Sleep Training, Boob Job Recovery & Getting Back to Work
In this episode of Pursuit of Wellness, Mari shares updates on her life as a new mother and entrepreneur. She discusses implementing gentle sleep training for her ten-month-old son Kai, her approach to parenting priorities including non-toxic products and flexible educational philosophies, and the daily schedule that structures their household. Mari also covers her unexpectedly smooth recovery from breast augmentation surgery and her plans to return to regular fitness routines.
Beyond motherhood and wellness, Mari talks about her evolving relationship with jewelry and fashion as a parent, her experiences with horse ownership, and her animal rescue efforts. She provides insight into running Bloom with her husband Greg, distinguishing between his passion for entrepreneurial mentoring and her own focus on charity work. Mari has become particularly involved with Austin organizations supporting foster care and child welfare, areas that hold deep personal meaning for her.
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Motherhood & Parenting: Sleep, Development, Schedules, Products, Decisions
Mari describes implementing gentle sleep training for her son Kai after bedtime became a two-hour ordeal due to separation anxiety. By checking in every three to five minutes, Kai quickly learned to self-soothe and sleep independently. At ten months, Kai is in the 99th percentile for height, weight, and head size at 27.2 pounds, with boundless energy that keeps Mari physically challenged but deeply rewarded.
His daily schedule is carefully structured around two naps, with wake time at 7:00 AM and bedtime by 7:00 PM, incorporating meals, playground visits, and activities like gymnastics. Mari prioritizes non-toxic products, using stainless steel plates instead of silicone or plastic to avoid chemical exposure, and relies on bandana bibs for daily use.
For education, Mari maintains flexibility about whether Kai will attend public school, focusing instead on outdoor time, social interaction, learning engagement, and happiness as her primary priorities for his early childhood.
Recovery From Breast Augmentation, Workout Clearance, and Treatments
Mari describes an unexpectedly smooth recovery from breast augmentation with 265cc implants, a lift, slight reduction, and minimal fat transfer performed by Dr. Anna Steve in New York City. She experienced no bruising and almost no pain, attributing the outcome to her surgeon's skill in creating an athletic, natural look.
Now cleared for fitness activities, Mari plans to resume training with her New York City trainer McKenna and attend Fuse House sculpt classes, along with sauna use and intensive workouts. She shares mixed experiences with microneedling, which often causes breakouts despite requiring multiple sessions for results, while CO2 laser treatment gave her the most noticeable skin texture improvement.
Mari is also undergoing laser removal every eight weeks for finger tattoos she now regrets, describing the process as quite painful despite the tattoos' small size.
Lifestyle & Interests: Jewelry, Fashion, Animal Rescue, Horse Riding
Mari's engagement ring journey began with her husband's proposal using his mother's three-carat round diamond, which she now wears as a necklace to preserve as a family heirloom. After a business deal, she purchased an emerald cut diamond that proved impractical when its sharp edges scratched Kai during baby care.
She eventually chose a mogul cut old mine diamond from New York City jeweler Arielle Ratner, an elongated cushion shape with a warm tone that flatters her skin and wears flat for comfortable motherhood. Mari values both the historical craftsmanship and daily functionality of this design.
In fashion, Mari favors Kate, Frame, Mother, and Levi's jeans, currently wearing them with a belt due to postpartum sizing changes. For Aspen winter travel, she recommends practical Western-inspired looks with boots and sneakers over sophisticated or heeled outfits, emphasizing comfort over fashion-forward dressing.
Mari currently owns Red, her relaxed Western horse, having previously rehomed her English jumping horse Bo to a young competitor when motherhood became her focus. She acknowledges the difficulty of balancing infant care with riding time in Austin and no longer considers herself a full-blown biohacker, aspiring instead to a balanced, healthy mom lifestyle.
Her compassion for animals is evident in recent rescues, including a newborn squirrel she delivered to a wildlife facility and a lost cocker spaniel whose owner she located via Instagram within five minutes.
Work, Entrepreneurship, and Community: Bloom Events, Mentoring, Advice, and Charity With Austin Organizations
Mari describes Bloom as the couple's "other baby," noting that running the business has allowed her to exercise her entrepreneurial muscle and feel reenergized. She's particularly focused on the upcoming New York City Big Apple event, Club Apple, which includes VIP gatherings, community events, and press activities.
