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Whether an expectant mother or a new parent, What to Expect is a comprehensive guide to ensuring proper nutrition during and after pregnancy. Author Heidi Murkoff provides detailed insight into how a mother's diet impacts fetal development and the lifelong health of her child.

From the fundamentals of a nutrient-rich diet to managing special dietary needs and food aversions, this book covers the essential dietary components for every stage. It also offers practical advice on meal planning, navigating dining out, and promoting healthy eating habits for nursing mothers and their newborns.

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  • Create a "Leftover Lab" in your kitchen where you experiment with transforming leftovers into new dishes. For example, use last night's roasted vegetables as a filling for omelets or blend them into a savory soup. This encourages creativity and reduces waste by viewing leftovers as ingredients for new creations.
Choosing recipes designed for rapid assembly helps streamline the meal preparation process.

Murkoff highlights the importance of efficient time management, especially for pregnant women who have busy timetables, offering a variety of methods to make the most of their time. She recommends limiting your trips to the supermarket to once a week, while also suggesting quick stops at the fish counter or exploring the possibility of ordering groceries online. Murkoff emphasizes the need to streamline the cooking process, suggesting the use of microwaves, pressure cookers, or wrapping food in foil prior to heating. She recommends investing in kitchen tools such as a blender to speed up the process of preparing meals. Preparing a variety of nutritious options in advance is a smart strategy, including cooking large quantities of whole grain rice and hard-boiling eggs, in addition to pre-cutting fruits and vegetables, with the surplus stored in the freezer for later consumption.

Practical Tips

  • Use a timer to challenge yourself to beat your previous meal prep times. This gamification of the cooking process can make meal preparation more engaging and encourage you to find faster ways to assemble meals. For instance, if it took you 20 minutes to prepare a stir-fry last time, aim for 18 minutes on your next try.
  • Create a visual time-block chart for your week using color-coded sticky notes to allocate time for rest, appointments, and tasks. By physically mapping out your week on a wall or board, you can quickly see how your time is distributed and make adjustments as needed. For example, if you notice too many tasks clustered together, spread them out to avoid overwhelm.
  • Partner with a neighbor or friend to alternate weekly shopping trips, sharing the list and splitting the cost. This not only reduces the frequency of your trips but also builds community. For instance, you could create a shared Google Doc where each of you adds items needed for the week, and whoever is scheduled to go shopping can purchase for both households.
  • Experiment with "no-prep" baking by using silicone baking mats or parchment paper to eliminate the need for greasing pans and to make cleanup a breeze. Try making cookies, roasted vegetables, or fish en papillote (wrapped in parchment) and observe how it affects your overall cooking time and effort.
  • Integrate smart technology by using a kitchen inventory app that syncs with your blender usage. Input the ingredients you have, and let the app suggest recipes that can be made with your blender. This not only helps you use what you already have, reducing waste, but also encourages you to try new recipes and make the most of your kitchen tools.
  • Invest in divided meal prep containers to portion out rice and egg servings for the week, making it simple to grab a balanced meal on the go.

Securing adequate nutrition through one's dietary intake is essential in a range of everyday situations.

This section of the book explores various challenges that may hinder a pregnant woman's ability to maintain a nutritious diet.

Selecting a suitable dining establishment, making wise choices from the menu, and not hesitating to request customizations are key steps to preserving your health when dining out.

Murkoff acknowledges that eating out is often inevitable, especially for pregnant women with busy lives, and offers tips for making healthy choices when dining at a restaurant. She suggests doing some preliminary research on the restaurant's menu online when feasible and making a decision about what to eat before you go. Murkoff stresses the importance of starting your meal with a salad or grilled vegetables and points out the value of selecting simply prepared proteins, such as chicken that has been grilled or fish that has been broiled, and suggests asking for any sauces or dressings to be provided on the side. She reassures her audience that having particular tastes is perfectly acceptable, such as choosing whole grain rice over processed varieties or asking for smaller portions to control the size of meals.

Practical Tips

  • Create a personalized menu rating system to evaluate options before visiting a restaurant, considering factors like health, taste, and budget preferences. By scoring menu items based on these criteria, you can make informed decisions that align with your dining goals. For example, assign a score from 1 to 10 for each factor, and choose dishes that score the highest overall.
  • Introduce a weekly "salad swap" where one meal a week is entirely replaced with a large, nutrient-dense salad or a plate of grilled vegetables. This can be a lunch or dinner where the focus is on experimenting with different vegetables, dressings, and toppings to keep it exciting and satisfying. Share your creations on social media or with friends to inspire others and get new ideas for your next "salad swap" meal.
  • Use a meal-tracking app to log your protein choices and their preparation methods. By actively recording your meals, you'll become more conscious of the proteins you're consuming and their preparation. This can help you identify patterns and make more informed decisions about incorporating simply prepared proteins into your diet.
  • Create a visual reminder by setting a wallpaper on your phone or computer with a simple message like "Sauce on the side, please!" This can prompt you to remember this practice when you're about to order food. You might also carry a small card in your wallet with the same message as a physical reminder for when you're dining out.
Prepare for your travels by planning ahead to select nutritious food options, including bringing your own healthy snacks.

Ensuring proper nutrition becomes especially difficult for expectant mothers during travel. Murkoff advises planning your meals according to your travel schedule, taking into account variations in time zones and unpredictable timetables. She underscores the importance of assembling a snack pack with long-lasting options like mixed nuts, seeds, dried fruits, various cheeses, and bars composed of fruits and nuts, and recommends adding a container with warm soup to help curb appetite between meals.

Murkoff underscores the necessity for pregnant women to be particularly cautious about food cleanliness, especially in developing countries where sanitation standards might not be as rigorous. She underscores the importance of avoiding raw seafood, ensuring meats and eggs are fully cooked, and limiting consumption to pasteurized dairy products, while also making sure to eat only fruits and vegetables that have had their skins removed. She recommends ensuring that your accommodation has a compact fridge to chill snacks and drinks, and to confirm whether the local water is safe for drinking and brushing your teeth before using it.

