What is your higher self’s purpose? How do you connect with your higher self? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
According to Be Your Future Self<\/a> Now<\/em> by Benjamin Hardy, your higher self is the version of you that is living to your fullest potential. Even though reaching your higher self is challenging, Hardy provides four recommendations that will help you on your self-improvement journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Learn how to connect with your higher self<\/a> with these four recommendations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n Hardy says the first step in learning how to connect to your higher self is to determine who<\/em> you want to be. <\/strong>Imagine the happiest, smartest, most productive and successful version of yourself. Hardy emphasizes that your higher self must be based on what you<\/em> desire most in life right now<\/em>\u2014not what society deems \u201csuccessful\u201d or what you think<\/em> you should do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To make your vision even clearer, identify the <\/strong>big, life-changing<\/em><\/strong> <\/strong>goals<\/em><\/strong> that your higher self has accomplished<\/strong>\u2014these are what you must attain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, imagine you\u2019re an unemployed student who gets good grades and designs graphics in your free time. Your higher self is a renowned graphic designer who earned undergrad and graduate degrees, got stellar grades, has an impressive portfolio, has designed graphics for major companies, and has numerous contacts in the industry. These accomplishments are the goals you must achieve to become your higher self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Once you\u2019ve identified your higher self and accomplishments, Hardy\u2019s next step is to identify three goals to prioritize over the next <\/strong>five years<\/em><\/strong> that will help you start to become your higher self<\/strong>. They should be priorities that you can realistically achieve<\/em> in five years: It might not be possible to entirely embody your higher self in this relatively short time, but you can at least make progress. After the five years are up, you can set new priorities to bring you even closer to becoming your higher self. <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, you might not be able to become a renowned graphic designer in five years based on your present circumstances, but you can make progress by getting your degrees with stellar grades and building an impressive portfolio. To accomplish this in five years, your top three priorities might be: (1) Complete your undergrad degree, (2) start a graduate program, and (3) begin freelance work designing logos for local businesses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Next, Hardy notes, get more specific by setting 12-month goals for each of your three priorities along with clear \u201csuccess\u201d or \u201cfail\u201d conditions.<\/strong> This will ensure that you\u2019re meeting the benchmarks necessary to accomplish your three priorities in five years.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, your 12-month goals for your first priority, finishing your undergrad degree, might be to find a professor who can mentor you, make a plan for which courses you need to take, and get a minimum grade of a B in each class. These are clear-cut goals\u2014you can easily identify whether you\u2019ve achieved them, and as a result, how well you\u2019re progressing toward becoming your higher self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Next, Hardy argues that you should prioritize the actions that will move you toward becoming your higher self <\/strong>on a daily basis<\/em><\/strong>.<\/em> This will ensure that you make consistent progress toward becoming your higher self and don\u2019t get distracted by other urgent and important<\/a> tasks<\/em>, non-crucial activities<\/em>, and instant gratification<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n The following sections will explain how to prioritize your time and quit your unproductive behaviors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The first way<\/a> to prioritize your higher self is to disregard non-crucial activities<\/em> that don\u2019t help you become your higher self.<\/strong> For example, painting your home won\u2019t help you progress toward a higher self who\u2019s a renowned graphic designer and will only detract from the time needed for your 12-month goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Next, Hardy recommends scheduling time each day to work toward your goals<\/strong>. Although your higher self is your top<\/em> priority, you\u2019ll likely have other urgent and important tasks<\/em> to complete each day, such as doing your job. To balance your higher self and your present life effectively, schedule time each day to work toward your 12-month goals before<\/em> you complete any other urgent and important tasks. <\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, your higher self might be a graphic designer, but your present self still needs to carry out their sales job to make money. So, schedule an hour each morning to work on your graphic design portfolio before <\/em>work to ensure that you\u2019re progressing toward becoming your higher self every day despite other responsibilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, replace bad<\/em> habits that provide instant gratification with good habits that will move you toward your goals. <\/strong>For example, rather than engaging in instant gratification <\/em>by playing video games, make it a habit to open your Goodreads app to check out different book cover designs. Swapping this for video games will give you insight into trends around book cover design, which will help you excel in your graphic design career later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Next, Hardy recommends putting yourself in environments that will help you become your higher self. This is because we\u2019re products of our environments<\/strong>\u2014the situations we put ourselves in and the people we surround ourselves with impact who we are and what we achieve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n As a result, Hardy says you should step out of your comfort zone<\/em> and associate with people who are better than you are<\/em><\/strong> so you learn to overcome challenges and acquire the skills and habits necessary to progress toward becoming your higher self. The following sections will explain why these two recommendations are important and how to follow them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hardy recommends stepping out of your comfort zone by doing things that your higher self would succeed at but your present self might not.