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The Other Wes Moore chronicles the lives of two men with the same name. Both Wes Moores are Black men who grew up in the inner-city communities of Baltimore City and the Bronx. Both were raised by single mothers within the same era. So, how did one end up a decorated military veteran and academic scholar and the other a convicted murder with a life sentence?
The book, written by Wes Moore the Army veteran, searches for answers by parsing their histories. He formed a relationship with the other Wes Moore to try to understand when and why their paths diverged. Part memoir, part biography, this book questions the influence of family and environment in young men’s lives and the possible steps to be taken to ensure success, especially in the lives of those without privilege or resources.
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Wes’s Different Path
Wes’s childhood was different. His father was absent, not dead. The two had only ever been in the same room three times in Wes’s life. His mother, Mary, raised Wes and his older half-brother Tony on her own, attending college part-time to fulfill her dream of earning a degree. But the federal funding supporting Mary’s tuition was canceled, and she went to work full-time.
With Mary out of the house often and Tony embroiled in the drug trade, Wes was left to his own devices. He lacked guidance and emotional support, and he had a quick temper that went unaddressed. His decision-making skills were poor, leading to a number of ill-advised behaviors that had lasting effects.
For instance, when he was eight years old, a boy punched him. His anger and embarrassment made him go after the boy with a kitchen knife, earning his first stint in handcuffs. He was apathetic about school, but no one noticed or intervened. He started working for a drug dealer without considering the implications so he could earn money for flashy clothes. And when Wes was 15, he impregnated his girlfriend, then shot at the cousin of a different girl he was seeing after the cousin beat Wes up. These incidents led Wes further down a difficult path and gave him a lengthy rap sheet.
Role Models and Expectations
Moore’s parents and grandparents tried to instill good values in him, but his continued spiral into reckless and lazy behavior made them fear for his future. They hoped enrolling him in military school would do the trick, and it did. Moore gained valuable lessons about discipline and responsibility from his commanders at school. His Uncle Howard also stepped in as a surrogate father. He steered Moore in positive directions and tried to help Moore make sense of his life.
Later, Moore received guidance from counselors and city officials, all with the purpose of opening opportunities to him. The care and support from these individuals made Moore realize how much people cared about his success, and in turn, he started to care, too. People wanted him to succeed, and he worked to meet those expectations.
However, Wes’s only role model was Tony, who did his best to keep Wes from falling into the gang life he was wrapped up in, but Wes never heeded Tony’s advice. He looked up to his brother and envied his independence and growing income. The more Tony pushed Wes away from a life of crime, the more Wes followed in his brother’s footsteps. There were few in Wes’s life who set expectations for him, and even if they did (such as his Aunt Nicey, who tried to force Wes to either get an education or a job), there was no follow-up to ensure his success. Wes was free to take the easy and increasingly problematic routes through life.
Divergent Lives
From rocky beginnings, Moore was able to turn his life around. He became a decorated officer in the Army, a successful student, a Rhodes scholar, White House Fellow, and businessman. Although he was originally forced down this better path, his initially small successes let Moore become more confident and taught him to have faith in his abilities. He credits his family and the important mentors in his life for helping him see that he could be more than his environment dictated.
By contrast, Wes’s rocky beginnings sent him down a path of darkness. Wes’s record and lack of education made it difficult for him to find work. He’d also fathered four children by the time he was twenty. At some point, Wes wanted out of the life of drugs and crime. He enrolled in a job-training program and earned his GED. However, living the straight life was more difficult than Wes had imagined. He struggled to find permanent work and earned a minimal salary from the jobs he did find. With a large family to support, Wes struggled to make ends meet and sank into despair. He wandered back into his old life, which returned him to the path of crime. After participating in a robbery and murder, Wes landed behind bars for good.
What It All Means
Moore has tried to parse the trajectories of both his life and Wes’s to find the factor that made the difference. He’s the first to admit he hasn’t found it yet. What Moore does believe is that young people need strong mentors in their lives. The tendency to focus only on what’s right in front of them is strong in young people. What made the difference for him were all the people who steered him to look for more than that. They helped him see that being Black and poor, not having a father, and living in underserved and crime-ridden communities didn’t dictate what kind of future he could have. They allowed him to understand what freedom meant.
At the end of the day, Moore knows everyone has choices, and the choices you make are yours alone, even if the circumstances and influences are negative. Moore makes no allowances or excuses for Wes’s choices. But he also can’t discount the impact of positive influence in his own life. The solution, perhaps, is support. Society cannot predict who will make the right choices, but society should ensure that each young person, regardless of economic or demographic considerations, is provided the tools and resources needed to see all the options before they choose.
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