{"id":99633,"date":"2023-04-25T07:48:00","date_gmt":"2023-04-25T11:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=99633"},"modified":"2023-04-25T15:14:41","modified_gmt":"2023-04-25T19:14:41","slug":"triggers-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/triggers-book\/","title":{"rendered":"Triggers: Book Overview and Key Takeaways"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What is Marshall Goldsmith and Mark Reiter&#8217;s book <em>Triggers <\/em>about? What&#8217;s the key message to take away from the book?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In their book <em>Triggers<\/em>, executive coach Marshall Goldsmith and co-author Mark Reiter examine how triggers derail our efforts to behave in our best interests. They explain how you can become aware of your triggers, define the goals that will best serve you, and do the hard work of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-change-your-behavior-2\/\">changing your behavior<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Below is a brief overview of <em>Triggers<\/em> by Marshall Goldsmith and Mark Reiter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"title\"><strong><em>Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts&#8211;Becoming the Person You Want to Be<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We have a hard time changing our behavior, especially in interactions with other people. We often encounter situations the writers call \u201ctriggers\u201d that can sabotage even our best efforts at behaving more positively and productively in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/realationships-with-others\/\">relationships with others<\/a>. For example, a trigger like an interruption to your work might make you speak curtly to your colleagues for the rest of the afternoon. Or a disagreement with a friend might put you in a bad mood that colors how you talk to your spouse when you get home.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In their book <a href=\"https:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/239189\/triggers-by-marshall-goldsmith-and-mark-reiter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Triggers<\/em><\/a>, published in 2015, executive coach Marshall Goldsmith and co-author Mark Reiter assert that <strong>you don\u2019t have to let these triggers control you<\/strong>. Instead, by understanding how you\u2019re affected by your environment and how you naturally react to it, you can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-change-your-behavior\/\">change your behavior<\/a> and become the more understanding spouse, calmer parent, more patient colleague, or more engaged friend you\u2019d like to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Goldsmith and Reiter have collaborated on books such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/646572\/the-earned-life-by-marshall-goldsmith-and-mark-reiter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>The Earned Life<\/em><\/a><em> <\/em>(2022), <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/what-got-you-here-won-t-get-you-there\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>What Got You Here Won\u2019t Get You There<\/em><\/a><em> <\/em>(2007), and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Mojo-How-Keep-Back-Lose\/dp\/1401323278\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Mojo<\/em><\/a><em> <\/em>(2010). Goldsmith has worked with <a href=\"https:\/\/marshallgoldsmith.com\/book-page-triggers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">more than 200 CEOs<\/a> in his career as an executive coach, and the lessons he shares often come from his observations of how even highly successful people struggle to change their interpersonal behavior.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-triggers-are-problematic\"><strong>Why Triggers Are Problematic<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Our environment (and our reactions to it) shape our actions. We encounter environmental triggers everywhere, and even when they\u2019re minor or short-lived, these incidents and situations bait us into acting in ways we know we shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Triggers can cause us to lose sight of the goals we\u2019ve set for ourselves<\/strong>. When reacting to triggers, we might compromise on our plans, behave in ways that harm us or those around us, and generally fail to live up to our standards for the kind of person we\u2019d like to be.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this section, we\u2019ll look at how the authors define triggers, examine how these stimuli affect our behavior, and explain how to spot them in your own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-are-triggers\"><strong>What Are Triggers?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Goldsmith and Reiter define a behavioral trigger as <strong>any stimulus you might encounter during your day and react to in that moment, <\/strong>such as a traffic jam, a string of notifications on your phone<strong>, <\/strong>or a demanding colleague.<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A trigger can be positive or negative. Some triggers are pleasant to experience, and some are unpleasant. Similarly, some push us toward our goals while others pull us away from them. It\u2019s how we respond to a trigger that determines its effect. Any stimulus in your environment can prompt you to behave in ways you&#8217;ll later regret.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, spending your lunch hour with a chronically pessimistic friend might trigger you to shoot down your colleague\u2019s new ideas without considering them, or getting stuck in traffic might trigger you to snap at your spouse when you get home.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-triggers-affect-our-behavior\"><strong>How Do Triggers Affect Our Behavior?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When you encounter a trigger, you experience an automatic impulse to react in a specific way<\/strong>, and those automatic reactions can damage your relationships. For example, if you snap at your spouse for misplacing some important paperwork, their hurt feelings will last much longer than your frustration at searching for the form.