Practical Tips

  • Create a 'travel meal kit' with non-perishable items that cater to your nutritional needs and can be easily adjusted to your changing schedule. Pack items like nuts, protein bars, dried fruits, and whole-grain crackers, which are easy to carry and can serve as a meal replacement or a healthy snack if your travel plans change unexpectedly.
  • Create a snack rotation calendar to introduce variety and ensure nutritional balance. By planning your snacks for the week, you can make sure you're getting a diverse range of nutrients and flavors. For example, pair almonds with dried cherries one day and pumpkin seeds with apricots another. This helps prevent snack fatigue and ensures you're looking forward to your next healthy treat.
  • Use a thermos with pre-marked time intervals to portion your soup intake throughout the day. This can help you manage your consumption and ensure that you're having your warm soup at optimal times to curb hunger between meals, such as mid-morning or mid-afternoon, when energy levels might typically dip.
  • Engage with local food safety workshops or cooking classes when visiting a new country. This not only immerses you in the local culture but also educates you on safe food handling practices specific to the region, giving you practical skills to ensure the cleanliness of your food.
  • Develop a habit of reading and following cooking instructions on food packaging, especially for products like frozen meals or pre-marinated meats. These instructions are designed to ensure that the food is cooked properly to eliminate harmful bacteria. As you prepare these foods, take note of the recommended cooking times and temperatures to ensure thorough cooking.
  • Having a constant visual cue in a place where you often reach for dairy products can reinforce the habit of choosing pasteurized options. For example, if you see a bright green magnet every time you open the fridge, it will prompt you to think about whether the cheese, milk, or yogurt you're grabbing has been pasteurized.
  • Experiment with different ways to repurpose the peels, such as making vegetable broth or composting, to maintain an eco-friendly approach while following the skin-removal practice. This ensures you're not wasting the nutrient-rich parts of the produce and are contributing to a sustainable lifestyle.
  • Integrate your compact fridge into a daily routine by setting specific times for restocking and cleaning. This ensures that your fridge remains a reliable resource for snacks and drinks without becoming cluttered or unsanitary. You might decide to restock every Sunday evening, preparing for the week ahead, and clean it out every Friday, removing any items that weren't consumed and wiping down the interior to maintain freshness.
  • Partner with a local university's environmental science department to conduct a more thorough water analysis. Many students and professors are looking for community projects, and they might test your water as part of their studies or outreach programs.
Managing food preferences and dislikes while maintaining a commitment to a nutritionally dense eating regimen.

Murkoff notes that expectant mothers often experience fluctuations in their appetite and strong desires for certain foods due to hormonal shifts. She advocates for a balanced approach, acknowledging that it's not necessary to entirely ignore cravings. She advocates for choosing wholesome alternatives and exercising restraint. If you're craving something sweet, for example, reach for a piece of fruit or a small serving of yogurt with dark chocolate chips. If you're craving salty tastes, think about choosing almonds or a small serving of lentil chips.

To cope with a distaste for certain foods, Murkoff suggests choosing different foods that provide similar nutritional benefits. If broccoli causes discomfort to your stomach, cantaloupe can serve as a different option to obtain your Vitamin A. If you're starting to lose your taste for chicken, think about incorporating different protein options like tofu and beans into your meals. Heidi Murkoff offers comfort by explaining that these dislikes are generally short-lived, and it's common for an individual's appetite for various foods to return after the first trimester.

Practical Tips

  • Create a 'craving alternatives' chart to hang on your fridge for healthier options that satisfy your urges. For instance, if you're craving something sweet, the chart might suggest eating a piece of fruit or a yogurt instead of reaching for candy. This visual reminder can help you make better choices when cravings hit.
  • Use a portion control dishware set to naturally limit the amount of food you consume without feeling deprived. These dishes are designed with visual cues for serving sizes, helping you enjoy your favorite foods in moderation. For instance, a plate with marked sections can guide you to fill half with vegetables, a quarter with lean protein, and a quarter with whole grains.
  • Experiment with making your own frozen yogurt pops at home, incorporating fruits and dark chocolate bits, to have a ready-made, portion-controlled treat that satisfies your sweet tooth.
  • Experiment with seasoning blends by mixing different herbs and spices to sprinkle on unsalted nuts or popcorn. This allows you to control the flavor and sodium content while satisfying your salty cravings in a more health-conscious way.
  • Engage in a 'nutritional scavenger hunt' at your local grocery store or farmers' market. Challenge yourself to find at least three new foods that match the nutritional profile of a food you dislike. If you're not a fan of dairy for calcium, hunt for fortified plant milks, tofu, or leafy greens like kale that can provide similar benefits.
  • Host a "Vitamin A Variety" potluck with friends where each person brings a dish made from a different vitamin A source, including cantaloupe and broccoli. This social gathering not only promotes the sharing of healthy recipes but also demonstrates the versatility of vitamin A sources in a fun and engaging way.
  • Experiment with international cuisines that traditionally use tofu and beans, like making a Mexican bean chili or a Japanese miso soup with tofu. This approach allows you to explore new flavors and cooking techniques, which can make the transition to these proteins more exciting and less of a chore.
  • Experiment with creative food pairings by combining a disliked food with a favored one to make it more palatable. For instance, if you find yourself disliking broccoli, try incorporating it into a cheese omelet, where the flavors you enjoy may help you accept the disliked food better.
  • Experiment with small, frequent meals to manage your changing appetite. As your appetite begins to return, you might still find large meals overwhelming. Try eating smaller, nutrient-dense meals more frequently throughout the day. This can help you reintegrate a variety of foods into your diet without feeling forced or uncomfortable.
During pregnancy, it's crucial to avoid specific foods and drinks that could present hazards.