Greg is passionate about mentoring entrepreneurs through Mentor Pass and spontaneous street interactions, and he's considering hosting workshops to offer direct feedback on business plans. Mari clarifies that while she supports young founders in one-on-one conversations, entrepreneurial mentoring isn't her primary passion—she prefers charity and community-oriented work that aligns more closely with her values.
Mari has become active with Austin charities, recently joining the Trail Conservancy to support the city's privately owned trail system and volunteering with Helping Hand Foster Home. Her commitment to foster care is deeply personal, stemming from a facility tour while pregnant that profoundly moved her. Child welfare and supporting vulnerable children have become central to Mari's community action, reflecting the direction of her volunteer efforts.
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- Gentle sleep training, even with frequent check-ins, may not be effective or appropriate for all children, as some infants may require more parental presence to feel secure.
- Structuring a baby’s schedule rigidly around naps and activities may not accommodate the natural variability in individual children’s sleep and energy needs.
- Prioritizing non-toxic products like stainless steel over silicone or plastic is a personal choice; current research suggests that high-quality silicone and BPA-free plastics are generally considered safe for children when used appropriately.
- Focusing on outdoor time and social interaction over early academic preparation is one approach, but some parents and educators believe early structured learning can be beneficial for cognitive development.
- Attributing a smooth surgical recovery solely to the surgeon’s skill may overlook other factors such as individual healing differences, genetics, and post-operative care.
- Intensive fitness routines soon after surgery may not be advisable for everyone, as recovery times and physical readiness can vary widely.
- Microneedling and CO2 laser treatments can have different effects on different skin types, and some dermatologists caution that repeated procedures may carry risks or side effects.
- The discomfort and pain associated with tattoo removal may outweigh the benefits for some individuals, and complete removal is not always guaranteed.
- Choosing jewelry based on practicality for motherhood is a personal preference; others may prioritize sentimental value or aesthetics over daily functionality.
- Rehoming a horse due to lifestyle changes is sometimes necessary, but some animal advocates argue for long-term commitment to animal companions whenever possible.
- Not all mothers find it difficult to balance hobbies like horse riding with infant care; support systems and individual circumstances can make this more manageable for some.
- Shifting away from biohacking to a balanced lifestyle is one perspective; others may find ongoing biohacking practices beneficial for their health and well-being.
- While Mari prefers charity and community work over entrepreneurial mentoring, some believe that mentoring young founders can have significant positive community impact.
- Volunteering with charities and supporting foster care are commendable, but systemic change often requires broader policy advocacy in addition to individual volunteer efforts.
Actionables
- you can create a rotating outdoor activity calendar for your child that mixes physical play, social interaction, and learning-focused outings to encourage balanced development and daily engagement; for example, alternate between playgrounds, nature walks, toddler-friendly museums, and group story times, adjusting based on your child’s interests and energy levels.
- a practical way to minimize chemical exposure for your family is to set up a monthly household audit where you swap out one commonly used item (like food storage containers, utensils, or cleaning products) for a safer, non-toxic alternative, tracking changes in a simple checklist to make the process manageable and gradual.
- you can support local foster care and child welfare efforts by assembling care packages with essentials (like books, comfort items, or hygiene kits) and delivering them to nearby foster homes or child advocacy centers, involving friends or family to multiply your impact without needing specialized skills.
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Motherhood & Parenting: Sleep, Development, Schedules, Products, Decisions
Gentle Sleep Training for Independent Baby Sleep Skills
Mari describes recent struggles with Kai's bedtime, noting that while he sleeps through the night, putting him down took up to two exhausting hours due to his separation anxiety. After reaching a breaking point, Mari and Greg introduced very gentle sleep training characterized by frequent check-ins every three to five minutes to ease Kai's anxiety without letting him become overly distressed. This light approach immediately proved effective, with Kai quickly taking to the new routine. As a result, he is learning to sleep independently and self-soothe, a skill Mari finds invaluable.
Understanding Baby's Rapid Development and High Energy At Ten Months
At his latest pediatrician appointment, Mari learns that Kai is in the 99th percentile for height, weight, and head size, now weighing 27.2 pounds. She humorously shares that his size is evident—his t-shirts barely fit over his head, and her biceps are growing from carrying him, though her back sometimes hurts as a result. Kai has a boundless supply of energy, rarely sitting still, which Mari observes is common for boys. Despite the physical demands, she finds caregiving both challenging and deeply rewarding as his lively personality takes shape.
