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What’s Mark Manson’s view on happiness? What’s the relationship between happiness and hope?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to Mark Manson, happiness is becoming less meaningful and more elusive. He blames it on an epidemic of hopelessness. However, he argues that hope can lead to harm, so it’s essential to learn how to live a fulfilling life<\/a> without hope for the future<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read on to learn more about Mark Manson’s views on happiness and living a life without hope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Mark Manson on Happiness & Hope<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Although our living conditions are generally better than they\u2019ve ever been, statistics show that people are getting steadily unhappier. According to self-help author Mark Manson, happiness is at an all-time low in society due to widespread hopelessness<\/em>: People no longer feel like they can help create a better future. The solution to this problem is complicated\u2014Manson argues that the hope that makes us feel fulfilled also leads us to harm ourselves and others. Thus, we must learn to live a fulfilling life<\/a> without<\/em> hope for a better future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Mark Manson cites many sources showing that people in wealthy countries are getting unhappier, supporting his argument that high standards of living aren\u2019t the key to happiness<\/a>. However, there\u2019s less research to back up his assertion that this mental health crisis is due to a lack of hope, and many experts offer other theories. For example, some theorize that people are unhappier in wealthier countries because they\u2019re surrounded by more wealthy people to compare themselves with<\/a>. The resulting feelings of inadequacy could contribute to anxiety and depression<\/a>. There\u2019s some evidence supporting this theory: Within the US, where many wealthy people live, people with a lower income are the most at risk of suicide.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope Cannot Promise Everlasting Happiness <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Mark Manson argues that unfortunately, the hope you get from an ideology won’t bring you lasting happiness<\/a>. No ideology can always deliver on its promise of a less painful future because life is, and always will be, painful<\/strong>. This is true on a biological level: No matter what your external circumstances are in life, your brain will always settle into a state of dissatisfaction. This is what helps us survive\u2014evolutionarily, constant dissatisfaction is what motivates us to keep engaging in productive action.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: This view on happiness, suffering, and ideology is one of the main points in Mark Manson\u2019s first book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck<\/em><\/a>. In Subtle Art<\/em>, Manson elaborates that although we\u2019re evolutionarily destined to always be dissatisfied, we\u2019re also predisposed to find the process of improvement intrinsically satisfying. In other words, although you\u2019ll always face problems in life, continually solving those problems can help you find happiness<\/a>. This explanation of how hope can make a painful life feel satisfying is more specific than the one Manson offers in Everything Is F*cked<\/em>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While many ideologies successfully help people improve their lives, no ideology can continue to improve your life indefinitely<\/em>, giving you a perfect, painless life. This is disastrous because when an ideology can no longer give you a better future, it can no longer be a source of hope.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Happens When Our Ideology Fails?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

According to Mark Manson, when an ideology fails to bring us happiness or eliminate the pain it promises, we can react in a couple of different ways. First, we could abandon the ideology entirely, which Manson argues would be best<\/a>. Unfortunately, people rarely blame the ideologies for the pain they feel, because the ideologies have provided the hope and meaning driving their life for years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

People following an ideology that makes them unhappy often blame <\/strong>themselves<\/em><\/strong> rather than the ideology, <\/strong>argues Manson. Instead of rejecting their ideology\u2019s primary virtue, they preserve their sense of hope by accusing themselves of failing to adhere to that virtue strongly enough. In this way, hoping for a better future causes you to suffer: When a better future doesn\u2019t arrive, it makes you feel worse about yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, imagine that someone buys a new video game that gives them a feeling of hope in life. They adopt success in that video game as their primary virtue and spend all their time playing with other gamers who are just as obsessed with winning in that game. This gamer feels proud and validated every time they rise on the game\u2019s online leaderboard until they\u2019re one of the top 1,000 players in the world. Then, without the ability to improve their skills more, they lose the pleasure of progress. However, instead of abandoning the ideology of virtual domination and quitting the game to find something more fulfilling to do, they emotionally punish themselves for failing to get better at the game, falling into a state of perpetual suffering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ideological Disappointment in Romantic Relationships<\/strong>

Often, these same dynamics play out in toxic relationships. In Getting the Love You Want<\/em><\/a>, Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt explain that the personality type you\u2019re attracted to is based on an idealized version of your caregivers from childhood<\/a>. For this reason, when you fall in love<\/a> with someone, you\u2019re likely to see them as a perfect source of love, overlooking their flaws. This causes you to falsely believe that investing in this person will result in a painless future\u2014a perfect \u201chappily ever after.” In this way, romantic relationships are two-person ideologies in which one becomes the other\u2019s primary virtue and source of hope (Mark Manson explicitly acknowledges this view on happiness in relationships in his book).

However, at a certain point, as the chemical rush of new love wears off and your partner\u2019s flaws become impossible to ignore, they no longer give you the hope of a perfect future<\/a>. Just as in broader ideologies, this may cause you to blame yourself rather than the other person or the relationship itself. This is particularly common among those with an anxious attachment style<\/a>, who habitually idolize their partner and demean themselves. People with an anxious attachment style<\/a> are unlikely to abandon the \u201cideology\u201d of their relationship and find a new one because they see the relationship as vital to their well-being\u2014in other words, it has been one of their main sources of hope.

If the anxious attacher<\/a> continues to believe that they\u2019re responsible for all the relationship\u2019s flaws instead of appropriately holding their partner accountable and finding someone better, they\u2019ll continue to seek love and validation from someone who will never fully give it to them<\/a>, trapping themselves in a miserable relationship.

To avoid getting stuck in this kind of romantic relationship, communicate your needs directly<\/a> so that compatible partners know how they can support you. Further, promise yourself that you\u2019ll break up with anyone who isn\u2019t invested in helping you fulfill those needs\u2014this mirrors Manson\u2019s advice to abandon ideologies<\/a> that no longer serve you. Remind yourself that there are plenty of wonderful potential romantic partners in the world, so there\u2019s no need to cling desperately to one who\u2019s treating you poorly.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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