Murkoff provides comprehensive advice on restricting or avoiding certain foods and beverages to protect the well-being of the fetus and minimize the risk of potential health complications. These include alcohol, foods such as uncooked seafood and shellfish, meats and eggs that are not fully cooked, fish that has been smoked or cured, as well as certain soft cheeses made from raw milk, hot dogs and deli meats unless they are heated until they steam, raw sprouts, and juices that haven't undergone pasteurization. She explains the reasons behind every dietary restriction, emphasizing the increased risk of illnesses transmitted through food during pregnancy, including listeriosis, which is a considerable danger. Murkoff also provides practical advice on substituting restricted foods with safe alternatives. For example, she advises choosing sushi rolls filled with cooked fish instead of varieties that include raw fish. She advises limiting daily caffeine intake to a maximum of 200 milligrams.

Other Perspectives

  • While it's generally advisable to avoid uncooked seafood and meats due to the risk of foodborne illnesses, some traditional diets and cultures consider certain raw foods to be both safe and nutritious during pregnancy, provided they come from reputable sources and are handled properly.
  • Concerning raw milk soft cheeses, the risk of bacterial infection is a concern, but in countries where raw milk cheeses are produced under strict regulations, the risk might be lower, and some might argue that these could be consumed in moderation.
  • Some individuals might not have the means to properly heat these items until they steam, which could lead to a false sense of security about the safety of the food.
  • The nutritional content of cooked fish can differ from that of raw fish; for example, some vitamins are more sensitive to heat and might be diminished in cooked varieties.
  • The recommendation to limit caffeine intake to 200 milligrams may not take into account the varying caffeine content in different beverages and the possibility of inaccurate self-reporting, leading to unintentional overconsumption.

Ensuring proper nutrition and achieving a healthy postpartum weight gain.

Maintaining a weight that is within a healthy spectrum is crucial for overall well-being throughout pregnancy.

This section of the book provides guidance on maintaining a healthy weight for both the mother-to-be and her unborn child during pregnancy, emphasizing the importance of careful consideration in this matter.

Murkoff acknowledges the range of feelings expectant mothers have about adding pounds and provides comfort by emphasizing that weight gain, when it's within a healthy spectrum, is essential for their babies' development during the entire gestation period. She provides a comprehensive breakdown of how much weight a woman should gain, which is customized based on her pre-pregnancy weight and body mass index. Individuals with a body mass index indicating they are below the recommended weight should think about putting on pounds, while those with a body mass index suggesting they are above the recommended weight should consider managing their weight gain.

Practical Tips

  • Engage in resistance training exercises that promote muscle growth. While cardio is important for overall health, resistance training like weightlifting or bodyweight exercises can help you build muscle mass, which contributes to healthy weight gain. Start with simple routines that focus on major muscle groups and progressively increase the intensity as you grow stronger.
  • Engage in daily micro workouts by setting reminders to do short bursts of exercise throughout the day. These could be as simple as doing a set of squats during a commercial break or taking a brisk five-minute walk after each hour of sedentary work. These small activities add up over time and can contribute to overall calorie burn without requiring large blocks of time.
Keeping track of the weight you gain while pregnant is crucial for the healthy progression of your pregnancy.

Murkoff emphasizes the significance of steady and incremental weight gain to sustain a pregnancy that is healthy. As the gestational period progresses, she explains that while the first trimester usually sees little weight increase, it becomes more noticeable and steady as the due date draws nearer. Murkoff advises monitoring weight trends without fixating on daily changes, recommending weighing oneself once a week or every other week. She also cautions pregnant women to avoid restricting their caloric intake or engaging in intense exercise to manage weight, emphasizing the necessity of adequate dietary nourishment for the health and growth of both the mother and the unborn baby.

Other Perspectives

  • Monitoring weight only weekly or bi-weekly may not capture the nuances of a woman's weight fluctuations, which could be indicative of underlying health issues that require more immediate attention.
  • Weighing oneself too frequently can lead to an unhealthy focus on weight rather than overall health.
  • While it's generally not recommended to restrict calories during pregnancy, there may be specific medical circumstances where a healthcare provider might advise a tailored diet plan to manage weight for the health of the mother and baby.
  • In some cases, supplementation may be necessary to address specific nutritional needs or deficiencies that cannot be met through diet alone, indicating that dietary nourishment, while necessary, might not always be sufficient for the health and growth of the mother and unborn baby.
Significant deviations in body weight, whether excessive or insufficient, can lead to potential hazards and complications.

Murkoff addresses the risks associated with excessive weight gain during pregnancy, which may increase the probability of encountering health problems such as gestational diabetes, and can result in complications like preeclampsia, a more difficult labor and delivery, the birth of a larger infant, and the subsequent challenge of losing the extra weight after giving birth. If a mother does not gain enough weight during pregnancy, it can lead to incomplete development in the fetus, which may result in the delivery of a baby with low birth weight and associated health complications. Murkoff emphasizes the importance of steadily increasing weight within prescribed limits, which is advantageous for the well-being of both the mother and the child during pregnancy.

Context

  • A pregnancy complication characterized by high blood pressure and signs of damage to other organ systems, often the liver and kidneys. It usually begins after 20 weeks of pregnancy in women whose blood pressure had been normal. If untreated, it can lead to serious, even fatal, complications for both mother and baby.
  • Babies born with low birth weight are at a higher risk for long-term health problems, including developmental delays and chronic conditions such as diabetes and heart disease later in life.
  • Health professionals provide guidelines for weight gain based on factors like pre-pregnancy BMI. Regular monitoring helps ensure that weight gain is within healthy limits, reducing risks for both mother and child.

Ensuring proper nutrition for your body following childbirth.

This portion underscores the importance of adhering to a healthy diet following the birth of a child, particularly for individuals who are breastfeeding.

