52. The Intuitive Shift EVERYONE Is Feeling
In this episode of Aware & Aggravated, Leo Skepi explores how gaslighting and information overload affect people's ability to trust their own perceptions and beliefs. Drawing from their experiences in Miami, Skepi examines how social media, corporations, and cultural pressures can erode self-trust and shape public opinion, particularly regarding mental health medications and materialistic values.
Through personal anecdotes, Skepi shares their decision to leave Miami's materialistic environment in pursuit of a different lifestyle, choosing to travel across the United States in a truck equipped for podcasting. The episode delves into the challenges of maintaining one's convictions in the face of contradictory online discourse and popular opinion, while highlighting the importance of trusting one's intuition when navigating controversial topics.
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Gaslighting and the Erosion of Self-Trust
Leo Skepi shares their personal journey through Miami, exploring how gaslighting affects self-trust and personal beliefs in an era of overwhelming information.
The Impact of Environment and Social Media
Skepi describes Miami as the "land of the gaslight," where superficiality and materialism create an environment that erodes self-trust. They explain how social media and various institutions contribute to widespread gaslighting, making it increasingly difficult to maintain confidence in one's perceptions and beliefs. Even when armed with researched facts, Skepi found their convictions wavering in the face of contradictory online discourse and popular opinion.
Corporate Influence on Personal Values
According to Skepi, corporations and social media actively shape public perceptions through various means. They point to the aggressive promotion of medications, particularly antipsychotics and antidepressants, and the constant messaging about appearance and possessions as indicators of self-worth. This creates a cycle of insecurity and discontent, pushing people toward consumption rather than authentic self-improvement.
Journey to Authenticity
Experiencing discomfort with Miami's materialistic focus, Skepi describes their decision to pursue a more meaningful life. They share how they chose to leave their current lifestyle to explore the United States in a truck equipped with podcasting gear, seeking clarity and purpose. Throughout this journey, Skepi learns to trust their intuition, particularly when faced with controversial topics like Charlie Kirk's death, choosing to maintain their perspective despite opposing public opinion.
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- While gaslighting can erode self-trust, it's important to recognize that not all contradictory information or disagreement constitutes gaslighting. Healthy skepticism and critical thinking can also lead to questioning one's beliefs without it being a manipulative tactic.
- The characterization of Miami, or any location, as a "land of the gaslight" may oversimplify the diverse experiences and environments within the city. Not everyone in Miami may experience the same level of superficiality and materialism.
- Social media and institutions have the potential to contribute to gaslighting, but they also offer platforms for education, activism, and positive community building. The impact of these tools is not universally negative and can depend on how they are used.
- The assertion that well-researched facts can lead to wavering convictions might overlook the individual's capacity for critical thinking and the ability to hold firm beliefs even in the face of opposition.
- While corporations and social media can influence public perceptions, consumers also have agency and the ability to critique, analyze, and resist marketing tactics.
- The promotion of medications like antipsychotics and antidepressants is a complex issue that involves the healthcare system, and for some individuals, these medications are necessary and life-improving.
- The idea that insecurity drives consumption overlooks other factors that may lead to consumption, such as cultural norms, economic systems, and personal choice.
- Seeking a more meaningful life is subjective, and what constitutes a materialistic lifestyle versus a meaningful one can vary greatly from person to person.
- The notion of traveling to find clarity and purpose may not be accessible or desirable for everyone, and it is not the only path to authenticity or self-improvement.
- Trusting one's intuition is important, but it should be balanced with openness to new information and the possibility of changing one's mind in light of compelling evidence or arguments.
- Maintaining personal perspectives in the face of opposition can be a sign of authenticity, but it can also sometimes lead to entrenchment in beliefs that may benefit from reevaluation.
Actionables
- You can create a "Reality Anchor Journal" where you document your daily experiences, feelings, and thoughts to maintain a personal record of your reality. This journal acts as a tangible reference point to help you distinguish between your perceptions and the external influences that may attempt to distort them. For example, after encountering a persuasive advertisement or a strong opinion on social media, refer to your journal to remind yourself of your values and beliefs before these encounters.
- Develop a "Media Mindfulness Routine" by setting aside time each week to critically analyze the media you consume. This involves questioning the motives behind advertisements, social media posts, and news articles. For instance, when you see a new ad for a medication, take a moment to research the side effects and alternative treatments, or when a new fashion trend emerges, consider how it aligns with your personal style and values rather than blindly following it.
- Engage in "Intuition Exercises" by regularly practicing decision-making based on your gut feelings rather than external validation. Start with small, inconsequential decisions, like choosing a meal at a restaurant or selecting a book to read, and pay attention to how these choices make you feel. Gradually increase the significance of the decisions to strengthen your confidence in your intuition. This practice can help you trust your inner voice, especially when faced with controversial topics or opposing public opinions.
