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Important and memorable moments—the grand events of your life that make you who you are, like your wedding or the first time you met your grandchild—are naturally meaningful to you. But smaller, everyday experiences—like a day at the beach or a fulfilling conversation with a friend—hold just as much power.

According to authors Chip and Dan Heath, these daily defining moments—short, memorable experiences that are meaningful to you—are happening around you constantly. You can learn to recognize their potential and apply time, effort, and strategic thought to turn them into defining moments that shape memories or change perceptions.

Investing in these smaller moments can enhance your life in myriad ways. A well-engineered defining moment can have a tangible outcome like increased revenue from satisfied clients or improved test scores from motivated students. Other times, you’ll create defining moments with a more personal objective—deeper relationships with your friends and family, a better understanding of yourself and your values and motivations, or mentees who are confident in taking on new challenges.

(Shortform note: Several reviewers of The Power of Moments questioned whether defining moments can ever feel “real” if they’re engineered. This criticism misses a central idea of the Heaths’ argument—defining moments already exist and therefore are genuine. “Engineering” moments doesn’t mean staging a false event—it simply means giving attention and effort to important events that might otherwise go undetected.)

What Makes for a Defining Moment

Before they get into different methods of creating such moments, the Heaths discuss two foundational aspects of defining moments: They’re both meaningful and memorable.

The Four Elements That Create Meaning

To engineer meaning, the Heaths say your moment should incorporate at least one of four emotion-boosting elements:

  1. Elevation: The moment is elevated beyond everyday experience, either through sensory pleasures or the element of surprise.
  2. Insight: The moment helps you discover something new about the world or yourself. Often, these moments have a transformative and influential effect on the course of your life.
  3. Pride: The moment gives you a sense of validation around your achievements or a sense of pride in your actions.
  4. Connection: The moment makes you feel more deeply connected to whoever shares it with you, and strengthens your relationship with them.
Shortform Commentary: Where These Four Elements Come From

The Heaths don’t note the exact research that led them to these four elements, but their ideas align closely with those of psychologist Abraham Maslow. Maslow is well-known for his “hierarchy of needs”, which describes the requirements for a person to become self-actualizing—constantly growing, discovering, and finding meaning in her life. There are five tiers to the hierarchy:

  • Level 1: physiological needs such as food, water, and shelter.
  • Level 2: safety needs such as physical health or law and order.
  • Level 3: needs of belonging such as relationships and connectedness.
  • Level 4: needs of esteem such as self-worth, respect, and achievement.
  • Level 5: needs of self-actualization such as personal growth, peak experiences, and reaching your potential.

The Heaths’ four elements align with Maslow’s three “higher needs” of self-actualization, esteem, and belonging:

  • Elevation: Self-actualizing people are capable of experiencing “transcendent” moments, or moments elevated above the everyday experience that create a sense of delight, wonder, and surprise.
  • Insight: Insight is the core of the self-actualization tier of the hierarchy. As we’ll discuss, insight leads to personal growth, discovery, and a realization of your potential.
  • Pride: Pride is the core of the esteem tier of the hierarchy. As we’ll discuss, pride helps you feel achievement and respect and increases your sense of self-worth.
  • Connection: Connection is the core of the belonging tier of the hierarchy. As we’ll discuss, connection can strengthen your bonds with groups or in personal relationships.

In short, elevation, insight, pride, and connection are the elements that allow humans to live, not simply survive.

What Makes a Moment Memorable?

While the Heaths discuss what makes a moment meaningful, they don’t delve into what makes it memorable, which is the second characteristic of a defining moment. In order to be memorable, most defining moments should have an aspect of novelty or unexpectedness. Unexpectedness is important because when you experience emotions in a moment of surprise, you experience them more intensely than you would in an “everyday” situation.

  • For instance, the joy of spending time with your friends isn’t as intense as the joy of being surprised with a puppy for your birthday.

These high-intensity emotions send a signal to your brain that something important is happening—your brain responds by paying more attention than usual to the event at hand, while blocking out unrelated, external stimuli.

Moments Defined by Elevation

Moments defined by elevation transcend everyday patterns and impart positive feelings like delight, motivation, and engagement. In short, elevated moments are the positive peaks that you look back on fondly.

(Shortform note: In his hierarchy, Maslow lists “peak experiences'' as a component of the highest need, self-actualization. Maslow described peak experiences as...

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Shortform Introduction

In The Power of Moments, brothers Chip and Dan Heath examine what makes certain moments more special or memorable than others. They propose four elements—elevation, insight, pride, and connection—you can engineer into small, everyday moments to make them exceptional. These lessons are applicable in all areas of life: Make richer memories with your children, increase employee loyalty, and give clients an experience they’ll never forget.

