Krznaric argues that humanity faces a "time-based conflict" between the prevailing forces of thinking short-term and the urgent need to develop longer-term perspectives. This struggle plays out in our individual lives, in institutions, and in our vision for the future of civilization. In order to be "good ancestors," we should understand the factors that draw us to immediate gratification and the tools that can help us extend our time horizons.
Understanding how our brains work is a vital initial step toward becoming "good ancestors," capable of thinking and acting with humanity's future welfare in mind. Within our brains, two competing systems influence our temporal perspective: the "marshmallow" mind and the "acorn" mind.
Krznaric uses the phrase "marshmallow brain" to describe our tendency to prioritize immediate pleasures and rewards. This tendency to favor the present over what comes next has evolutionary roots. In the habitats that shaped human evolution, immediate needs for food and safety were paramount. Our minds created systems to prioritize immediate gratification and respond rapidly to threats. This hardwiring for thinking in the short term continues to influence us, sometimes to our detriment.
Krznaric highlights how the reward centers in our minds motivate us to seek immediate satisfaction and gratification. While these systems have positive aspects, they can also lead to addictions and rash behaviors. Our tendency to overconsume, for example, is a holdover from a past shaped by evolution when resources were scarce and competition fierce. Now, when confronted with manufactured desires and endless consumer goods, these in-built drives drive excessive resource use harmful to the planet in the long run. He uses the famous "marshmallow test" as an illustrative example: children receive a treat and are told they'll receive a second if they can refrain from consuming the first for a brief time. Most people can't defer satisfaction, choosing immediate enjoyment over a later reward. Krznaric acknowledges the power of these short-term instincts, but argues that such impulses are only one element in our relationship with time.
Practical Tips
- Use a "temptation bundling" technique by pairing a task you've been putting off with an immediate pleasure. For example, if you need to exercise but find it tedious, only allow yourself to watch your favorite TV show while on the treadmill or doing home workouts. This way, the immediate pleasure of the show becomes a reward for doing the exercise, helping you to overcome the pull of the "marshmallow brain."
- Create a "gratification gradient" chart where you plot activities on a scale from immediate to delayed gratification. For example, eating a snack might be on the immediate end, while completing a professional certification might be on the delayed end. Use this chart to plan your week, ensuring you include activities that promote delayed gratification, helping you to gradually shift your habits towards those that offer long-term benefits.
- Implement a "two-minute rule" for tasks that feel threatening or overwhelming. When facing a daunting task, commit to working on it for just two minutes. Often, starting is the hardest part, and once you've begun, the threat diminishes, and you're likely to continue working beyond the initial two minutes, making progress on the task.
- Implement a "10-10-10 rule" for decision-making. Before making a choice, consider how it will affect you in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years. This simple mental exercise can help you evaluate the impact of your decisions on different time scales and prioritize those with beneficial long-term effects.
- Use a two-account savings system where one account is for immediate needs and the other is for long-term goals. Transfer a small, manageable amount to the long-term account each time you resist an impulsive purchase. This visual representation of your savings growing can reinforce the value of delayed gratification and help you resist the urge for immediate satisfaction.
- You can track your daily habits to identify potential addictive patterns by keeping a simple journal. Note down activities that you feel compelled to do repeatedly, especially those that provide instant gratification, like scrolling through social media or online shopping. After a week, review your entries to spot any concerning trends and consider setting specific limits for these activities.
- Implement a "one in, one out" rule to maintain a balanced quantity of possessions. Whenever you bring a new item into your home, choose an existing item to donate or recycle. This practice encourages you to consider the value and utility of what you own and prevents the accumulation of unnecessary goods.
- Create a personal "resource budget" for different categories of consumption, such as energy, water, and goods. Allocate a specific amount you're allowed to use each month, similar to a financial budget, and track your usage. This can help you set tangible limits on your resource use and strive to stay within those limits. For example, you might set a budget for how many kilowatt-hours of electricity you can use per month and then take steps like turning off lights when not in use to stay within that budget.
Fortunately, we’re more than marshmallow snatchers. Krznaric points out that a key feature of human evolution is the development of forward-thinking capabilities, which he calls the "acorn brain." This part of our evolved neurobiology makes us "Homo prospectus," beings that "prospect" numerous possible futures. This ability for foresight enables humans to imagine, plan, and get ready to meet future needs and...
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Krznaric argues that central to acting as positive predecessors is expanding our sphere of responsibility to include the vast majority of future humans. To counter the inherent bias toward present needs, we must develop compelling rationales for valuing the welfare of future people and build institutional mechanisms that can safeguard their long-term interests.
Krznaric presents four powerful arguments for justice across generations, grounded in responsibility, equity, empathy, and the lasting welfare of humanity. These ethical frameworks offer a strong counter-argument to economic theories like discounting that devalue future generations' moral worth.
Krznaric explains this argument using an example of an arrow shot into the woods that may harm someone far in the distance. We have a responsibility to consider not only present but future consequences of our actions, just as we should anticipate the possible impact of an arrow moving through the temporal woods, potentially striking generations long into the future. This argument is often applied to the problem...
Despite the strong influence of short-term thinking in human nature and our institutions, Krznaric contends that focusing on a longer time frame is a key ingredient in humanity's remarkable historical achievements. From ancient pyramid builders to today's ambitious engineers, humans have repeatedly demonstrated the ability to envision initiatives that span several decades or even centuries ahead. Moreover, historical examples show that emergencies can become powerful catalysts for generating and implementing long-term oriented solutions and reforms.
Krznaric argues that humans excel at long-term planning and presents a range of evidence to support this claim. From ancient pyramids to more recent feats of civil engineering, humans have shown the capacity to commit to projects that take decades or even centuries to complete and to ensure that they are designed to last through multiple generations.
Through an extensive catalogue of projects spanning five millennia, Krznaric highlights the enduring power of a future-oriented...
The Good Ancestor
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