Grenny, Patterson, et al. argue that being a leader involves more than simply having a good vision or coming up with great ideas. According to the authors, successful leaders stand out because they can intentionally influence others' behavior to realize their visions, achieve their goals, and implement their concepts. Simply put, true leadership is active; it encourages and empowers people to alter their actions to produce positive results.
A key differentiator of truly effective leaders is their capacity to drive fast, significant, and enduring changes in behavior. Such leaders don’t merely stumble into successful outcomes; they develop repeatable frameworks for achieving consistent, widespread, and lasting changes in the way people act. To demonstrate this principle, the authors showcase a few different leaders who have successfully tackled challenges in areas that have been prone to failure for a long time.
One such leader is Danny Meyer, a New York restaurateur, who has found ways to guide more than 1,500 employees across his restaurants to consistently deliver extraordinary customer experiences. Whether it's a waiter offering a frantic patron a free meal or arranging a late-night cab ride to help a new mother get home, Danny Meyer's employees routinely act in ways that set them apart, and those actions are essential to Meyer's success. Meyer believes that his method of intentionally guiding how he influences people is what sets him apart from others in his field.
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- Clear and persuasive communication is crucial for leaders to articulate the vision and rationale behind changes. This helps in aligning team members with the goals and ensuring everyone understands their role in the process.
- Effective leaders often use structured approaches, such as models or systems, to guide behavior change. These frameworks can include setting clear goals, providing feedback, and creating accountability mechanisms.
- Danny Meyer is known for his "enlightened hospitality" philosophy, which emphasizes the importance of both employee satisfaction and customer experience. This approach suggests that happy employees are more likely to provide exceptional service.
- Employees are empowered to...
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The authors’ framework for understanding why people behave the way they do begins by recognizing that all human actions are shaped by a complex interaction of six different sources of influence. These sources fall into two categories: drivers and dimensions.
The first two ways people are influenced are the answer to two simple questions everyone asks:
1. Am I capable? Do I have the ability?
2. Will the outcome be rewarding? (Do I have the motivation?)
Intrinsic motivation and capability examine what's happening inside individuals themselves to understand their actions and how you might assist in changing them. They are the two factors that drive actions.
Grenny, Patterson, et al. argue that many of the actions we fail to sustain that would improve our lives fall into this category. In other words, bad actions are often pleasurable, while positive actions are frequently unpleasant. For example, eating candy is more immediately satisfying than munching on baby carrots, and resting is easier than starting to exercise. But such challenges are not just personal. These...
The authors’ Crucial Influence framework serves as a diagnostic tool to more effectively think through and solve persuasion issues. This framework is built on six influencing factors, which should be assessed to craft influence strategies that produce lasting results.
There are six influence factors: (1) individual motivation, (2) personal ability, (3) social drive, (4) social aptitude, (5) structural motivation, and (6) structural competence.
Grenny, Patterson, et al. urge readers to overcome the tendency to address an influence challenge with just one concept centered on a single influence source. Just as it’s much easier to move a stalled car with six strong people working together than one strong person pushing alone, complex behavior change happens faster by engaging multiple influences in support of crucial behaviors. The authors introduce the concept of overdetermining success to describe their observation that the best leaders utilize every source of influence to ensure change happens. This means altering the context where people make decisions to tip the scales toward...
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Along with the three fundamental aspects of persuasion, the authors also offer specific advice for leading change.
Grenny, Patterson, et al. emphasize that before leaders try to engage others in change efforts, they must first look at their own actions. In other words, they suggest that a vital aspect of influence is to “walk the talk.” When others observe that their leaders are modeling the behavior they’re advocating, they are much more inclined to follow suit. They're less inclined to view calls to transform as cynical or manipulative.
Furthermore, when those in leadership roles are advocating change that seems countercultural or potentially hazardous, they can use sacrifice to build credibility and speed up progress. For example, a new CEO of a South Sudan telecommunication company was struggling to get his employees to question established practices. When employees saw that their CEO, Muhammad Siddiqui, made the effort to sacrifice time, money, and prestige by visiting some of the lowest level employees in their modest homes, their mistrust waned and they were more willing...
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