About the Authors

Chip and Dan Heath are brothers and co-authors. Chip is a professor of organizational behavior at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Additionally, he’s worked with 530 startups, helping them refine their business strategies and missions. Dan is a senior fellow at the Duke University CASE center, where he works with social entrepreneurs, helping them broaden their impact and fight for social good.

Together, they’ve written four bestselling books: Made to Stick, Switch, Decisive, and The Power of Moments. Their...

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Chapter 1: The Psychology Behind Memory

Large, important moments of your life—such as your wedding or the birth of your first child—naturally stand out in your memory. What’s less obvious is that with a bit of thought and effort, you can engineer small, everyday moments to stand out in your memory just as much as these big moments.

These small, memorable experiences are called defining moments because they have the potential to change the way you think, shape your perceptions of an experience, or establish new connections.

Two Psychological Phenomena That Form Defining Moments

Before trying to engineer memorable moments, it’s important to understand how memory works. There are two psychological phenomena that determine which experiences tend to stand out in your memory.

1) The Peak-End Rule

It’s obvious why some events—like marriage, or having kids—would stand out on the timeline of your life. But what about smaller, simpler moments such as a particular family vacation or an outing with a friend?

Typically, the way you recall special memories is shaped by the “peak-end rule,” proposed by psychologists Barbara Frederickson and Daniel Kahneman (author of _[Thinking, Fast and...

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Shortform Exercise: Reexamine Your Defining Moments

Defining moments are small, everyday events that are meaningful and memorable. Looking back at your own experiences is a good way to understand how small moments can stand out in your memory.


Think back on the past few months and pick out a small, everyday moment (like getting dinner with friends, taking a day trip with a spouse, or spending time with your kids) that was meaningful to you. Describe the event.

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Chapter 2: How to See the Potential for Defining Moments

There’s a common misconception that defining moments are large milestone events—such as the birth of your child—or simply happen as a matter of pure serendipity—such as going to a café and bumping into the woman you’ll marry. However, the Heaths emphasize that most defining moments happen in small, everyday events, and what makes them stand out is how you shape them by investing your time, effort, and strategic thought.

(Shortform note: As we noted in our introduction, the publication of the Heaths’ book coincided with a growing trend of people trying to engage more mindfully with their lives. Their central argument that defining moments happen in small, special instances likely strikes a chord with people living mindfully because focusing on the significance of small moments is a central practice of mindfulness.)

Investing in these moments allows you to build a richer life for yourself and others. By seizing on the potential of small experiences, you can create deeper connections with the people around you, increase brand loyalty among satisfied clients, have a memorable influence on your students or employees,...

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Shortform Exercise: Find Opportunities for Defining Moments

Practice recognizing the importance of adding shape to small transitions and celebrating unseen milestones.


Think of your organization, your career, your classroom, or your relationship. What is a transition or milestone that could be better recognized? (For example, your child reading their 25th book or your transition back to playing a sport after recovering from an injury.)

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Chapters 3-4: Create Defining Moments With Elevation

Over the next four chapters, we’ll examine different ways to use the elements of elevation, insight, pride, and connection to turn everyday moments into unexpected, emotionally charged experiences that stand out against the flat background of life.

The first element we’ll discuss is elevation. Moments defined by elevation transcend everyday patterns and impart positive feelings like delight, motivation, and engagement. In short, elevated moments are the positive peaks that you look back on fondly.

(Shortform note: In his hierarchy, Maslow lists “peak experiences'' as a component of the highest need, self-actualization. Maslow described peak experiences as small, everyday events that give us a feeling of newness or delight—in other words, as with elevated moments, we transcend everyday dullness.)

Some of these positive peaks are naturally occurring in social moments like weddings and graduations, performance moments like playing in a big game or giving a talk in your field of expertise, and spontaneous moments like an unexpected upgrade on your flight....

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Shortform Exercise: Change Up Your Script

Thinking about and understanding the scripts in your everyday life is key to breaking routine and having more meaningful experiences.


Think of a “script” you follow in your everyday life (for example, driving to work with your spouse, your morning routine with your students, or happy hour with your colleagues) that you would like to make into a more meaningful experience and opportunity for connection. Describe the script.

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Chapters 5-6: Create Defining Moments With Insight

The second element you can use to create defining moments is insight. Moments defined by insight inspire realizations or transformations that affect your future choices and actions. Some of these are small, personal moments that hold special meaning for you—for example, finding your new signature drink after trying a new cocktail and realizing how delicious it is. However, this chapter will focus on the larger moments of discovery, those that deliver a shock that may change your way of thinking or even the course of your life. Moments of insight or discovery often come with strong emotions, both positive and negative.

What Insight Promises

Pushing our boundaries, risking failure, confronting uncomfortable truths—the Heaths admit that moments defined by insight aren’t always positive. Often they’re difficult or painful, and they’re certainly not meant to be seen as a promise of success. They are, however, always a promise of a learning opportunity.