Balancing Naps, Meals, Activities, and Bedtime for Optimal Development
Kai’s daily schedule is carefully structured to support his growth. He wakes at 7:00 AM and starts the day with a four-ounce bottle, followed by a walk and playtime. Breakfast is at 8:30, after which he enjoys stimulating activities like playground visits or gymnastics. His first nap begins at 9:45. After waking around 11:30, Kai eats lunch at noon or 12:30, then spends time playing, sometimes with playdates or outings with the nanny. The second nap is at 2:15, always accompanied by a bottle. Dinner is served at 6:15, followed by a bath and two bedtime stories before he is settled in bed by 7:00 PM.
Choosing Safe Baby Products for Healthy Development and Less Chemical Exposure
Mari prioritizes non-toxic feeding products, using stainles ...
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- Some pediatric sleep experts argue that even gentle sleep training methods involving periodic check-ins can still cause stress for some babies, and recommend fully responsive approaches instead.
- The assertion that high energy and restlessness are common traits in boys may reinforce gender stereotypes; many girls also display high energy at this age, and temperament varies widely among all babies.
- While structured schedules can benefit some families, others find that more flexible, baby-led routines better accommodate individual differences in sleep and feeding needs.
- The avoidance of silicone feeding products is debated; many health authorities consider food-grade silicone safe for babies, and research on chemical leaching is inconclusive.
- Exclusive use of stainless steel dishes may not be practical or necessary for all families, especially given cost, availability, and the risk of injury from heavier or harder materials.
- Some parents may find that a strict daily schedule is difficult to maintain due to work, family dynamics, or cultural p ...
Actionables
- You can create a personalized daily care log to track your child’s energy levels, feeding times, nap quality, and your own physical comfort, then adjust routines or seek support if you notice patterns like increased back pain or restless sleep. For example, jot down when your child seems most energetic, when you feel strain from lifting, and how smoothly bedtime goes, then tweak nap times or ask a partner for help during high-energy periods.
- A practical way to minimize physical strain from carrying a large or active child is to set up “rest stations” around your home—designate safe, engaging play spots at different heights so you can encourage independent play while you sit or stretch nearby. For instance, place a basket of toys on a low table in the living room and a soft mat with books in the kitchen, so you can supervise and interact without always holding your child.
- You can experiment with a ro ...
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Recovery From Breast Augmentation, Workout Clearance, and Treatments
Smooth Recovery From Breast Augmentation With Lift and Fat Transfer
Mari Llewellyn describes an unexpectedly easy recovery from her breast augmentation procedure. She underwent surgery with 265cc implants following her surgeon’s recommendation, combined with a breast lift, slight reduction, and a minor fat transfer to achieve an athletic, high, and perky look that fits her 5’10” frame. The fat transfer was minimal, intended just to fill out the lines for a natural result. Mari emphasizes the skill of her surgeon, Dr. Anna Steve in New York City, who performed the procedure so gently and precisely that Mari experienced no bruising and almost no pain, feeling very normal throughout her recovery.
Resuming Fitness Activities After Medical Clearance
Mari is excited to get back into her fitness routine after receiving official clearance to train. She plans to start sessions in New York City with her trainer, McKenna, whom she discovered via Instagram. She is also looking forward to attending Fuse House sculpt classes, which are known for their heated environment and sculpting focus. In addition to those classes, Mari is eager to resume sauna use and intensive training to rebuild muscle definition and achieve her fitness goals, inviting her followers to join her journey.
Microneedling and Co2 Laser For Better Skin Texture and Appearance
Mari shares her experience with microneedling, noting she has undergone the treatment several times. She believes microneedling requires multiple sessions for visible results but often leads to breakouts, making her question whether the benefits outweigh the drawbacks. Mari also mentions trying the CO2 laser treatment, which gave her the most noticeable i ...
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- Not everyone experiences an easy or pain-free recovery from breast augmentation, even with a skilled surgeon; individual healing responses vary widely.
- The absence of bruising and pain in Mari's case may not be typical, and others may face significant discomfort or complications.
- The decision to undergo cosmetic surgery for an "athletic, high, and perky look" is subjective, and some may argue that natural body diversity should be embraced rather than altered.
- Medical clearance to resume fitness activities does not guarantee that all post-surgical patients will be able to return to their previous fitness levels as quickly or comfortably.
