In 'Dear Monica Lewinsky,' a woman turns to an unusual saint for support

Great art can change your life—but learning about the artist’s sordid past can change how you view their art. So argues memoirist and art critic Claire Dederer in Monsters. Dederer offers an insider’s look at the thorny question: Can we love the art if we loathe the artist? She doesn’t offer easy answers. Instead, she examines how our emotional responses to art are shaped by our knowledge of the artist’s behavior, and what that says about our own morality, identity, and desires.

Our guide to Monsters starts by examining what a monster is; we outline three types of monsters and explore the lives of famous artists in each category. Then, we explain why monstrous artists trouble us. Finally, we explore three ways we can respond to art made by monsters alongside three lessons on humans’ moral complexity. In our commentary, we provide more context on the artists Dederer discusses and other expert perspectives on the nature of art, monstrosity, fandom, and morality.

In So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed, author Jon Ronson discusses the psychology of humiliation, the use of shame as punishment, and what happens to the targets of public shaming after the crusade is over and everyone forgets about them.

Initially, Ronson thought that public shaming was a force for good. Underdogs and average citizens can hold powerful people and corporations accountable and put enough pressure on them that they’re forced to change for the better. However, as Ronson learned more, he discovered that public shaming can also be a destructive force that ruins people’s lives, even if those people haven’t actually done anything wrong.

You’ve likely heard of the MeToo movement, but you may not know where the phrase “me too” originated. In Unbound, award-winning activist Tarana Burke explores the pivotal role she played in founding the movement. Burke coined the phrase “me too” as a tool for healing from sexual violence based on her own journey of recovery via community connection, and she continues to work toward healing sexual violence in the Black community.

Our guide begins with a discussion of Burke’s experience of childhood sexual abuse. Next, we explore how community organizing helped Burke cope with her trauma and grow. Then, we consider the factors that led Burke to found the “me too” movement. Finally, we discuss how “me too” changed Burke’s life, explain how it relates to the MeToo hashtag, and describe Burke’s hopes for the movement’s future. In our commentary, we’ll provide more context about sexual violence and its intersection with racial injustice, explore both the original and the viral movements, and share other experts' advice on healing.

At the age of 24, New York Post reporter Susannah Cahalan is stricken with a terrible disease. In a matter of weeks, it morphs from paranoia into hallucinations, seizures, and psychosis. It resists diagnosis even by the most prestigious doctors in the US. Only when Susannah becomes catatonic, staring death in the face, do two brilliant neurologists discover the problem: Susannah is suffering from an autoimmune disease that’s causing her antibodies to attack her own brain.

Cahalan’s harrowing portrait shows how frail disease makes us, ready to accept any diagnosis, even when we know it’s wrong; how the US healthcare system serves some patients better than others; and how maintaining a positive attitude is critical to recovery.

Michelle Obama's memoir Becoming delivers candid reflections on the life of the first African-American first lady. Offering a window into her personal evolution, Michelle details how ambition, hard work, and embracing her authentic story helped her journey from her family’s Chicago working-class neighborhood to a 47th-floor law office, then to the White House and beyond.

Becoming provides insights into Michelle’s self-determination: She pushed herself to excel in Ivy League classrooms and achieve a prestigious career by age 26, then mustered the courage to swerve off that path in search of greater fulfillment. It details her relationship with Barack—a love story of two opposites—and their challenging quest to navigate family and political life. Through it all, we witness a woman who perpetually strives to become a better version of herself.

Elizabeth Gilbert’s life imploded after she filed for divorce from her husband when she was 30 years old. She was still reeling from their contentious separation when she fell in love with someone else. But when this love ended, she fell into a deep depression. She knew something drastic needed to happen to save her life. She decided to embark on a year-long journey to Italy, India, and Indonesia to find pleasure, spiritual guidance, and harmony in her soul. Eat Pray Love depicts Gilbert’s journey of survival and transformation. It is the story of her learning to move out of the darkness and into the light.

