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SYSK’s Fall True Crime Playlist: The Tale of the Bloody Benders

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In this episode of Stuff You Should Know, the hosts explore the story of the Bender family, a group of alleged German immigrants who operated a deadly homestead in 1870s Kansas. Against the backdrop of a lawless frontier where settlers and criminals alike sought new beginnings, the Benders—consisting of Pa, Ma, John Jr., and Kate—established themselves as seemingly ordinary homesteaders while concealing their true nature.

The episode details how the family used an elaborate trap door system to murder and rob travelers, with Kate's claims of spiritual powers helping to lure victims. The hosts examine the investigation that ultimately exposed their crimes, sparked by the disappearance of a prominent doctor, and discuss various theories about the Benders' fate after they fled their blood-stained property, leaving behind a mystery that remains unsolved to this day.

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Violent and Lawless Frontier of 1870s Kansas

Kansas in the 1870s was a dangerous frontier where the Osage people had been displaced and settlers, including criminals fleeing their pasts, were invited by the federal government to claim land. The state was marked by violence, with ongoing conflicts between pro-slavery and anti-slavery factions, and wars against Native Americans. This volatile climate created perfect conditions for criminals to operate undetected, as people frequently went missing without investigation.

The Members and Peculiarities of the Bender Family

The Bender family, posing as German immigrants, consisted of four distinct characters. Pa Bender, possibly named John Flickinger, was a quiet older man who rarely spoke. Ma Bender, believed to be Almira Meek, was known for her violent temper and initially pretended she couldn't speak English. John Jr., who used the alias John Gerhardt, exhibited strange behavior and inappropriate laughter. Kate Bender, who may have actually been Eliza Griffith, attracted visitors to their homestead by advertising her services as a medium and embracing spiritualism.

The Benders' Murderous Activities and Methods

The family devised a methodical approach to murder, using a trap door and curtain system in their home. When guests were seated for meals, their silhouettes would be visible against the curtain, making them easy targets for bludgeoning with a hammer or axe, followed by throat-slitting. The bodies were then robbed and either buried in the family's orchard or dumped in Drum Creek. Their efficient methods helped them avoid detection for an extended period.

The Investigation and Discovery of the Benders' Crimes

The disappearance of several travelers, including Dr. William York, brother of a Kansas senator, led to growing suspicion. A search party of about 75 men, led by Colonel Alexander York, investigated the property after the Benders had attended a town meeting where they agreed to property searches. Investigators discovered a blood-stained trap door and multiple bodies buried in the orchard, but the family had already fled before they could be captured.

Aftermath and Speculation Around Bender Family's Fate

The fate of the Bender family remains unknown, despite numerous unconfirmed sightings and theories. Laura Ingalls Wilder shared a family story suggesting vigilantes dealt with the Benders, though this is questioned due to the substantial unclaimed reward for their capture. Various accounts suggest different endings for family members, including Pa Bender's alleged suicide in Lake Michigan and John Jr.'s supposed death by stroke in Texas-New Mexico, but none have been confirmed.

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  • Explore your local history by visiting a nearby historical society or museum to learn about the events and figures that shaped your area. By understanding the past, you can gain a deeper appreciation for the present and recognize patterns that have persisted through time, similar to how the Bender family's story reflects the broader context of 1870s Kansas.
  • Start a journal to document your family's oral histories and anecdotes, ensuring that stories like Laura Ingalls Wilder's account of the Benders are preserved for future generations. This practice not only keeps family lore alive but also serves as a personal archive that can be valuable for historical research or simply for your descendants to understand their heritage.
  • Engage in creative writing by crafting a short story inspired by the mysterious fate of the Bender family, using your imagination to fill in the gaps of history. This exercise can enhance your creativity, provide a new perspective on historical events, and develop your storytelling skills, all while paying homage to the intrigue of unsolved mysteries.

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Violent and Lawless Frontier of 1870s Kansas

Kansas in the 1870s: A Lawless Frontier of Slavery Conflicts and Native American Displacement

Kansas in the 1870s, described as beyond the frontier, was a land from which the Osage people had been displaced. The federal government invited people to settle the land, including criminals, unsavory characters, and individuals fleeing from their pasts. The state was a hotbed of violence at the time, with wars against Native Americans and fierce conflicts between pro-slavery and anti-slavery factions that committed atrocities against one another. The wider struggle over whether Kansas would enter the Union as a free or slave state influenced the course of the Civil War.