- Microneedling can cause breakouts and irritation for some individuals, and its effectiveness varies; some dermatologists question its benefits compared to other treatments.
- CO2 laser treatments can be expensive, require downtime, and carry risks such as hyperpigmentation or scarring, especially for those with darker skin tones.
- The trend ...
Actionables
- you can track your own recovery experiences after any cosmetic or dermatological procedure by keeping a daily log of pain, bruising, and healing progress, then compare your notes to published averages to better understand your body's unique healing patterns and set realistic expectations for future treatments.
- a practical way to evaluate the effectiveness of skin treatments is to take standardized before-and-after photos under the same lighting and at the same time of day, then review them monthly to objectively assess changes in skin texture or clarity, helping you decide which treatments are worth continuing.
- you can minimize regre ...
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Lifestyle & Interests: Jewelry, Fashion, Animal Rescue, Horse Riding
Mari Llewellyn’s life blends personal expression, motherhood, practical fashion, a passion for animal rescue, and a deep connection to horses, all navigated with an eye for beauty, meaning, and comfort.
Curating Personalized Engagement Rings for Active Moms
Mari's Husband Proposed With His Mother's Three-Carat Round Diamond Ring, Converting It To a Legacy Necklace
Mari begins her engagement ring journey with her husband’s proposal using his mother's three-carat round diamond ring, a piece his mother originally bought for herself. Treasuring its sentimental value, Mari now wears the diamond as a necklace for safekeeping, intending it to become a family heirloom passed down through generations.
Business Deal: Mari's Impractical Emerald Purchase Injures Kai
After a successful business deal, Mari purchased herself an emerald cut diamond ring, convinced she wanted that style. However, she soon found it did not suit her and proved impractical, as the ring’s sharp edges would scratch her son, Kai, during baby care, making it an unsuitable choice for an active mom.
Selecting an Arielle Ratner Old Mine Cut Diamond For Aesthetics and Functionality
Arielle Ratner's Hand-Cut Old Mine Diamonds in Historical Styles
Seeking both beauty and utility, Mari turned to New York City jeweler Arielle Ratner. Ratner specializes in old mine diamonds, cut by hand in historical styles, which fascinated Mari for their unique, unrepeatable charm and their connection to the past.
Elongated Cushion Stone in Warm Tone Complements Mari's Skin and Suits Baby Care Better Than Emerald Cut
Mari chose a mogul cut old mine diamond, an elongated cushion shape with a warm candlelit hue, which flatters her skin tone and wears flat on her finger. This design is gentle and never interferes with baby care, addressing the issues she experienced with the emerald cut. She values its historical craftsmanship as well as its comfort in daily motherhood.
Balancing Comfort and Appeal In Fashion Choices Across Lifestyles
Mari Favors Kate, Frame, Mother, and Levi's Jeans Styles, Currently Wearing Them With a Belt Due to Postpartum Sizing
In fashion, Mari’s current jean favorites are Kate, Frame, Mother, and Levi’s. She notes her Kate jeans are now too large due to postpartum changes and are secured with a belt. Her wardrobe also includes a practical Dairy Boy camo fleece jacket.
Her Wardrobe Includes Practical Options Like a Camo Fleece Jacket, With Aspen Winter Travel Advice Emphasizing Western-Inspired Outfits With Boots and Sneakers Over Heels or Sophisticated Dressing
For Aspen winter travel, Mari recommends warm, Western-inspired looks, cowboy hats, boots, sneakers, large coats, and ski or snowboard apparel over sophisticated or high-heeled outfits. She notes that practicality and comfort are more important than fashion-forward or fancy dressing, echoing her everyday preference for activewear and functional styles.
Balancing Equestrian Connections With Parenting and Time Constraints
Mari's Relaxed Horse, Red, vs. Her Former Jumping Horse, Bo
Mari has a history with horses, currently owning Red, her relaxed West ...
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Lifestyle & Interests: Jewelry, Fashion, Animal Rescue, Horse Riding
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- Transforming a family heirloom ring into a necklace, while preserving its significance, may diminish its original sentimental value for those who believe heirlooms should be kept in their original form.
- The impracticality of the emerald cut ring for baby care highlights a potential lack of foresight in purchasing jewelry based solely on aesthetics rather than lifestyle needs.
