Confidence Classic: Opportunity, Visibility & Timing with Heather!
In this episode of Creating Confidence, Heather Monahan shares her experience of building a speaking career and personal brand, from initial rejections by speaker bureaus to teaching at Harvard. Through her story, she explores how persistence and consistency can lead to unexpected opportunities, even when progress seems slow. She details how she managed her own doubts and grew more confident through repeated experiences.
The episode also covers the success of the Whatnot live shopping platform, where sellers report significant revenue increases compared to other marketplaces. Monahan discusses the value of positive feedback and testimonials, explaining how she maintains a collection of encouraging messages from those she's influenced, and emphasizes the importance of acknowledging those who make a difference in our lives.
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Growth and Success of Live Shopping App Whatnot
Whatnot has established itself as the leading live shopping platform, where sellers consistently report selling ten times more than on other major marketplaces. The platform's success stems from its unique live format, allowing real-time interaction between sellers and buyers. This engagement translates into stronger relationships and higher sales, with buyers spending over an hour daily in the app. Notably, the number of sellers earning more than $1 million annually has doubled, demonstrating the platform's potential for significant business growth.
The Personal Journey and Growth of the Speaker
Heather Monahan shares her journey of building a speaking career and personal brand, beginning with early rejections from speaker bureaus in 2018. After her book "Confidence Creator" reached number one on Amazon, she leveraged this success to secure representation with major speaker bureaus. Despite representation, significant opportunities were slow to materialize, especially during the 2020 pandemic.
Monahan describes a pivotal moment teaching at Harvard, where initial nervousness gave way to confidence as she recognized the value of her real-world expertise. Through repeated experiences, she became more comfortable and developed stronger self-assurance. She emphasizes that while progress was slower than expected, persistence and consistency eventually led to unexpected opportunities and connections.
The Power of Positive Feedback and Testimonials
Monahan discusses the significant impact of receiving positive feedback through messages, emails, and testimonials from those she's influenced. She maintains a "Fam Love" folder on her phone containing screenshots of encouraging messages, which serves as motivation during challenging times. She advocates for both seeking and sharing testimonials, emphasizing their power to inspire and motivate others. Monahan encourages her audience to actively acknowledge those who have made a difference in their lives, creating a cycle of positive reinforcement within her community.
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Counterarguments
- While Whatnot claims sellers sell ten times more than on other marketplaces, this figure may not account for differences in product categories, seller experience, or marketing efforts, making direct comparisons potentially misleading.
- High user engagement, such as buyers spending over an hour daily on the app, does not necessarily equate to higher sales or satisfaction; it could also indicate inefficiencies in the shopping process or addictive app design.
- The doubling of sellers earning over $1 million annually on Whatnot highlights top performers but does not provide information about the average seller’s experience or the overall distribution of earnings, which may still be skewed.
- The live shopping format may not appeal to all buyers or sellers, as some may prefer traditional e-commerce experiences that allow for more deliberate browsing and purchasing.
- Heather Monahan’s journey, while inspiring, may not be representative of most aspiring speakers, as factors such as prior experience, network, and timing can significantly influence outcomes.
- Success stories like Monahan’s can sometimes create survivorship bias, overlooking the many individuals who persist without achieving similar breakthroughs.
- Relying heavily on positive feedback and testimonials for motivation may not address underlying challenges or areas for improvement, and could potentially lead to confirmation bias.
- Encouraging the sharing of testimonials and positive reinforcement, while beneficial, may inadvertently discourage constructive criticism or honest feedback that could foster further growth.
Actionables
- you can create a daily five-minute live video check-in with friends or colleagues to practice real-time interaction and relationship-building, using any video chat platform, which helps you get comfortable engaging live and strengthens your network.
- a practical way to boost your motivation and confidence is to set up a recurring calendar reminder to write down one piece of positive feedback or a small win each day, then review your list whenever you need encouragement.
- you can send a short thank-you message each week to someone who’s influenced or supported you, explaining specifically how they helped, which not only reinforces positive connections but also encourages a cycle of support in your community.
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Growth and Success of Live Shopping App Whatnot
Whatnot has rapidly become the largest live shopping platform, offering sellers a dynamic environment to build and scale their businesses. Both small and large businesses are experiencing significant growth, setting Whatnot apart from other major marketplaces.
Whatnot: The Largest Live Shopping Platform For Sellers to Build Businesses
Whatnot Sellers Report Higher Sales Growth
Sellers on Whatnot consistently report that they are selling 10 times more than on other major marketplaces. The platform’s unique live format allows sellers to showcase products directly to buyers in real-time, driving a competitive edge and higher sales volume.