Supporting breastfeeding needs with proper nutrition and adequate calorie intake

Murkoff emphasizes the significance of adequate nutrition following childbirth, especially for breastfeeding mothers, given the substantial energy their bodies invest in producing nutrient-rich sustenance for their babies. She explains that breastfeeding requires a woman to consume more calories than during pregnancy, specifically an extra 500 calories per day on top of her pre-pregnancy intake. Murkoff offers comfort to readers by explaining that the weight accumulated throughout pregnancy is typically not permanent, since breastfeeding can aid in naturally shedding the extra weight.

Practical Tips

  • Partner with a friend or family member for a weekly meal prep session focused on nutrient-dense, easy-to-eat foods. This can be a fun way to spend time together while also preparing healthy meals and snacks that are rich in the nutrients breastfeeding mothers need. Think about foods that are high in protein, calcium, iron, and omega-3 fatty acids, and prepare them in bulk so you have quick access to nutritious foods even on your busiest days.
  • Incorporate moderate exercise with your baby to enhance the potential weight loss benefits of breastfeeding. Engage in activities like brisk walking or postnatal yoga classes that allow you to bring your baby along. This not only supports your physical health but also provides bonding time with your child.
Vital substances that aid in recuperation postpartum, boost vitality and emotional well-being, and promote better digestion.

Murkoff underscores the significance of specific nutritional components that support recuperation following childbirth. She recommends adding nutrient-dense foods that are high in protein, calcium, iron, and dietary fiber to replenish nutrients that have been depleted, boost energy, balance mood swings, and aid in preventing constipation.

Practical Tips

  • You can track your dietary fiber intake using a food diary app to ensure you're getting enough to potentially aid with mood balance and constipation prevention. Start by downloading any popular food tracking app that includes a fiber tracking feature. Log every meal and snack you consume, paying special attention to the fiber content. Aim for the recommended daily intake of fiber, which varies depending on age and sex, but is generally around 25 to 30 grams per day.
Effective nutritional approaches to facilitate weight reduction postpartum.

Murkoff recognizes the desire of many new moms to lose the extra pounds gained during pregnancy and offers a sensible and supportive guide to healthy weight loss after delivery. She advises allowing a minimum of six weeks after giving birth, or three months for those who are nursing, before embarking on any weight reduction plans to give the body sufficient time to heal. She recommends that mothers who are breastfeeding should not drastically cut down on calories and should instead follow a gradual method that is consistent with the dietary recommendations outlined in the third chapter's Pregnancy Daily Dozen. Murkoff encourages incorporating exercise into daily life and combining it with healthy eating for sustainable weight loss.

Mothers who breastfeed might think about cutting back on or completely removing specific items from what they consume.

Murkoff offers current advice on what mothers should avoid consuming, particularly in terms of beverages, while nursing their infants. Heidi Murkoff stresses the significance of limiting alcohol use and curtailing the consumption of caffeine to ensure these substances do not transfer to the baby through breastmilk. She recommends that mothers who breastfeed observe their dietary choices closely and adjust them if certain foods seem to provoke allergic reactions in their babies. Murkoff underscores the necessity of engaging in conversation with your healthcare provider before initiating any natural supplement regimen.

Practical Tips

  • Create a game out of walking more steps each day by setting incremental targets and rewarding yourself when you hit them. Start with a manageable number, like adding 500 extra steps each day, and once you consistently hit your target for a week, treat yourself to a non-food reward like a movie night. This gamifies the process of increasing daily activity, making it more engaging and likely to stick as a habit.
  • Use a smartphone app designed for ingredient analysis to scan grocery items before purchasing. This can help you avoid foods with potential allergens or harmful substances that could affect your baby. For instance, if an app alerts you that a certain product contains caffeine or high levels of mercury, you can make an informed decision to choose a safer alternative.
  • Partner with a friend or family member who is also breastfeeding or looking to reduce alcohol and caffeine intake for accountability. Set shared goals and check in with each other daily to discuss challenges and successes. This social support can be a powerful motivator and provide you with someone to share non-alcoholic, caffeine-free recipes or activities that help distract from cravings.
  • Introduce new foods to your baby one at a time with a gap of 3-5 days. This staggered approach allows you to monitor your baby's reaction to each new food individually, making it easier to identify any allergens.
  • Use a mobile app designed to remind you of medical appointments and to take your supplements as prescribed. This ensures you maintain consistency and can accurately report back to your healthcare provider on the regimen's effects. Look for apps that allow you to set multiple reminders throughout the day and can be customized with notes about each supplement.

Specific Dietary Guidelines and Meal Plans

Expectant mothers could benefit from incorporating twelve essential routines into their daily schedule.

This part of the book offers comprehensive guidance on nutrition, presenting a strategy known as the Pregnancy Daily Dozen to help expectant mothers achieve their dietary objectives.

A practical guide to meeting your daily nutrition goals with straightforward serving suggestions.

Murkoff emphasizes the significance of avoiding an excessive focus on tracking calories and scrutinizing the nutritional content of what you eat, especially when expecting a baby. A well-balanced diet during pregnancy is crucial for the health of both the mother-to-be and the unborn child, and it can be summarized by twelve essential nutritional groups. She emphasizes that the goal is not to achieve perfection but rather to focus on making progress. Strive to meet the recommended intake from every food category, and it's not a concern if occasionally your consumption of fruits or vegetables falls short of the target, or if your intake of fats or carbohydrates exceeds the suggested amounts at times.

