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Why is it bad to suppress your emotions? How do you understand your emotions<\/a> effectively?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Steve Magness’s book Do Hard Things<\/em> attributes self-improvement and healthy toughness to the ability to understand your emotions. This is because when you ignore your emotions, you’re not allowing yourself to live life as fully as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Check out how to understand<\/a> your emotions so you can make good decisions and be mentally strong<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Understand Your Emotions<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Magness claims that emotions protect us; they help us navigate the world. If you suppress your feelings and emotions, you\u2019re suppressing your ability to navigate the world effectively.<\/strong> Old-school toughness tells you that you should listen to some emotions (like joy, pride, or anger) while ignoring others (like sadness or fear). Magness, however, claims that you should try to learn how to understand your emotions so that you can make better choices. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feelings give us important information that we should listen to, claims Magness. Instead of viewing emotions as things that get in our way, as the old-school version of toughness might advise, we should listen and try to understand what our feelings and emotions are telling us. When you understand why you\u2019re feeling a certain way, you can use that information to make better decisions<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Understanding Toxic Masculinity<\/a> and Old-School Toughness<\/strong>

The notion that toughness involves suppressing certain emotions is a key component of toxic masculinity<\/a>, a set of harmful attitudes and beliefs about how men should think and behave. Though Magness doesn\u2019t directly refer to this recently popularized term<\/a>, he does point out that toughness and masculinity are often conflated, and many of his ideas reflect the discourse around toxic masculinity and how it\u2019s harmful\u2014for instance, the ideas that men should try to appear dominant, control others, and suppress their emotions.

Experts argue that masculinity itself isn\u2019t toxic, it\u2019s just that certain unhealthy manifestations of it are, and the stereotypes toxic masculinity reinforces are harmful to men, women, and society as a whole<\/a>. For instance, society expects women to be kind, gentle caregivers and men to be tough, unemotional protectors. But men, of course, do have emotions, and many feel the need to suppress them or overcompensate for them to meet these unrealistic standards. Eventually, this can cause them to lash out, leading to violence and prejudiced behaviors.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

In most cases, you\u2019re perfectly capable of accurately assessing your feelings and what decisions you should make based on them\u2014if you feel disgusted by the smell of a certain food, you don\u2019t eat it, trusting your feelings<\/a> to tell you that the food isn\u2019t safe. But in times of stress or adversity, you more often misinterpret your emotions, which can lead to poor decision-making<\/a>. For example, when you have a stressful day at work, you might be more irritable when you get home and get unreasonably angry at your loved ones. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To better understand your emotions, Magness recommends that you label them. Labeling<\/a> or putting a name to your emotions is helpful because it helps you interpret them<\/strong>. When we put a name to an emotion, we focus our attention on it, which allows us to examine it more closely. This can help you avoid simply acting on the emotion because as you examine it, you can better understand why you\u2019re acting a certain way. For example, if you had labeled your irritability after a long day at work, you might have been able to put some space between the irritability and the anger that followed and stopped yourself from getting angry at your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Label and Express Your Emotions<\/strong>

In Atlas of the Heart<\/em><\/a>, Bren\u00e9 Brown provides an in-depth look at the many different emotions humans experience\u2014and which Magness says you should label. She argues that understanding your emotions<\/a> will not only help you make better decisions in times of stress but also form deeper connections. Brown splits emotions into three main categories: 

Self-focused emotions<\/strong>: These emotions, which include sadness and shame, help us understand our internal mental states<\/a>. Sadness is a painful emotion that helps us respond to and accept a personal loss in our lives. Most people are well-acquainted with loss and the feeling of sadness. Another common self-focused emotion, shame, is the feeling that you\u2019re a flawed, inadequate, or bad person. Brown claims that shame is important to acknowledge because ignoring it only makes it stronger.

Externally-focused emotions<\/strong>: Instead of informing us about ourselves, these emotions help us understand our response to our environment<\/a>. Anxiety, for example, is a concern about the future and our ability to handle it. When we aren\u2019t sure what\u2019s going to happen and fear it might be bad, we feel anxious. Another externally-focused emotion is boredom, which Brown defines as the desire to do something meaningful but not being able to. Boredom occurs when you\u2019re understimulated and unsatisfied with how you\u2019re spending your time.

Relationship-focused emotions<\/strong>: These emotions help us connect with or detach from others<\/a>. When we feel angry, for example, we\u2019re upset that someone or something thwarted our desires or disrupted the established order of things. Anger makes us want to lash out and sometimes hurt the person who caused the negative emotion. Compassion, on the other hand, is a positive emotion in which we feel empathy for another and try to ease their suffering. <\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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