Whatnot Enables Real-Time Connections Between Sellers and Buyers, Driving Stronger Relationships, Engagement, and Sales
Unlike traditional marketplaces where products are simply listed, Whatnot enables sellers to go live, interact instantly with viewers, answer questions, and close sales on the spot. Buyers spend more than an hour a day in the app, not just browsing but actively bidding, buying, and returning for more sessions. This real-time interaction fosters meaningful connections between sellers and buyers, which translates into stronger engagement and higher sales.
Whatnot Sellers Are Experiencing Remarkable Financial Success
Whatnot Sellers Earning $1 Million Annually Doubled
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- The claim that sellers on Whatnot report selling 10 times more than on other marketplaces may not account for differences in product categories, seller experience, or marketing efforts, which can significantly impact sales outcomes.
- While some sellers have achieved high annual incomes, these results may not be representative of the average seller experience on the platform.
- The live shopping format may not appeal to all buyers or sellers, as some consumers prefer traditional, asynchronous online shopping experiences.
- High engagement and time spent on the app do not necessarily translate to higher sales for every seller; some may struggle to attract viewers or convert engagement into purchases.
- The rapid growth and succ ...
Actionables
- You can host a daily five-minute live product demo using your phone, focusing on answering real-time questions from viewers to build trust and encourage immediate purchases. For example, show how a product works, invite viewers to ask anything about it, and respond instantly, making the experience interactive and personal.
- You can create a recurring “buyer appreciation” segment during your live sessions, where you highlight repeat customers, thank them by name, and offer small perks like exclusive previews or discounts to encourage loyalty and more frequent visits.
- You ...
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The Personal Journey and Growth of the Speaker
Heather Monahan’s story is one of persistent pursuit, growth, and evolving self-assurance as she navigates the highs and lows of building a speaking career and personal brand. Her journey is shaped by obstacles, introspection, and ultimately the payoff of resilience and self-investment.
Challenges In Building a Personal Brand and Speaking Career
Speaker Rejected For Lack of Uniqueness
In 2018, Heather Monahan discovered the speaking business and began pitching herself to various speaker bureaus. She was met with rejection, being told repeatedly that she was not unique or different enough and should return when she stood out more. These early frustrations were compounded by her sense of slow progress, especially as she struggled to see the impact of her work daily and dealt with financial concerns.
Speaker Leveraged Achievements to Secure Representation With Speaker Bureaus
A major turning point came after Heather’s book, "Confidence Creator," reached number one on Amazon’s business and motivation and autobiography lists, outranking Donald Trump’s book while he was president. Heather sent a screenshot of this achievement to the president of a speaker bureau, making the argument that her success made her unique. The response was positive: she was added to the bureau’s roster—albeit with no guarantee of future business. Heather then leveraged this to create a sense of FOMO among other bureaus, pitching herself as already represented by top agencies (APB Speakers, GDA, Harry Walker). Consequently, most major bureaus added her to their rosters.
Despite representation by several prestigious bureaus, Heather found that bookings did not follow immediately ("Crickets, right?"). The onset of the pandemic in 2020 further slowed her progress, with the speaking business all but shutting down and most new opportunities coming instead from her own efforts on LinkedIn and social media rather than the bureaus. Only years later, in 2022, did she receive her first real offers from major agencies, attributing this breakthrough to consistent content creation, being recognized by organizations like Real Leaders, and appearing at events alongside well-known personalities like Damon John.
In the meantime, Heather was named a Top 40 keynote speaker in 2020 and a Top 50 overall keynote speaker in 2022, building credibility while weathering the slow advance toward the larger goals she set for herself.
The Speaker's Growth and Confidence-Building Through Speaking Opportunities
Speaker's First Harvard Teaching Was Nerve-Wracking yet Empowering
Harvard Experience Boosted Speaker's Confidence
Heather describes a pivotal moment when a Harvard professor contacted her through LinkedIn after seeing a video she made about sales. He invited her to guest teach a class at Harvard. Overwhelmed and nervous, Heather felt diminished by the academic stature of Harvard and its students. She placed the institution and its professor on a pedestal while putting herself below them, a feeling she later identified as counterproductive. The teaching experience, however, revealed that while the students were book smart, Heather’s real-world expertise in sales provided invaluable lessons they could not get from textbooks. By sharing tangible, practical knowledge, she realized her unique value.
Her initial anxiety gave way to exhilaration. Moving through the fear and self-doubt allowed her to build confidence; repeated experiences, from teaching future classes to taking on a semester-long role as a teacher’s assistant, made Harvard an ordinary rather than intimidating place. Heather became comfortable, seeing her own worth on par with the institutions she had once revered. She noted that competence came from "putting in the reps"—the more she taught, the more confident she became, to the point that she could handle subsequent events without nerves and with an appreciation for her own growth.