Practical Tips

  • You can use a mindful eating journal to focus on your feelings and experiences during meals rather than the numbers. Instead of writing down calories, note the textures, flavors, and your level of hunger or fullness. This practice can help shift your attention from the quantitative aspects of eating to the qualitative, enhancing your relationship with food.
  • Set up a "progress partner" system with a friend or colleague where you share weekly updates on what you've accomplished. This creates a supportive environment that celebrates progress over perfection. By sharing your achievements and hearing about someone else's, you reinforce the idea that moving forward is more important than flawless results.
  • Create a "balance bank" of physical activities to offset days when you consume excess fats or carbohydrates. For instance, if you have a heavy meal, plan a longer walk or an extra 15 minutes of dancing to your favorite music the next day. This isn't about calorie counting but about maintaining a balanced lifestyle where you can enjoy food without stress.
Make certain to include in your diet sufficient quantities of essential nutrients such as protein, calcium, vitamins C and A, along with a diverse selection of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, iron-rich foods, fats, omega-3 fatty acids, and maintain hydration by drinking ample fluids.

Murkoff highlights the significance of maintaining a nutritious diet throughout pregnancy, which includes the daily intake of four portions of foods high in calcium. She also suggests that pregnant individuals should eat foods that provide three servings of protein, where each serving is the same as 4 ounces of cooked meat, fish, or poultry. In addition, she recommends a diet that includes a variety of fruits and vegetables: three portions of those rich in Vitamin C, three to four portions of those abundant in Vitamin A, one to two portions of other fruits and vegetables, at least six portions of whole grains and legumes, and the inclusion of foods containing iron in addition to any prescribed iron supplements. The consumption of healthy fats and omega-3 fatty acids should be done in moderation, and DHA supplements should be taken if advised by a healthcare professional. To stay properly hydrated, it is suggested to drink approximately ten 8-ounce glasses of water or other beverages each day, with an increase in fluid intake if one is physically active or in a hot climate.

Practical Tips

  • Integrate calcium-rich snacks into your daily routine by keeping them within easy reach at work or home. For example, stash a container of almonds in your desk drawer or have a small cheese platter ready in your fridge. This ensures that you're more likely to reach for these calcium-rich options when you're in need of a quick snack.
  • Use a digital food scale to measure your protein portions accurately, ensuring you're getting the exact amount recommended. By weighing your meat, fish, or plant-based proteins before cooking, you can adjust serving sizes to hit the 4-ounce target. For example, if you're preparing chicken breast, place it on the scale and add or remove pieces until you reach 4 ounces.
  • Create a "Veggie Swap Club" with friends or family where each person brings a different type of vegetable to exchange. This way, you get to try new produce without committing to buying a whole lot of something you're unfamiliar with. You might trade your carrots for someone's parsnips and discover a new favorite.
  • Create a visual reminder by setting up a colorful fruit bowl in your living space or workspace. Seeing the fruits readily available will prompt you to reach for them throughout the day. Keep it stocked with easy-to-grab options like clementines, papayas, and bell peppers.
  • You can integrate vitamin A-rich vegetables into your breakfast routine by adding them to smoothies or omelets. For example, blend spinach or kale into your morning smoothie or chop up some sweet potatoes to include in your omelet. This ensures you start your day with a portion of the nutrients you need.
  • You can make fruit and vegetable intake more convenient by prepping snack-sized portions ahead of time. Wash, cut, and portion fruits and vegetables right after you buy them and store them in clear containers at eye level in your fridge. This way, when you open the fridge looking for a snack, the healthy options are the first thing you see and are ready to eat.
  • Experiment with one-pot meals that combine whole grains and legumes, such as rice and beans or quinoa and lentil casseroles. These dishes are not only convenient but also allow you to cook in bulk, ensuring you have multiple servings ready for the week ahead.
  • Cook with cast iron cookware to naturally increase iron intake. Cooking acidic foods like tomato sauce in cast iron pots can increase the iron content of the food. This is a subtle way to boost your iron levels, especially if you're not keen on taking supplements or have difficulty with them.
  • Incorporate omega-3-rich recipes into your weekly meal plan to naturally increase your DHA intake. Experiment with dishes that include salmon, walnuts, flaxseeds, or chia seeds, which are known for their high omega-3 content. This way, you can boost your DHA levels through diet and potentially reduce the need for supplements.
  • This gadget can make the process of drinking water more interactive and fun, and it gives you a visual representation of your progress, which can serve as a motivational tool.
  • Create a DIY cooling mist spray by combining water with a few drops of peppermint essential oil in a spray bottle. Keep this with you during outdoor activities or workouts to refresh and encourage skin evaporation, which can prompt you to drink more water to replenish fluids.
Ensuring adequate nutritional intake during pregnancy is crucial, and this can be achieved by consuming a prenatal vitamin.

Murkoff emphasizes the importance of adding prenatal vitamin supplements to enhance protection, but not as a replacement for a nutritious diet. A diverse and balanced diet provides a range of nutrients that supplements alone cannot offer. Heidi Murkoff recommends that pregnant women incorporate the Pregnancy Daily Dozen into their daily nutrition plans, along with a prenatal multivitamin to balance out any possible shortages in nutrients. She emphasizes the importance of a balanced diet while acknowledging that taking prenatal vitamins can provide a safety net during periods when maintaining ideal dietary habits is difficult, such as when illness impedes vegetable consumption, busy schedules limit time for food shopping, or specific food aversions occur.

Practical Tips

  • Create a "Cultural Cuisine Week" once a month where you explore recipes from different parts of the world. This not only broadens your culinary skills but also introduces you to a range of ingredients and nutrient profiles typical of various diets. You might try a Mediterranean dish with plenty of olives and tomatoes one day, then a Japanese meal featuring seaweed and fermented soy the next.
  • Create a visual daily dozen chart with magnets for your refrigerator to track your intake. Use a simple whiteboard or a printed sheet with twelve empty slots representing the daily dozen. Each time you consume an item from the dozen, place a magnet or a sticker in the corresponding slot. This visual representation will help you see at a glance which nutrients you've already consumed and which you still need to focus on for the day.
  • Engage with a community of expectant parents online to share experiences and tips about balancing diet and prenatal vitamins. Through forums or social media groups, you can learn from others about how they manage their nutrient intake and discover new strategies to enhance the effectiveness of your prenatal vitamins. For example, someone might share a recipe that's particularly rich in a nutrient you're lacking, which you can then try at home.