Kansas Settlement Attracted Unsavory Characters and Fleeing Criminals

One infamous example of the dangerous individuals drawn to Kansas was the Bender family, who began to murder people shortly after setting up their homestead along the Osage Trail. Their presence contributed to the already violent reputation of the state, heightened by the ongoing conflicts and the upheaval of the Civil War era.

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  • You can explore historical empathy by writing a fictional diary entry from the perspective of someone living in 1870s Kansas. Imagine the challenges and daily life of a settler, an Osage individual, or even a traveler encountering the Benders. This exercise can deepen your understanding of the human experience during tumultuous times and the impact of historical events on individuals.
  • Create a modern-day safety guide for travelers inspired by the perils faced by travelers in 1870s Kansas. While the context has changed, the need for safety while traveling remains. Your guide could include tips on researching destinations, staying aware of one's surroundings, and using technology to stay connected with loved ones. This can be shared with friends and family to promote safe ...

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The Members and Peculiarities of the Bender Family

The Benders, a family with a reputation for oddity and violence, crafted mysterious identities for themselves as they posed as German immigrants in the American Midwest.

Bender Family: Four Individuals Posing As German Immigrants With Mysterious Identities

The Bender family consisted of four members, each with their own peculiarities and possible aliases.

Pa Bender, aka John Flickinger, Was a Quiet, Older Man Who Spoke Little English

John Bender Sr., or Pa Bender, was about 60 years old, hailed possibly from Germany or the Netherlands, and might have had the real name John Flickinger. He was not known to be talkative, preferring to communicate mostly in German when he did speak, which was rare.

Ma Bender's Real Name Was Likely Almira Meek; She Had a Violent Temper and Feigned Inability to Speak English

Ma Bender, who sometimes went by the name Elvira and could have been a woman named Almira Meek from upstate New York, had a volatile temper and often pretended she could not speak English. Initially feigning an inability to speak English as her "big joke," she would later reveal her fluency by flying into a violent rage, threatening to kill a woman she claimed was a witch. There were also suspicions that Ma Bender might have been previously married and her former husbands may have met violent ends from head wounds.

John Bender Jr., aka John Gephardt, Was Strange, Laughing Inappropriately, Speaking With a German Accent

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  • You can explore historical fiction writing by creating a short story inspired by the Bender family, focusing on the dynamics and secrets within a family posing as something they're not. Start by researching the era and setting to ensure authenticity, then develop characters based on the Bender family's traits, imagining their interactions and the unfolding of their secrets through a fictional narrative.
  • Develop a board game centered around mystery and deduction, using the Bender family's story as a backdrop. Players could take on the roles of townspeople trying to uncover the truth about a suspicious family in their midst, using clues and strategy to reveal identities and motives, all while the 'family' players work to conceal their true nature and objectives.
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The Benders' Murderous Activities and Methods

The investigation into the Bender family reveals a chilling and meticulous strategy for carrying out numerous murders with the intention of robbing travelers who passed their way.

Bender Family Used Trap Door to Ambush Travelers

During a grim inquiry, volunteers stumbled upon a horrifying discovery on the Bender property: a strategically placed trap door designed to ensnare unsuspecting victims.

Victims Behind a Curtain Bludgeoned With Hammer or Axe, Then Throats Slit

A closer look at the Bender family's modus operandi uncovers a systematic and brutal approach to murder. As guests were seated in front of a curtain for meals, the illumination from candlelight projected their silhouettes, making them clear targets. Without warning, the victims were struck from behind the curtain with the blunt end of an axe or a hammer.

Following the vicious blow to the head, the Benders would proceed to slit the victims' throats. This methodical and calculated scheme rendered the victims helpless, allowing the Benders to rob them with ease before disposing of their bodies.

Bodies Robbed, Buried In Orchard or Dumped In Creek

Investigators found a gruesome scene as they unearthed a dozen bodies buried in the Benders' orchard. Some victims were discarded in Drum Creek, signifying the Benders' nonchalant approach to the disposal of their victims.

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  • You can enhance your personal safety while traveling by researching and using modern security devices. For example, consider portable door locks or alarms that can be used in hotels or Airbnbs to prevent unauthorized entry, mirroring the vigilance that would have countered the Benders' trapdoor tactic.
  • Improve your financial literacy to understand and prevent potential fraud or theft. Take an online course or use apps that teach you how to recognize and protect against scams that prey on individuals, similar to how the Benders targeted travelers for financial gain.
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The Investigation and Discovery of the Benders' Crimes

As the number of travelers disappearing increased, suspicion fell on the Bender family, leading to a shocking investigation that uncovered a series of brutal murders.