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Goldsmith and Reiter report that many people overcome triggers in high-stakes situations\u2014where we know what others expect of us\u2014but react to triggers in low-stakes situations\u2014where the consequences of falling short feel more abstract. For example, you might remain present and attentive when your partner wants to talk about moving to a different city\u2014a major change for both of you\u2014but zone out as the conversation turns to plans for the weekend. (In your defense, you\u2019re hungry and thinking about dinner!)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-types-of-triggers-might-you-encounter\"><strong>What Types of Triggers Might You Encounter?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When you want to change how you behave toward others, you first need to identify the <strong>triggers that affect how you treat those people<\/strong>. You can think of the kinds of triggers you might encounter in two ways: by their nature or by their origin.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-types-of-triggers\">Types of Triggers<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>First, Goldsmith and Reiter explain that <strong>triggers can be helpful versus unhelpful and pleasant versus unpleasant in <\/strong><strong><em>nature<\/em><\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A helpful trigger pushes you toward your goals, while an unhelpful trigger pulls you away from your goals. Pleasant triggers feel rewarding, and unpleasant triggers feel punishing. For example, your spouse\u2019s exasperated reminder about the errands you need to run is helpful but unpleasant. Conversely, the dopamine surge you get from browsing social media during your colleague\u2019s presentation is pleasant but unhelpful\u2014and hazardous because it makes it feel rewarding to take a step away from your goal.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Second, Goldsmith and Reiter explain that another way to understand triggers is to<strong> think of them as either environmental or internal in <em>origin<\/em>.<\/strong> Environmental triggers are external, like a person who brings out the worst in you. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/external-trigger-vs-internal-trigger\/\">Internal triggers<\/a> are thoughts that keep you from trying to change in the first place or else sabotage your efforts as soon as they\u2019ve begun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The authors provide many examples of internal beliefs and assumptions that trip us up. For example, we might feel overconfident about our ability to resist temptation. It\u2019s common to indulge in inconsistency and think that it\u2019s OK to give in to our triggers sometimes, as long as we don\u2019t do it all the time. We also lack objectivity and want to take credit for our successes but blame others for our failures.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-falling-prey-to-triggers\"><strong>Falling Prey to Triggers<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The authors argue that, in some ways, giving in to triggers is human nature. In this section, we\u2019ll look at some of the primary reasons why we succumb to the temptation of triggers, even when we know better and want to avoid them and their effects on our behavior.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-we-don-t-do-what-we-planned-to-do\"><strong>We Don\u2019t Do What We Planned to Do&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter how realistic we think we\u2019re being, <strong>we\u2019re often overambitious when setting goals<\/strong>. As a result, we make plans that our environment\u2014or our response to it\u2014quickly derails. And no matter how often we\u2019ve seen it happen, we don\u2019t see it coming. For example, you might resolve to stay calmer with your children as you wake up in a quiet house but find yourself yelling when the morning chaos reaches a fever pitch.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Goldsmith and Reiter contend that this happens because each of us is part planner and part doer. The planner decides to change our behavior. But the doer has to enact that change. Often, the connection between the two breaks down, and <strong>we make plans that completely discount how we\u2019ve behaved in the past, <\/strong>like putting a task on our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/gtd-to-do-list\/\">to-do list<\/a> and thinking we\u2019ll get it done even though it\u2019s been on every to-do list we\u2019ve made for the last week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-we-react-negatively-when-we-could-react-positively\"><strong>We React Negatively When We Could React Positively&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of us <strong>tend to react in negative and unproductive ways<\/strong> to unexpected events, another reason that triggers throw us off track. It feels easy and natural to respond this way when you encounter an unexpected provocation. <strong>It feels more challenging to take actions that make a positive and productive contribution to the situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This tendency may play a role in the behaviors that you\u2019d like to change in your relationships, where you\u2019d probably like to be a more positive person. For example, when a colleague annoys you, your partner asks you the same question for the 20th time, or your neighbor makes an obnoxious demand, making a cutting remark feels easier (and more rewarding) than being patient and empathetic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-we-have-a-finite-capacity-for-self-regulation\"><strong>We Have a Finite Capacity for Self-Regulation<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Another reason we struggle with triggers is that <strong>we can practice only so much self-control in regulating our emotions and curbing our impulses<\/strong>. Goldsmith and Reiter explain that we gradually exhaust our capacity for self-regulation as we suppress our opinions, watch our behavior, and handle unexpected challenges. At each turn, we become more vulnerable to our triggers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter how committed we feel to changing our behavior, we tend to make worse decisions after running down this gauntlet of tasks. That means <strong>we typically find it more difficult to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/be-decisive\/\">be decisive<\/a> or disciplined\u2014and to avoid reacting to our triggers\u2014at the end of the day<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The authors attribute this to a phenomenon called \u201cego depletion.