In The In-Between, Hadley Vlahos shares her experiences as a hospice nurse, providing a unique perspective on the end-of-life journey. Through a series of patient stories, she explores the concept of "The In-Between"—a space where both suffering and sacred experiences coexist. Vlahos offers insights into the mechanics, philosophy, and art of hospice care, highlighting the importance of comfort, presence, and spiritual connection in the final stages of life.
Vlahos is a registered nurse and hospice care provider who...
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We begin by discussing the mechanics, philosophy, and art of end-of-life care.
Vlahos describes how hospice care focuses on comfort rather than aggressive treatment. Its goal is to comfort people in their final stages, not to treat their illness. This means avoiding unnecessary tests and not connecting them to equipment for monitoring.
(Shortform note: In some cases, hospice patients may still receive tests or be connected to equipment. For example, in inpatient hospice units, patients often have rapidly changing symptoms that require close monitoring and frequent adjustments to their medications.)
Let’s now review the delivery of hospice services and explore their medical and regulatory aspects.
Hospice care involves a team of professionals who provide support to patients and their families. Vlahos notes that it can be expensive if insurance doesn't cover it. Although Medicare funds a hospice nurse, the caregiver remains responsible for the patient’s daily care.
The hospice team includes a nurse, a nursing assistant, a counselor, and a chaplain. The nurse comes one...
Vlahos describes "The In-Between" as a space where both suffering and sacred experiences coexist. It's a place where you can acknowledge that negative events occur in the world while also appreciating the spiritual experiences you have in your work and life, knowing that both are equally real.
(Shortform note: Anthropologist Victor Turner’s concept of “liminality” offers a useful framework for understanding Vlahos’s idea of “The In-Between.” In The Ritual Process, Turner describes liminality as a threshold state in which people are “betwixt and between” the ordinary social order. In this liminal space, people can...
The In-Between
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Reflect on the concept of "The In-Between" as described by Hadley Vlahos, focusing on how hospice care plays a role in this experience.
What does the idea of "The In-Between" mean to you, and how do you see it relating to the experiences of those in hospice care?