- Prioritizing high-end, hand-cut diamonds and designer jewelry may not resonate with individuals who value affordability or ethical sourcing over luxury and historical craftsmanship.
- Emphasizing comfort and practicality in fashion choices could be seen as limiting self-expression or creativity for those who enjoy more fashion-forward or experimental styles.
- Recommending specific, often premium denim brands may not be accessible or relatable to those with different budgets or body types.
- The focus on Western-inspired, practical clothing for travel may overlook the preferences of those who enjoy dressing up or expressing i ...
Actionables
- you can repurpose inherited or gifted jewelry into new, wearable pieces that fit your current lifestyle by consulting with a local jeweler about transforming items that feel outdated or impractical into something you’ll actually use, like turning a ring into a pendant or bracelet charm, so you keep the sentimental value without sacrificing comfort or safety.
- a practical way to ensure your wardrobe supports your daily activities is to create a checklist of your most common routines (like childcare, commuting, or outdoor hobbies) and use it to audit your closet, removing or storing items that don’t fit your needs and making a list of comfortable, functional replacements to shop for over time. ...
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Work, Entrepreneurship, and Community: Bloom Events, Mentoring, Advice, and Charity With Austin Organizations
Balancing Bloom, Work, and Motherhood With Renewed Energy
Mari describes Bloom as the couple’s “other baby,” highlighting the deep commitment and enjoyment she finds in running the business. Engaging with Bloom has allowed her to exercise her entrepreneurial muscle, bringing renewed excitement and making work enjoyable again. A major focus is the upcoming New York City Big Apple event, Club Apple, which features VIP gatherings, community events, and press activities. Mari’s involvement is essential to these expansive plans and she finds herself reenergized by the busy and dynamic event schedule.
Supporting Greg's Mentoring Passion and Recognizing Partnership Contributions
Greg's Passion For Aiding Entrepreneurs
Greg deeply enjoys mentoring other entrepreneurs, considering it a central passion in his life. He has been active on Mentor Pass, taking phone calls to advise and assist clients. Greg also welcomes spontaneous interactions, often being approached on the street for business advice. He is even contemplating hosting workshops where he could engage with participants directly, offer feedback on business plans, and share experiences from the stage. Mari emphasizes that Greg’s drive to support entrepreneurs is a significant and effective part of their partnership.
Mari's Mentoring Limits vs. Her Husband's Entrepreneurial Coaching
Mari acknowledges that mentoring in the entrepreneurial space is not her primary passion, though she supports young founders and is happy to engage in one-on-one discussions when asked. Instead, Mari prioritizes her involvement in charity and community-oriented work, which she feels align more closely with her personal values than traditional business mentorship.
Austin Charities: Supporting Vulnerable Populations and Environmental Conservation
Mari has become active with local Austin charities, focusing her energies on causes that benefit vulnerable groups and the community environment. She recently joined the Trail Conservancy, which manages Austin’s privately owne ...
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- While Mari describes Bloom as her "other baby," this level of personal investment in a business could risk work-life imbalance, especially when balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship.
- The focus on high-profile events like Club Apple may prioritize visibility and networking over deeper, long-term community impact.
- Greg’s spontaneous mentoring on the street, while well-intentioned, may not always provide the depth or follow-up that entrepreneurs need for sustained growth.
- Mari’s preference for charity and community work over entrepreneurial mentoring could be seen as a missed opportunity to leverage her business experience to support emerging founders more actively.
- The emphasis on volunteering with established organizations like the Trail Conserv ...
Actionables
- you can treat a personal project or hobby as a meaningful venture by giving it a nickname and setting aside dedicated time each week to nurture it, which helps build emotional investment and sustained excitement—try calling your garden your “mini oasis” or your writing time “story lab” and block out a regular slot for it.
- a practical way to support others without formal mentoring is to keep a small stack of encouragement cards or notes in your bag or wallet and hand them out when you notice someone working hard or facing a challenge, such as a barista during a busy shift or a neighbor organizing a community clean-up.
- you can align your volun ...
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1-Page Summary- Motherhood & Parenting: Sleep, Development, Schedules, Products, Decisions
- Recovery From Breast Augmentation, Workout Clearance, and Treatments
- Lifestyle & Interests: Jewelry, Fashion, Animal Rescue, Horse Riding
- Work, Entrepreneurship, and Community: Bloom Events, Mentoring, Advice, and Charity With Austin Organizations
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