This section of the book offers advice on adjusting everyday eating routines, known as the Pregnancy Daily Dozen, to meet the evolving nutritional needs following the birth of a child, relevant to all mothers, whether they breastfeed or not.

Implementing the twelve essential principles during the period following childbirth.

Murkoff reassures new mothers that improving their diet postpartum doesn't require drastic changes or strict dietary restrictions. The book underscores the significance of continuing with nutritious eating habits established while pregnant and heeding the cues from your body to adjust your calorie intake based on individual needs and breastfeeding status. Following childbirth, it's crucial to avoid significantly reducing your calorie intake until you've recovered from delivery and regained your energy, and if breastfeeding, to gradually decrease consumption; it's equally important to continue incorporating the same levels of calcium in your diet as during pregnancy, and to carefully cut back on fats.

Practical Tips

  • Consider joining a new mother's fitness group that focuses on gentle exercise rather than intense calorie-burning workouts. These groups often provide support and activities that are designed to help you regain strength and energy without the pressure of rapid weight loss. It's a way to stay active and social while respecting your body's need for recovery.
  • Create a weaning calendar that visually represents the gradual reduction in breastfeeding. On a simple wall calendar, mark the current frequency of breastfeeding sessions. Then, plan out a slow reduction schedule over the coming weeks or months, crossing off sessions as you reduce them. This visual aid can help you stay committed to the gradual process and make adjustments as needed.
  • Create a "swap sheet" of your favorite recipes, listing common high-fat ingredients alongside healthier alternatives. Keep this sheet on your fridge or in your recipe book for easy reference when cooking. For instance, if you love baking, your swap sheet might suggest using applesauce instead of butter in your recipes.
Nursing mothers are advised on the appropriate amount of food consumption.

Murkoff customizes dietary advice for different food groups, adjusting it according to whether a mother is nursing or not. The book provides a tailored version of the nutritional recommendations commonly referred to as the Daily Dozen, which are modified to meet the needs of pregnant women. Nursing mothers need to consume an additional 500 calories per day, and this amount should be even higher for mothers of twins or multiples, while a smaller increase is adequate for mothers who are not breastfeeding; they should incorporate a trio of protein sources into their daily nutrition during lactation, and to aid in the generation of milk, it's recommended that they have at least four calcium-rich food portions, in contrast to the two or three portions suggested for non-nursing mothers. People should aim to include three to four servings of Vitamin A in their daily diet. It is crucial to include whole grains and legumes in your daily meals at least three times. When breastfeeding, you should increase your fluid intake to twelve cups, but if you're not nursing, you can reduce it to between eight and ten cups.

Other Perspectives

  • The advice provided by Murkoff could be based on general guidelines that may not be up-to-date with the latest research on maternal nutrition and lactation.
  • The advice does not address the needs of mothers who may be trying to lose weight postpartum in a healthy way while still providing adequate nutrition for nursing.
  • Some mothers of twins or multiples may find that their appetite or time constraints make it challenging to consume significantly more calories, suggesting that advice should be paired with practical strategies for meeting these increased nutritional needs.
  • The psychological and emotional demands of motherhood, regardless of breastfeeding status, can also influence energy needs, suggesting that non-breastfeeding mothers might need more calories for optimal mental health.
  • The recommendation doesn't specify the quantity or serving size of the protein sources, which is crucial for ensuring that nursing mothers consume enough protein to meet their increased needs.
  • Some research suggests that the body adapts to lower calcium intakes during lactation by increasing calcium absorption and retention, which could mean that not all nursing mothers need to significantly increase their calcium intake.
  • The suggestion lacks specificity regarding portion sizes, which can vary widely, potentially leading to either insufficient or excessive calcium intake.
  • Dietary guidelines often evolve based on new research, so the recommendation for three to four servings of Vitamin A may not reflect the most current scientific understanding.
  • Some diets, such as low-carbohydrate or ketogenic diets, intentionally reduce grain and legume intake for specific health and weight-loss objectives.
  • The recommendation does not account for the fluid content in foods, which can contribute significantly to overall hydration.
  • Some non-breastfeeding mothers may still require higher fluid intake due to other conditions such as recovering from childbirth, excessive sweating, or if they are consuming diuretic beverages like coffee or tea.

The section of the book provides practical guidance for pregnant women on managing specific dietary concerns such as lactose intolerance, celiac disease, gluten sensitivity, and irritable bowel syndrome, to maintain a nourishing diet beneficial for both the woman and her developing baby.

People who are unable to digest lactose can adopt strategies to maintain sufficient calcium levels without experiencing distress.

Heidi Murkoff offers comfort by explaining that a woman's difficulty in digesting lactose, which may become more pronounced while pregnant, will not hinder her calcium absorption or the development of her infant's skeletal structure, as long as she takes the necessary steps. She begins by explaining the difference between true lactose intolerance and specific allergies to milk proteins, highlighting the range of intolerance levels. Then she provides actionable advice for handling lactose intolerance, such as eating smaller dairy servings at various times, using lactose-free alternatives, and adding lactase enzymes to assist in the digestion of lactose, thereby alleviating discomfort. Heidi Murkoff highlights that a pregnant woman can fulfill her calcium requirements by incorporating calcium-enriched juices, tofu, and diverse kinds of milks derived from plants into her diet.