\u201d When we\u2019ve used up our self-control, decisions become progressively more difficult to the point that we become reckless with them (or just decide to avoid them by sticking with the status quo).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-we-don-t-push-ourselves-hard-enough-toward-our-goals\"><strong>We Don\u2019t Push Ourselves Hard Enough Toward Our Goals&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When we encounter a trigger, it can feel tempting to settle for \u201cgood enough\u201d and let ourselves give in to our impulses.<\/strong> But we end up hurting or disappointing people when we decide that we can be on our best behavior later and go with \u201cgood enough\u201d right now.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Goldsmith and Reiter use the term \u201csatisficing\u201d to describe how we\u2019re often inclined to go with the good-enough option rather than put in the extra time, effort, or resources to get the best. But they note that we can\u2019t (or shouldn\u2019t) <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/satisficing-model-of-decision-making\/\">satisfice<\/a> with our behavior toward other people.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The authors posit that we often satisfice in situations where we have marginal motivation, where we\u2019re volunteering our time, where we consider ourselves amateurs, or where we want to opt out of other people\u2019s rules. We might justify our actions to ourselves, but settling for good enough still means falling short of the goals we\u2019ve set for ourselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-resisting-triggers\"><strong>Resisting Triggers<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding why we fall prey to triggers is the first step; the next step is actively resisting them. The writers argue that <strong>we can stop triggers from controlling our behavior. We\u2019re not helpless against them<\/strong>. The authors offer many tools you can use to keep your environment from throwing you off course from the goals that you\u2019ve set for yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this section of the guide, we\u2019ve divided these strategies into two groups. The first group consists of plans or structures you can build ahead of time (or otherwise outside of the time when you\u2019re in a triggering situation). The second group comprises strategies you can implement in the moment to stay focused on changing your behavior.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-before-or-beyond-the-triggering-situation\"><strong>Before or Beyond the Triggering Situation<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>First, let\u2019s look at some strategies that can help you get ahead of your triggers, either <strong>when you\u2019re planning ahead and anticipating<\/strong> what your day might throw at you or <strong>when you\u2019re recalibrating after a difficult day<\/strong> and trying to refocus on what matters most to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-ask-for-help\">Ask for Help<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>The writers suggest that you <strong>ask the people around you to share their observations about the behavior you\u2019re trying to change<\/strong>. You might not know why you\u2019re acting in a way that\u2019s inconsistent with your goals or values in a specific situation. And you might struggle to identify the trigger, like when you end up in a bad mood after a family dinner without realizing that your brother\u2019s remarks about politics make you feel irritable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your family, friends, or colleagues can likely point out your triggers. Then, you can come up with a plan to change your reaction. Feedback from other people can also help you see how strongly the environment influences your behavior, which can motivate you to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-decide-what-to-keep-and-what-to-change\">Decide What to Keep and What to Change<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Another way to get ahead of your triggers is to <strong>think about what you want to keep and what you want to change<\/strong>. Even in an area where you have room for improvement, you probably don\u2019t need to change <em>everything<\/em> you\u2019re doing. Instead, as you identify what you\u2019re doing well and what you\u2019d like to do better, you\u2019ll find that you\u2019ll want to build positive new behaviors (and continue existing ones) while stopping behaviors that don\u2019t serve you. The writers note that that may even include realizing that some things are beyond your control and can\u2019t be changed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, if you want to connect with your partner, you could change your habit of going straight to the TV after dinner by sharing a cup of coffee instead. On the other hand, you could keep your habit of checking in with short texts throughout the day.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-test-yourself-every-day\">Test Yourself Every Day<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you know what\u2019s important to you and what you want to change, <strong>you can ask yourself a set of \u201c<\/strong><strong>daily questions<\/strong><strong>\u201d to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/track-your-progress\/\">track your progress<\/a>. <\/strong>Goldsmith and Reiter explain that when you know you\u2019re going to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-test-yourself\/\">test yourself<\/a>, <strong>you\u2019ll feel more motivated to make productive choices during the day<\/strong>. In this way, the daily questions can help you stay engaged with the changes you want to make.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are the steps involved:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Ask yourself, \u201cDid I do my best?\u201d about each important area of your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Each evening, <strong>measure your efforts toward your goals by asking whether you did your best to meet them. <\/strong>(This wording helps you reflect on effort, not performance.) Each question you ask yourself should assess a goal that\u2019s important to you\u2014a goal that, when you work toward achieving it, will help you become <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-become-the-person-you-want-to-be-2\/\">the person you want to be<\/a>. For example, if you want to be a more engaged parent, you might ask yourself, \u201cDid I do my best to give my child one-on-one attention today?