strangers, practice patience, and build community.

First and foremost, Mortenson describes how Pakistanis use ritual and tradition to bring people together. In this, tea plays a central role. Mortenson frequently recalls casual meetings, important discussions, and negotiations that all begin with sharing tea and conversation. As Haji Ali explained to him, when you repeatedly sit down with someone over tea, they go from being outsiders to friends, and eventually become part of your family. The other...

Shortform Exercise: Learning From Other Cultures

Mortenson’s time in Pakistan gave him a powerful appreciation for the people of that country, including their cultural practices and their everyday way of life. Think about any significant experiences you’ve had with other cultures, what you may have learned from them, and any personal actions that experience may have inspired.

What was the most eye-opening aspect of your experience with another culture? In particular, is there anything you envied about that other culture that you’d want to incorporate into your daily life?