Practical Tips

  • Keep a food diary to track your reactions to dairy products, noting any symptoms and their severity after consumption. This can help you identify patterns and determine if you're experiencing lactose intolerance or a milk protein allergy. For example, if you consistently notice bloating and gas after consuming a small amount of milk, it may indicate lactose intolerance, whereas hives or respiratory issues might suggest an allergy.
  • Engage in a self-guided elimination diet where you remove all dairy from your diet for a set period, then reintroduce it gradually. Start with a two-week dairy-free phase, then slowly reintroduce dairy products one at a time, with several days in between. Monitor your symptoms closely with each reintroduction to help identify which dairy products, if any, you can tolerate.
  • Incorporate dairy-digesting probiotics into your diet through non-dairy sources like supplements or probiotic-rich foods such as kimchi, sauerkraut, or kombucha. These probiotics can improve your gut health and may aid in the digestion of lactose when you do consume dairy.
People with celiac disease or gluten sensitivity must pay special attention to maintaining a balanced intake of vital nutrients while following a gluten-free diet.

Murkoff emphasizes the importance for pregnant women diagnosed with celiac disease to strictly maintain a gluten-free diet and highlights the risks associated with inadequate control of the disorder throughout pregnancy. She offers detailed advice on following a gluten-free diet, stressing the need for careful examination of product labels to uncover hidden sources of gluten and suggests choosing products that are verified as gluten-free. Murkoff reassures readers by emphasizing the availability of wholesome and flavorful choices such as millet and amaranth, in addition to a variety of grains that do not contain gluten. She emphasizes the need for increased caution to avoid cross-contamination in communal cooking areas, highlighting the necessity of separate chopping boards, tools, and even toasters for those with gluten intolerances living in a household with others who eat foods with gluten. Additionally, Murkoff provides comprehensive guidance on adhering to a gluten-free diet when dining out, emphasizing the importance of direct dialogue with restaurant personnel and inquiring thoroughly about the methods used in food preparation.

Practical Tips

  • Start a shared online document or social media group with friends or community members to log gluten-free products and personal reviews. This collective resource can grow over time, providing a quick reference to trusted products and reducing the time spent on reading labels for everyone involved.
  • Develop a habit of reading the nutritional and ingredient labels on everything you buy, even if it's not food. Gluten can be found in unexpected products like lip balm, toothpaste, and medications. By making it a routine to check labels, you'll become more aware of how widespread gluten is and better at avoiding it. You could start by checking five products you use daily and researching their ingredients to ensure they're gluten-free.
  • You can explore new flavors by incorporating millet and amaranth into traditional recipes. Start by substituting these grains in dishes that typically use rice or wheat. For example, try making a millet risotto or using amaranth in a batch of homemade granola bars. This not only introduces you to the taste and texture of these grains but also expands your culinary repertoire.
  • Try a gluten-free grain swap challenge where you replace common gluten-containing ingredients with gluten-free grains in your favorite recipes. Use quinoa instead of bulgur in tabbouleh, bake with oat flour instead of wheat flour, or thicken soups with rice flour. This will not only diversify your diet but also help you discover which gluten-free grains work best as substitutes in different types of dishes.
  • Implement a 'one-direction' workflow in your kitchen space, where you start with the least contaminating foods (like vegetables) and move towards the most contaminating (like raw meat). This way, you're less likely to backtrack and risk contaminating already-prepared foods.
  • Color-code your kitchen items to easily distinguish gluten-free tools from others. Use colored stickers, paints, or buy utensils and boards in specific colors that are designated for gluten-free use only. This visual cue will help prevent cross-contamination without having to constantly remind yourself or others which items are safe to use.
  • Partner with a friend to practice role-playing scenarios where you inquire about gluten-free options at restaurants. This can help you become more comfortable and assertive when discussing your dietary needs with restaurant staff. You can take turns being the customer and the waiter, which can also help you anticipate possible responses and prepare your own.
  • Develop a rapport with local restaurant managers and chefs by visiting during off-peak hours. Use these quieter times to have in-depth conversations about their food preparation processes, which can lead to better understanding and potentially influence how they cater to your needs in the future.
It is crucial to adhere to a nutritious eating regimen when managing the challenges presented by Irritable Bowel Syndrome.

Pregnant women dealing with irritable bowel syndrome might face heightened challenges as hormonal changes and additional intestinal pressure can exacerbate their condition. Navigating the complexities of IBS can become more demanding when expecting a child, but she offers reassurance, encouraging women to continue using the strategies that effectively controlled their IBS before they became pregnant. These strategies, she explains, are beneficial to expectant mothers across the board: consuming meals in smaller portions throughout the day; ensuring adequate hydration (though she cautions against overloading the digestive system with excessive fluids); limiting stress (easier said than done when you’re also dealing with a gassy stomach and a temperamental toddler); and avoiding trigger foods—in this case, the ones that are known to exacerbate IBS symptoms (like beans or caffeine). Expectant mothers who are accustomed to following a low-FODMAP diet should collaborate with a gastroenterologist to create a nutritional plan that meets their prenatal needs while also managing their IBS symptoms.

Other Perspectives

  • The statement might overgeneralize the experience of pregnant women with IBS, as the severity and nature of IBS symptoms can be highly individual, and not all women with IBS will experience heightened challenges during pregnancy.
  • Dietary restrictions or guidelines followed before pregnancy, such as a low-FODMAP diet, may need to be adjusted to ensure adequate intake of all necessary vitamins and minerals for fetal development, which might not align with IBS management.
  • Managing stress is indeed important, but the effectiveness of stress management techniques can vary greatly from person to person, and some individuals may require professional support or therapy to effectively manage stress levels.
  • The financial and time costs associated with consulting a gastroenterologist might not be feasible for all women, suggesting that more accessible sources of dietary guidance could be equally beneficial.

Murkoff dedicates a significant portion of the book to exploring common symptoms associated with pregnancy and provides dietary recommendations to manage these conditions. To mitigate the unease associated with nausea during pregnancy, she recommends eating small amounts frequently, choosing basic, easily digestible carbohydrates, incorporating protein into your meals, and using ginger to lessen the sensation of queasiness. She underscores the importance of ensuring adequate hydration, especially when experiencing repeated bouts of vomiting.

