Book SummaryJump and Find Joy, by Hoda Kotb

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If there’s one thing scarier than taking a risk, it’s looking back and wondering “What if?” This mindset has been the driving force behind journalist Hoda Kotb’s many leaps into unfamiliar territory. To her, it’s better to jump and stumble than not to jump at all. Jump and Find Joy reveals what Kotb has learned from embracing the pivotal changes in her life—some intentional (like adopting a child at the age of 52) and others unexpected (like being diagnosed with breast cancer). She also shares insights from psychologists and neuroscientists, as well as wisdom from personalities like actress Viola Davis and entrepreneur Bethenny Frankel, who’ve similarly embraced big changes.

Kotb was born in Norman, Oklahoma in 1964 and grew up in West Virginia and Virginia. After obtaining a broadcast...

Jump and Find Joy Summary Part 1: The Many Leaps of Hoba Kotb

Kotb was one of three children born to Egyptian parents Abdel and Sameha (Sami) Kotb, who’d moved to the United States from Cairo just one week after getting married. Abdel pursued a PhD on a full scholarship from the University of Oklahoma; Sami had a law degree that wasn’t recognized in the US, so she obtained a master’s degree in library science.

Kotb says that her family moved frequently, as her father’s career took them to different places. At one point, Abdel served as the chairman of a university department but had the lowest salary, despite having better credentials than other employees. When he asked for a promotion, he was told he had no opportunities for further growth. Rather than accept his lot, he moved on.

The Immigrant Experience in the US

Like the Kotbs, many Egyptians left their country beginning in the 1950s in search of educational and professional opportunities. This was influenced by political and economic changes in Egypt, including greater state control over institutions and limited local pathways for some...

Jump and Find Joy Summary Part 2: How to Jump and Find Joy

As Kotb’s experiences illustrate, jumps often lead to better things—even when you initially stumble. However, many people are afraid to take a leap toward a new phase in life. In this section, we’ll discuss Kotb’s advice to help you prepare for a jump, make your landing smoother, and ultimately find joy.

1. Embrace Change and Trust Your Timing

Kotb says the first step is accepting that change isn’t an occasional disruption to a stable life; rather, it’s the engine of a meaningful one. She argues that instead of waiting for something to go wrong before making a move, you can jump toward something better at any time. For example, you might end a relationship on good terms when neither you nor your partner is growing anymore rather than waiting for resentment to build or for a big fight to happen.

(Shortform note: In The Next Day, Melinda French Gates expands on the idea of change, saying it’s inevitable and universal, and we should see it as a natural part of the human experience. She writes specifically about transitions, changes that involve...

Shortform Exercise: Prepare for Your Own Jump

Kotb suggests that meaningful change isn’t something to wait for but something you can step toward intentionally, with honesty, preparation, and support.

Think about an area of your life (such as work, relationships, or creativity) where you feel some tension or restlessness. What might a “jump” toward something better look like?