Suspicion Grew At the Bender Homestead as Travelers Vanished, Prompting an Investigation

The series of murders and disappearances, including those of George Newton Longcore and his daughter Mary Ann, as well as Dr. William York, a physician who went investigating and then vanished, prompted intense suspicion. Dr. York's case, in particular, was alarming due to his connection as the brother of a Kansas senator. The abandoned horse and wagon belonging to Longcore near Fort Scott, Kansas, was part of what triggered the investigation into the Benders.

A search party of about 75 men, led by Colonel Alexander York, Dr. York's brother, was assembled to investigate the Bender's property. Amidst growing concerns about the bad reputation of the area and the series of missing persons, townspeople held a meeting to discuss the situation. Notably, both Pa and John Jr. Bender attended this meeting and joined the unanimous agreement to search everyone's homestead. In a display of feigned innocence, Pa Bender even invited others to search his own property.

Authorities Find Trap Door, Evidence of Family's Grisly Crimes In Cellar

During the investigation, authorities discovered a trap door covered by a bed, which when lifted, revealed clotted blood that led them to the cellar beneath the Bender home. This disturbing evidence confirm ...

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  • You can enhance your observational skills by practicing regular mindfulness exercises, which can help you notice subtle changes in your environment that could indicate something is amiss. For instance, if you're walking your neighborhood and notice unusual signs, like a sudden lack of activity at a neighbor's house or unfamiliar vehicles that seem out of place, these could be cues to pay closer attention or even report to authorities if you suspect foul play.
  • Develop a habit of documenting your travels, especially when visiting unfamiliar places, by keeping a digital log on your phone or a small notebook. Write down details like the date, time, location, and people you meet. This can be invaluable information for your loved ones or investigators in case of an emergency or if you go missing.
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Aftermath and Speculation Around Bender Family's Fate

The Bender family, known as one of America's first high-profile serial killer cases, has captivated public imagination and spurred much speculation about their ultimate fate, as well as their lasting legacy in the realm of crime and history.

Benders' Crimes Captivated Public Imagination As one of America's First High-Profile Serial Killer Cases

Benders' Fate: Killed by Vigilantes or Fled?

Following the sudden disappearance of the Bender family, there has been rampant conjecture regarding their end. Various unconfirmed sightings and reports suggest multiple fates, from being captured and killed by a vigilante group to the separate demises of Pa Bender by suicide in Lake Michigan and John Jr. by a stroke in Texas-New Mexico. However, all these tales are shadowed by doubt as the substantial reward offered for their capture remained unclaimed.

One narrative posited by Laura Ingalls Wilder states that a group of vigilantes took it upon themselves to deal with the Benders. According to her family story, her father indicated that the Benders would never be found, although most regard this tale as unlikely to be true. The notion of vigilante justice is particularly questioned because of the significant monetary reward that went unclaimed, casting doubt that a group of individuals would not only fail to claim it but also manage to keep such an action a secret for an extended period.

Bender Homestead Became a Morbid Tourist Spot For Seekers of Murder Evidence or Artifacts

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  • The extent to which the Bender family's crimes captivated the public imagination might be overstated; other cases from the era could have been equally or more captivating but are less remembered today.
  • The speculation about the Benders' fate could overshadow the lives and stories of their victims, which is a common critique in the discussion of historical crimes.
  • The narrative of vigilantes taking justice into their own hands could be challenged by the lack of concrete evidence and the possibility of alternative explanations for the unclaimed reward, such as fear of retribution or disbelief in the legality of such a claim.
  • The transformation of the Bender homestead into a tourist spot might be criticized for potentially glorifying or trivializ ...

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  • You can explore historical crime scenes using virtual reality to create an immersive learning experience. By using VR software, you can virtually visit the Bender homestead and other historical sites, which can deepen your understanding of the events and the era they occurred in. This can be done by downloading VR tours or using apps that offer historical recreations.
  • Start a true crime book club focusing on lesser-known cases to broaden your knowledge and engage with others who share your interest. Each member could research and present a different case, providing a platform for discussion and learning. This could include cases like the Bender family or other historical crimes that have impacted American history.
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