Murkoff explores the complexities behind the aversion to certain foods that pregnant women often experience, noting that this usually coincides with morning sickness and is linked to changes in hormone levels. She recommends that women pay attention to the cues their bodies provide, avoid substances that could cause negative reactions, and seek out other nutritious options to meet their dietary needs.

To mitigate heartburn, Murkoff suggests eating frequent meals in smaller portions and avoiding known triggers such as spicy, fatty, or acidic foods, limiting liquid intake during meals, and chewing gum to increase saliva production which can neutralize stomach acid.

The book provides advice on alleviating difficulties with bowel movements and underscores the significance of improving one's nutritional regimen by incorporating more fiber-rich foods like unprocessed fruits, vegetables, and grains. Murkoff underscores the necessity of ensuring sufficient consumption of liquids and suggests incorporating probiotics for gut health.

To alleviate bloating and gas, Murkoff suggests taking your time while eating, ensuring that food is chewed completely, and steering clear of well-known gas-inducing foods. She also emphasizes the importance of managing constipation to minimize gas buildup.

Finally, for fatigue, Murkoff recommends that expectant mothers should prioritize adequate rest, carve out periods for unwinding, and consume regular, light meals to keep their blood sugar levels consistent. She advises consuming nutrient-dense snacks that combine protein with complex carbohydrates to sustain steady energy levels throughout the entire day.

Practical Tips

  • Experiment with meal timing and composition by creating a personalized mini-meal plan. Break down your usual three large meals into five or six smaller, balanced meals spread throughout the day. This can help manage blood sugar levels and may alleviate nausea and fatigue. Try including a mix of complex carbohydrates, lean proteins, and healthy fats in each mini-meal, like a small bowl of oatmeal with nuts and berries, or a turkey and avocado wrap.
  • Develop a morning routine that includes eating a small portion of plain toast or a rice cake before getting out of bed, especially if you tend to experience morning nausea. This preemptive approach can help settle your stomach for the day ahead.
  • Develop a habit of carrying portable protein-rich foods with you to combat unexpected bouts of nausea. Foods like nuts, protein bars, or cheese sticks can be easily stowed in your bag or car. This way, you're prepared to manage nausea on-the-go without having to search for appropriate food options.
  • Use ginger essential oil as an aromatic remedy by adding a few drops to a handkerchief or diffuser when you're feeling queasy. Inhaling the scent may help alleviate nausea without having to consume ginger directly. Keep the handkerchief in a plastic bag or small container so you can carry it with you and use it whenever needed.
  • Experiment with making homemade, hydrating popsicles using a blend of water, fruit juice, and a pinch of salt. These can be soothing if you're struggling to keep liquids down and can provide a more appealing way to stay hydrated. Keep a batch in your freezer and try one when you're having difficulty drinking water due to nausea.
  • Track your dietary reactions with a simple journal to identify patterns related to hormonal changes. Note down what you eat, any aversions you experience, and your emotional state at the time. Over time, this can help you predict and manage food aversions by correlating them with your menstrual cycle or other hormonal fluctuations.
  • Create a color-coded system in your pantry and refrigerator. Use different colored stickers or markers to label foods based on how they make you feel. For example, green for foods that make you feel good, yellow for those you're unsure about, and red for those that cause adverse reactions. This visual aid can help you quickly choose foods that agree with your body and avoid those that don't.
  • Introduce a heartburn-friendly recipe swap once a week where you cook a meal that avoids common triggers. Use this as an opportunity to explore new cuisines and ingredients that are less likely to cause heartburn. For example, if you love Italian food but tomatoes trigger your heartburn, try making a pesto pasta instead of a traditional marinara-based dish. This way, you can still enjoy your favorite flavors without the discomfort.
  • You can integrate gum-chewing into your post-meal routine to aid digestion. After finishing a meal, especially one that's heavy or acidic, chew a piece of sugar-free gum for about 20 to 30 minutes. This can help increase saliva production and potentially neutralize excess stomach acid that could lead to discomfort.
  • Challenge yourself to "Eat the Rainbow" each week, focusing on including a colorful variety of fiber-rich foods in your meals. Each color often represents different nutrients and types of fiber, so by eating red apples, orange carrots, green spinach, blueberries, and purple eggplant throughout the week, you're likely to improve your bowel movements while also enjoying a diverse and visually appealing diet.
  • Integrate a hydration reminder into your daily routine by setting alarms on your phone or smartwatch at regular intervals to prompt you to drink water, ensuring you meet your fluid intake goals for optimal gut health.
  • Incorporate conversation cards at the dinner table to extend mealtime and reduce the speed of eating. Each card could have a question or topic to discuss, ensuring that you're engaging in conversation between bites, which naturally slows down your eating pace. This can be a fun way to connect with family or friends while also benefiting your digestion.
  • Incorporate a 10-minute evening walk into your routine to help stimulate bowel movements. Physical activity can help move food through your digestive system and reduce gas buildup. Make it a habit to go for a short walk after dinner, which can also be a relaxing way to end your day.
  • You can track your sleep and meal patterns with a dedicated journal to identify correlations between your habits and energy levels. Start by jotting down the times you go to bed and wake up, along with the types and times of meals you consume each day. After a few weeks, review your notes to spot trends, such as increased fatigue after heavy meals or improved energy on days with sufficient rest, and adjust your routines accordingly.
  • Experiment with homemade energy balls by mixing various proteins and complex carbs in a no-bake recipe. Use ingredients like whey protein powder, oats, nut butter, and seeds. Roll the mixture into bite-sized balls and refrigerate. These are convenient, portable, and can be customized to your taste preferences, making it easier to stick to a nutrient-dense snacking habit.

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