Mental health disorders affect millions of people and often lead to the tragic loss of life through suicide. The pain and suffering that accompany mental illness are difficult for those unafflicted to understand. Kay Redfield Jamison, a clinical psychologist living with manic-depressive disorder, has attempted to bring awareness to those experiences in her memoir. By divulging the violent, frenzied, and dangerous aspects of her disease, Jamison hopes to create more understanding about mental illness and more empathy for those who struggle to exist in the normal world.

Dating apps and the fast pace of modern society have made us much too eager to write people off at the first sign of imperfection. In Red Flags, Green Flags, psychologist Ali Fenwick addresses this problem by presenting a system that turns warning signs (“red flags”) into opportunities for reflection, and positive traits (“green flags”) into catalysts for stronger relationships.

We’ll start this guide by explaining how Fenwick’s system works. Then, we’ll examine why its effectiveness relies on your own self-awareness and personal growth. We’ll conclude by discussing how to apply it to personal, professional, and romantic relationships.

Our commentary will provide some background information about why these red and green flags tend to emerge in relationships and why they matter. We’ll also compare Fenwick’s principles with those of other influential relationship books, such as Difficult Conversations and All About Love. Finally, we’ll offer some strategies for applying Fenwick’s system to your relationships.

Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That? is a guide to how abusive men think, explaining the motivation and logic behind domestic abuse so that victims can better defend themselves against it. Bancroft draws on his years of experience as a counselor working with abusive men to shed light on how they deliberately confuse, manipulate, and intimidate their victims to get what they want. Ultimately, Bancroft hopes that readers will use his book to better assert their own humanity and independence, either leaving the relationship or demanding that their partner take responsibility for and change his abusive behavior.

This guide will break down Bancroft’s insights into the motivations and justifications behind abusive behavior and supplement them with the work of other abuse advocates writing since the book’s publication in 2002. We’ll also provide updated statistics and compare domestic abuse to other forms of violence.

Does it sometimes feel like everybody else has life figured out except you? Rachel Hollis, author of Girl, Wash Your Face, wants you to know that’s a lie. Life is messy and complicated for everyone, but once you understand that you are in control of your life, you can begin to live with passion, joy and confidence.

Aimed at women who feel overwhelmed and unworthy, Girl, Wash Your Face examines 20 lies that can hold you back from becoming who you were meant to be. Hollis details her own mistakes, traumas and life lessons, and shares with readers the strategies she used to overcome these lies and find true happiness.

Many women have experienced “mansplaining”—when a man condescendingly explains something to a woman that she already knows well. But have you ever considered that this irritating experience might reflect a cultural tendency to devalue women more generally? In Men Explain Things to Me, historian, activist, and award-winning author Rebecca Solnit explains that this tendency is the result of a pervasive underlying belief: that men have the right to control women. It manifests in different ways, from irritating actions like mansplaining to violence such as rape and murder.

In this guide, we’ll explain the attitude of control that motivates the mistreatment of women. We’ll then examine the factors that contribute to this violence, as well as how men use their power to stifle women’s voices. We’ll finish by exploring the role that language plays in the advancement of women’s rights. In commentary, we’ll add research supporting and extending Solnit’s ideas, as well as social, historical, and scientific context.

What do incels, “bathroom bills” regulating transgender people’s use of restrooms, presidential elections, abortion restrictions, and the Brock Turner case all have in common? According to philosopher Kate Manne in Entitled, each provides an example of “male entitlement”—men’s deeply ingrained belief that women must comply with traditional gender norms or risk being punished with everything from dismissal to violence.

Our guide explores Manne’s argument that society conditions men to feel that women must give them attention and admiration, sex, children, and care, while also staying out of traditionally “masculine” domains like power and knowledge. In addition, we examine Manne’s ideas about misogyny and how it’s enforced. Along the way, we situate Manne’s claims within the larger context of history and feminist philosophy, and examine whether they’re borne out by statistics, psychological research, and the law.