My Mother's House & Sido
Having read this book and most of Colette’s books, I feel I have participated in her fictional childhood. [source]
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Having read this book and most of Colette’s books, I feel I have participated in her fictional childhood. [source]
2Aristotle tells us that all politics starts in the family, and you really do see that in To the Lighthouse. Woolf always said that there is no symbolism in the lighthouse at all, and I think we should believe her. All the same, I do think that the lighthouse, in a way, is Mrs Ramsay because the lighthouse is there to protect us from harm and from hazards, and Mrs Ramsay is a self-sacrificing, patient mother who attends to everyone’s needs and tends to protect them from hazards. Of course, that was an impossibility for Woolf, because her mother died when she was 13. So she is really trying to recreate her mother and also her father, Mr Ramsay. She’s brought them to life – I wonder what that must have been like for her to write. In Hot Milk, I refer to To the Lighthouse as well as Woolf’s earlier novel The Voyage Out. It seems to Sofia that her mother is a hazard, and she says, later, ‘I’ve been waiting for her to take the voyage out of her gloom, to buy a ticket to a vital life with an extra ticket for me. I’ve been waiting all my life for her to reserve a seat for me.’ [source]
When all is said and done, I think it is her greatest novel. [source]
3Out of all the books we’re discussing, the mother in The Lover is the saddest [source]
4She felt that it was her job to keep her mother alive, and that she’d sacrificed her own need to be dependant. [source]
Almódovar asks us: ‘What is an authentic woman? What is an authentic man?’ [source]