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Gaslighting and the Erosion of Self-Trust
Leo Skepi takes us through their personal journey in Miami, discussing the struggle with gaslighting and its impact on self-trust and personal beliefs, painting a vivid picture of the self-doubt that pervades in an era of overwhelming amounts of conflicting information.
Gaslighting In Miami: Impact on Perception of Reality
Surrounded by Superficiality and Distractions in Miami, Challenging Trust
Skepi refers to Miami as the "land of the gaslight," where the veneer of glamor and materialism chips away at one's ability to trust their own senses. According to Skepi, Miami is a place of coping, where the environment of partying and superficial distractions causes a loss of connection with one's authentic self. This prompts an inward turn that Skepi describes as an "absolute ego death."
Gaslighting's Impact on Forming Opinions and Beliefs
Conflicting Information on Social Media and Media Causes Confusion and Uncertainty
Skepi speaks about the widespread issue of gaslighting perpetuated by companies, government bodies, and especially through social media, leading to increased anxiety and doubt in one's perceptions. The instability of consensus views and the reality that what may seem factual today could be completely undermined by alternate opinions or a flip in the general consensus tomorrow contributes to a debilitating cycle of uncertainty.
As Skepi delves into politics and immerses themselves in research, they become frustrated with the relentless stream of contradictory information and social media's heavy influence on public opinion. This surreptitious shaping of beliefs and views through the presence of bots and paid influencers only adds to the confusion.
Speaker's Opinions Wavered Against Opposing Views, Despite Research and Experience
Through their experience, Skepi underscores the insidious nature of gaslighting on self-trust. Even when equipped with researched facts, they fi ...
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- While Miami may have a culture of glamor and superficiality, it is also a city with rich cultural diversity and a strong sense of community in many areas, which can foster a strong sense of self and trust in one's own beliefs.
- The concept of "absolute ego death" is a subjective experience and not everyone in Miami or similar environments will necessarily undergo such a psychological process.
- It is possible to engage with social media and other forms of media critically and discerningly, without falling prey to gaslighting, by cross-referencing sources and maintaining a healthy skepticism.
- Some individuals may find that exposure to conflicting information enhances their critical thinking skills and helps them form more nuanced opinions.
- The presence of bots and paid influencers on social media does not negate the genuine interactions and authentic content that can also be found on these platforms.
- Personal experience, while valuable, can also be subjective and prone to bias; it is not always a more reliable foundation for opinions than well-researched and corroborated information.
- Political engagement, even when it leads to internal conflict, can be seen as a healthy part of a democratic society that values diverse opinions and debate.
- The feeling of question ...
Actionables
- You can create a "Reality Anchor Journal" where you document daily experiences, feelings, and thoughts to maintain a personal baseline of authenticity. By regularly writing down what you see, hear, and feel, you create a tangible record that can serve as a reference point when external influences become overwhelming. For example, after a night out in a glamorous setting, write about how the experience made you feel and what felt authentic versus what felt imposed by the environment.
- Develop a "Fact-Check Habit" by dedicating a set time each week to research and verify information you've encountered on social media or in conversations. Use multiple sources to cross-reference facts, and keep a log of verified information to build a personal knowledge base. When faced with a new piece of information, consult your log to see if it aligns with what you've previously validated, which can help stabilize your beliefs amidst the noise.
- Engage in "Opinion Pilates," a mental exercise where you deliberately expose yourself to ...
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Social Media, Politics, and Corporate Interests: Influence on Perception and Values
The speaker sheds light on how corporations and social media are actively shaping public perceptions and personal values through various tactics, prompting a need for self-reflection and authenticity beyond external influences.
Tactics to Shape Perceptions and Values by Corporations and Social Media
Promotion of Medications and Treatments Altering Emotional and Cognitive Judgment
The speaker observes a disturbing trend where medications, particularly antipsychotic medications, antidepressants, and stimulants such as [restricted term], are pushed aggressively and normalized in society. They point out the widespread promotion of substances that can alter emotional and cognitive judgment and question the underlying motives and the beneficiaries of this trend.
The pervasive pressure to accept these prescriptions raises alarms, with therapists having to diagnose patients with mental disorders for insurance purposes, amplifying labels like depression, OCD, and ADHD. The speaker is concerned about the message that people are weaker than they are and in constant need of medication.
Relentless Messaging on Appearance, Health, and Possessions as Self-Worth Indicators, Creating Insecurity and Lack
The speaker discusses the influence of social media and corporate messaging on physical appearance, promoting steroid and peptide use, and the normalization of surgeries and fillers to achieve a specific look. Despite the association of attractiveness with self-confidence, they highlight the insecurity prevalent even among attractive individuals.
The messaging about diet and healthy food is also criticized for being confusing, contributing to insecurity and a lack of clarity. They describe the tactics used by companies to tie self-worth to appearance, health, and possessions, leading to exhaustion. The actions encouraged by companies, focused on body image, diet, and material possessions, are described as not designed to confirm personal value or promote self-betterment but to align with externally imposed standards.