The more moments you can define with insight, the better you can help others arrive at much-needed realizations and subscribe to the work of necessary transformations (which we’ll explore in Strategy 1),...

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Shortform Exercise: Engineer an Aha! Moment

Telling someone what they need to do is not nearly as effective as letting them realize on their own what they need to do. Think of someone you know who needs to confront an uncomfortable truth and how you might guide this person to make the realization themselves.


Remember the three elements of creating an effective moment of discovery: 1) have a clear conclusion in mind 2) keep the timeframe short 3) let your audience make the discovery themselves.

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Shortform Exercise: Explore Positive Outcomes of Risk

Exposing yourself to the risk of failure is frightening, but it’s a valuable learning opportunity.


Is there a situation you’re avoiding because of a fear of failure? Describe the situation and what you fear will happen.

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Chapters 7-9: Create Defining Moments With Pride

The third element you can use to create a defining moment is pride. Moments defined by pride surface and celebrate your best self—the “you” who earns recognition for their efforts, crushes ambitious goals, and acts with courage in situations that call for it.

The Heaths describe these moments as those that spark powerful feelings of accomplishment and motivation and serve to remind you of the value of your hard work. They caution against the misconception that hard work itself creates these defining moments—rather, instances of achievement (which we’ll discuss in Strategy 1), recognition (which we’ll discuss in Strategy 2), and acting as your best self (which we’ll discuss in Strategy 3) create pride, which enhances hard work in a meaningful and memorable way.

In this chapter, we’ll explore three strategies for multiplying instances of achievement and recognition:

  1. Build small, personally motivating “wins” into the journey toward a big goal.
  2. Recognize others’ efforts and make their progress visible.
  3. Prepare yourself to act with courage when necessary.

Strategy 1: Create and Celebrate Small Wins

The Heaths debunk a common misconception that _everyone...

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Shortform Exercise: Give Recognition and Break Down Goals

Moments of pride are a high return on a relatively small investment of your time and effort. Reflect on situations where you can put in that effort to create moments of pride for others through recognition, and for yourself through small wins.


Think of someone you know who deserves recognition. How can you personalize their recognition to make it a meaningful moment of pride for them?

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The Power of Moments Summary The Power of Moments Guide Chapters 10-12: Create Defining Moments With Connection

The fourth element you can use to create a defining moment is connection. Moments defined by connection are experiences that strengthen your relationships with other people. They stir up a host of positive emotions—validation, intimacy, empathy—that make you feel closer to and seen by the people around you.

In this chapter, we’ll first look into what types of experiences can strengthen group relationships, and then we’ll examine how you can deepen your personal relationships.

Part 1: Use Connection to Strengthen Group Relationships

Defining moments for groups happen in experiences that create a shared meaning for everyone present—experiences that underscore the mission everyone is working toward together. These experiences are essential for reminding the group members that they’re united in something important and larger than themselves.

There are three steps to create moments of connection for groups: 1) Create a shared moment, 2) Allow for voluntary struggle, and 3) Reconnect members with their work’s meaning.

Why These Three Strategies Strengthen Groups

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Shortform Exercise: Recognize Opportunities for Responsiveness

Opportunities to deepen our relationships with others are all around us, but we often miss them. Practice recognizing these opportunities and others’ attempts to connect with you. Use the three elements of responsiveness—understanding, respect, and support—as your guide.


Think of a moment of connection that you may have missed recently: Someone offered you vulnerability, but you didn’t reciprocate responsiveness. How did you respond to them?

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Shortform Exercise: Practice Responsiveness and Vulnerability

A key to strengthening your ties with the people around you is to practice responsiveness and be willing to show vulnerability. This exercise will help you think about how you can practice both of these elements in your personal relationships.


Think of someone with whom you would like to strengthen your relationship. (Do you and your coworker routinely resort to talking about the weather because you don't really know each other? Are you holding back from telling your professor how much her class has helped you through this year because your relationship has never extended past the classroom?) Describe your current dynamic.

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Table of Contents

  • 1-Page Summary
  • Shortform Introduction
  • Chapter 1: The Psychology Behind Memory
  • Exercise: Reexamine Your Defining Moments
  • Chapter 2: How to See the Potential for Defining Moments
  • Exercise: Find Opportunities for Defining Moments
  • Chapters 3-4: Create Defining Moments With Elevation
  • Exercise: Change Up Your Script
  • Chapters 5-6: Create Defining Moments With Insight
  • Exercise: Engineer an Aha! Moment
  • Exercise: Explore Positive Outcomes of Risk
  • Chapters 7-9: Create Defining Moments With Pride
  • Exercise: Give Recognition and Break Down Goals
  • Chapters 10-12: Create Defining Moments With Connection
  • Exercise: Recognize Opportunities for Responsiveness
  • Exercise: Practice Responsiveness and Vulnerability