Heather’s time at Harvard also brought personal and professional connection. Despite the workload outweighing the financial reward, she valued the experience, the insights into herse ...
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- While Heather Monahan attributes her eventual success to persistence and self-investment, it is also possible that her prior corporate experience, existing network, and resources played a significant role in her ability to weather setbacks and gain visibility, advantages not available to all aspiring speakers.
- The narrative emphasizes personal resilience and effort, but it may understate the role of market trends, timing, and external factors (such as the popularity of motivational speaking or the impact of social media algorithms) in shaping her opportunities.
- The strategy of leveraging FOMO among speaker bureaus, while effective for Heather, may not be replicable or advisable for everyone, as it could be perceived as disingenuous or backfire in other contexts.
- The focus on high-profile achievements (such as Amazon rankings or Harvard teaching) may inadvertently reinforce the idea that external validation from prestigious institutions or platforms is necessary for credibility, potentially discouraging those who make meaningful impact in less visible ways.
- The story frames slow progress as a universal experience in building a speaking career, but some individuals may achieve rapid success due to unique ...
Actionables
- you can create a personal progress tracker where you log every outreach, application, or attempt related to your speaking or professional goals, then review it monthly to spot patterns, celebrate small wins, and identify which actions led to new opportunities, helping you stay motivated during slow periods.
- a practical way to build credibility and connections is to start a recurring online discussion group or book club focused on your area of interest, inviting peers and newcomers to share insights and experiences, which can organically expand your network and showcase your expertise without needing forma ...
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The Power of Positive Feedback and Testimonials
Positive feedback and testimonials play a vital role in both personal motivation and in inspiring others to recognize the value they bring.
Positive Feedback and Testimonials Provide Encouragement
Heather Monahan describes the profound encouragement she receives from the messages, DMs, emails, and testimonials sent to her via social media and her website. She considers herself lucky to have people reach out to share how her books, speaking, podcasts, and coaching have changed their lives. Heather emphasizes the importance of not underestimating the impact one’s work and words can have, even on those never met personally—a concept that she finds mind-blowing.
She shares personal stories of receiving feedback, including a message from a woman expressing gratitude for how Heather had changed her life. The email detailed how the woman implemented Heather’s advice on personal branding, overcame her fears, launched initiatives like LinkedIn Live sessions, set goals, remained consistent, and ultimately experienced transformational change. The message brought Heather to tears and affirmed her purpose, reinforcing her commitment and giving her a much-needed boost, especially on challenging days in her business.
Heather recounts receiving supportive notes from women who found encouragement in her book, "Overcome Your Villains," reaffirming that she is on the right track. She treasures these messages and the recognition that her reach extends beyond her immediate circle, highlighting the contrast they provide to occasional negative feedback.
To preserve this encouragement, Heather takes screenshots of positive notes and saves them in a folder called "Fam Love" on her phone. On bad days, she revisits these messages as a reminder of her positive impact and value, which helps restore her motivation and sense of purpose. She strongly recommends adopting this practice—maintaining a file of positive feedback—so anyone can refuel on affirmation when needed.
Sharing Positive Feedback Can Inspire and Motivate Others
Heather emphasizes the importance of not only receiving but also sharing positive feedback. She advises her listeners and clients to proactively ask for testimonials and stories of success tied to their work, as these affirmations can be deeply motivating.
She urges everyone to send notes, texts, emails, or calls to those who have made a difference in their lives and not to wait, as the ...
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- Relying heavily on positive feedback and testimonials for motivation can create dependence on external validation rather than fostering intrinsic motivation.
- Testimonials and positive feedback may not always provide a balanced or accurate picture of one’s impact, as people are less likely to share negative or neutral experiences.
- Publicly sharing testimonials and seeking recognition can sometimes be perceived as self-promotion rather than genuine celebration of impact.
- The practice of collecting and revisiting positive feedback may not be effective for everyone, as some individuals may find it insufficient to counteract self-doubt or negative emotions.
- Incentivizing the sharing of testimonials could potentially lead to insincere or exaggerated feedback, diminish ...
Actionables
- You can create a monthly encouragement calendar by scheduling reminders to send a quick, sincere message of appreciation to someone whose work or actions have positively affected you, even if you don’t know them personally; this keeps encouragement flowing and helps you notice the impact others have on your life.
- A practical way to amplify the effect of positive feedback is to start a gratitude chain: after receiving encouragement or witnessing someone’s positive impact, pass it forward by sharing a brief story about that person’s influence with someone else who might benefit from hearing it, encouraging them to do the same.
- You ...
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