Moreover, this consumption-driven approach is fueled ...
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- The promotion of medications like antidepressants and stimulants can be seen as a response to a genuine need for mental health treatment in society, rather than purely a tactic by corporations to shape perceptions and values.
- The diagnosis of mental disorders by therapists is often based on rigorous clinical guidelines and not solely for insurance purposes; it can be a necessary step to provide patients with the care they need.
- The use of medications for mental health conditions can be empowering for many individuals, helping them to lead more functional and fulfilling lives, rather than making them feel weaker.
- The focus on physical appearance and health can be motivated by genuine concerns for public health and individual well-being, rather than solely by corporate interests in creating insecurity.
- The promotion of healthy diets and lifestyles by corporations can also be seen as a response to public health issues such as obesity and heart disease, and not just a tactic to tie self-worth to consumerism.
- Social media can serve as a platform for positive body image and self-acceptance movements, offering diverse and inclusive representations of beauty and success.
- The decision to leave and explore for clarity and purpose is a personal choi ...
Actionables
- You can create a personal value filter by listing your core beliefs and comparing them to the messages you receive daily. When you encounter an advertisement or social media post, check it against your list. If it doesn't align with your values, acknowledge the discrepancy and remind yourself of your beliefs. For example, if you value natural beauty but see an ad promoting cosmetic surgery, reaffirm your belief by engaging in an activity that celebrates your natural appearance, like taking a nature walk or practicing self-care without makeup.
- Develop a media consumption diary to track the content you consume and its impact on your emotions and thoughts. At the end of each day, jot down the types of media you engaged with, the messages they conveyed about self-worth, and how they made you feel. After a week, review your diary to identify patterns and decide if you need to change your media diet. For instance, if you notice that fashion blogs make you feel insecure about your wardrobe, consider unfollowing them and seeking out content that promotes self-acceptance instead.
- Engage in a "digital declutter" by unfollowing or muting accounts that trigger feelings of ina ...
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Speaker's Journey to Self-Discovery and Value Redefinition
Realizing Miami Lifestyle Misaligned With Authentic Self
Skepi experiences a profound discomfort with the lifestyle in Miami, which triggers a personal shift towards self-discovery and value redefinition.
Discomfort With Miami's Superficial Focus on Materialism and Appearance, Seeking Meaningful Living
Initially immersed in the Miami scene, the speaker finds themselves at odds with the city's pervasive materialistic values. Skepi talks about the act of coming back to themselves, stripping away the external, superficial layers to reconnect with who they are beyond societal expectations. The realization hits that the party-centric, shopping orientated Miami lifestyle is a far cry from aligning with Skepi's authentic self. There's an emphasis on wanting to live a life that reflects personal values rather than one driven by materialistic and superficial preoccupations—such as the acquisition of luxury cars and designer clothes—which Skepi finds increasingly hollow.
Trusting Intuition Over Prevailing Opinions
Throughout their self-discovery, Skepi learns to lean on personal intuition in the face of public opposition and prevailing opinions.
Reluctant Speaker Trusts Instincts On Suspicious Circumstances of Charlie Kirk's Death
Skepi learns to trust their gut, especially highlighted by the suspicions surrounding Charlie Kirk's death. The speaker, not one to typically engage in political discourse, felt that there was something "off" and "weird" about the situation. Despite an overwhelming consensus against them, Skepi chose to trust their own pe ...
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- Skepi's discomfort with Miami's lifestyle may be more reflective of personal preferences rather than an indictment of the city's culture as a whole; others may find fulfillment and authenticity within the same environment.
- The pursuit of material wealth and attention to appearance can be a form of self-expression and not necessarily indicative of a superficial life; what is superficial to one person may be meaningful to another.
- Trusting intuition over prevailing opinions can sometimes lead to erroneous conclusions; it's important to balance personal instincts with evidence and reasoned argument.
- Skepi's skepticism about Charlie Kirk's death, while valid as a personal feeling, should not be conflated with factual evidence without proper investigation and corroboration.
- The unity in skepticism about Kirk's death could be seen as a form of confirmation bias, ...
Actionables
- You can redefine your personal values by creating a "Values Vision Board" that visually represents your core beliefs and aspirations. Start by gathering images, quotes, and symbols that resonate with your authentic self and arrange them on a board or digital canvas. This visual representation can serve as a daily reminder of what truly matters to you, helping you make decisions that align with your values rather than societal expectations.
- Develop your intuition by keeping a "Gut-Check Journal" where you record instances when you follow your instincts rather than popular opinion. Note the situation, your intuitive response, the outcome, and any feelings or thoughts that accompanied the decision. Over time, reviewing this journal can help you recognize patterns in your intuitive thinking and strengthen your trust in your inner voice.
- Foster a community of critical thi ...
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