\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. Score your effort on a scale of 1 to 10.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Score your effort toward each goal on a scale from 1 to 10<\/strong>. Think about the actions you did or didn\u2019t take. A score of 1 indicates minimal effort, while a score of 10 indicates maximum effort. You don\u2019t necessarily have to have succeeded to earn a 10. You just need to have made a substantial and honest effort to work toward your goal.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can even ask someone you trust to help you with this process. The writers recommend reporting your scores to someone else each day. Having someone to hold you accountable can give you more structure to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-push-yourself\/\">push yourself<\/a> to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Track your progress over time.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Track your answers to the daily questions over time<\/strong>. The daily questions have their utility in the moment. But if you collect your scores, patterns will likely emerge. For example, if you look at your data and see 9s and 10s for one goal but 1s and 2s for another, you can assess whether the latter goal really matters to you. If it does, you can change something to make a more substantial effort toward achieving it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-think-ahead\">Think Ahead<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>To put yourself in the best position to resist your triggers before they happen, <strong>you can recognize ahead of time when a situation might trigger you<\/strong>. Goldsmith and Reiter clarify that when you know a particular environment is likely to influence you, you can choose not to engage with it. If you must spend time in that environment, you can alter your behavior to avoid reacting to the trigger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, you might predict that a long conversation with a coworker who disagrees with everything you say might wear your patience thin. You might skip that conversation by taking an alternate route through the office. Or, you might change your behavior by not taking the bait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-in-the-moment\"><strong>In the Moment<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, let\u2019s outline some strategies you can use<strong> as triggers arise<\/strong> to resist temptation, keep your behavior in check, and stay on track toward your most important goals.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-cultivate-awareness\">Cultivate Awareness&nbsp;<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Focus on <strong>cultivating awareness and practicing engagement<\/strong><strong>. <\/strong>These are two tools<strong> <\/strong>that the authors assert will help you to notice the triggers in your environment and become more capable of responding to them in positive and productive ways. Think of a trigger as a catalyst: Normally, the catalyst sets off a chemical reaction. But you can add that moment of awareness as an inhibitor to stop the reaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We tend to think of many of our reactions as automatic, but they aren\u2019t. If you train yourself to become aware of the impulse, then you can interrupt the progression from experiencing a trigger to reacting to that trigger. And when you engage, then you can choose how to act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-remember-to-react-positively\">Remember to React Positively<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u2019t become the person you want to be without <strong>learning to react in positive ways to unexpected triggers<\/strong>. It might help you just to remember this focus on positivity. Or, you can use structure to limit your options and attenuate your focus, which leads to better decisions that align with your long-term goals.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For those inclined to use a mantra, Goldsmith and Reiter recommend asking yourself: \u201cAm I willing, at this time, to make the investment required to make a positive difference on this topic?\u201d They shorten it to the acronym&nbsp; \u201cAIWATT.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether or not you use the acronym, you can focus on responding in positive and productive ways. Remind yourself of what you need to do in the present moment and consider whether the action you want to take would make the best use of your time, energy, and resources.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-compensate-for-flagging-self-discipline\">Compensate for Flagging Self-Discipline<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>When you know that a situation will test your ability to resist your triggers, you can <strong>add even more structure to keep your behavior in line<\/strong>. The writers recommend adapting the salient \u201cdaily questions\u201d to check in with yourself more frequently during a challenging situation, as often as every hour. By continually restating your goal (and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/hold-yourself-accountable\/\">holding yourself accountable<\/a>), you create a structure that helps you to practice self-discipline.Questioning yourself each hour of a demanding workday or a weekend with your in-laws can help you stay aware of your behavior. So even if you don\u2019t score perfect 10s, you\u2019ve still gained the advantage of awareness.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is Marshall Goldsmith and Mark Reiter&#8217;s book Triggers about? What&#8217;s the key message to take away from the book? In their book Triggers, executive coach Marshall Goldsmith and co-author Mark Reiter examine how triggers derail our efforts to behave in our best interests. They explain how you can become aware of your triggers, define the goals that will best serve you, and do the hard work of changing your behavior. 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