<\/strong> This is crucial because, although you might fail, people make the most progress by learning from their failures. Failure forces you to confront your insufficiencies and identify how you can become stronger in those areas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example, imagine that your higher self is a professional graphic designer who designs images for major companies; however, your present self is regularly designing logos only for small, local businesses. Continuing to design logos for these small businesses won\u2019t help you become your higher self because you\u2019re simply practicing something you’re already good at\u2014designing the types of logos that small, local businesses like. But applying to design graphics for larger businesses, even though you\u2019re likely to be turned down at first, will teach you what they\u2019re looking for and what you need to improve on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To surround yourself with people who are better than you, as Hardy recommends, look for people like your higher self<\/strong>; they\u2019ll have achieved goals similar to yours, or at least be <\/em>closer to achieving them than you are. Their habits and behaviors will compel you to emulate them and be more like your higher self. <\/strong>Further, they can give you advice and strategies to overcome obstacles<\/a> you might face because they\u2019ve already overcome similar obstacles.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, Hardy argues that many people fail to become their higher selves because they have a disempowering view of life and fate.<\/strong> Specifically, they believe they lack autonomy over who they are and who they can become because of three factors:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Let\u2019s explore the roots of these three disempowering beliefs<\/a> and the empowering beliefs<\/a> to adopt instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hardy explains that many people falsely believe their traumas and past shape who they are and what their future holds. For example, if you got poor grades in art class as a child, you may believe that you lack the potential to become a graphic designer. However, Hardy argues that regardless of what happens in your life, you <\/strong>always<\/em><\/strong> have the power to choose what happens next<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you look at negative past experiences and believe<\/em> they\u2019ve limited your future, this will become your reality. However, if you tell yourself that your negative past experiences have helped you grow\u2014for example, by teaching you an important lesson, reminding you what\u2019s important in life, or redirecting you down a better path\u2014this<\/em> will become your reality. Adopting this perspective will empower you to overcome your doubts and keep striving for your goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So rather than letting your past control you, control your past<\/strong> by reframing the meaning and impact it has on your present life. Use it to propel you forward rather than hold you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While some people fixate on their past, others believe that their present circumstances are beyond their control and are limiting their ability to change. For example, if you don\u2019t currently have the skills to be a professional graphic designer, you may feel like you\u2019ll never be able to do so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n However, Hardy argues that, as with your past experiences, it\u2019s your responsibility to determine how your current circumstances impact you and to acknowledge your potential and opportunities for growth despite them. <\/strong>To do so, find at least one way in which any given event can benefit you. For example, being turned down for a graphic design gig is a perfect way for you to identify which skills you need to improve on to become a better graphic designer. Further, if you don’t like your present circumstances, identify actions you can take to change them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hardy contends that adopting a growth mindset<\/a><\/em> is crucial for taking ownership of your circumstances and ability to change. <\/strong>A growth mindset is the belief that you can improve your present state through hard work and determination. Hardy recommends adopting this mindset by identifying the differences between your past and present self and the anticipated differences between your present and higher self. This will help you recognize that, as your past self has learned and grown into your more knowledgeable present self, your present self can similarly learn and grow into your higher self.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Many people believe a higher power controls our fate; therefore, no matter what we do, our outcome will always be the same. Others believe that a higher power created us and that we\u2019re inferior beings with no true purpose. Hardy explains that both of these perspectives take autonomy away from us and prevent us from reaching our full potential.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead, Hardy suggests we think of ourselves as children of a higher power\u2014we\u2019re just a less advanced version of our creator<\/strong>. As such, our purpose as humans is to learn and grow over time and across generations until we reach the level of this higher power. Hardy asserts that our purpose under this framework is to achieve fulfillment\u2014to do what we most desire and become the highest version of ourselves. With this belief, we can feel empowered to take control of our lives and choose our fate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, Hardy says to adopt a firm belief that you will <\/em>become your higher self\u2014that this is your fate\u2014and express gratitude for being this person<\/strong>. When you know <\/em>that becoming your higher self is a <\/em>definite outcome <\/em>(your fate), <\/em>your actions will match that perceived reality\u2014you\u2019ll be more confident and more likely to do what\u2019s necessary to achieve your goals<\/a> without fear of failure<\/a>. Further, expressing gratitude for things you don\u2019t yet have as if you already have them<\/em> reinforces your belief in yourself<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" What is your higher self’s purpose? How do you connect with your higher self? According to Be Your Future Self Now by Benjamin Hardy, your higher self is the version of you that is living to your fullest potential. Even though reaching your higher self is challenging, Hardy provides four recommendations that will help you on your self-improvement journey. Learn how to connect with your higher self with these four recommendations.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":70402,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,43,6],"tags":[967],"class_list":["post-97937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychology","category-self-improvement","category-spiritual","tag-be-your-future-self-now","","tg-column-two"],"yoast_head":"\nRecommendation #1: Clearly Identify Your Higher Self and How to Become Them<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Principle #1: Identify Your Five-Year Priorities<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Principle #2: Identify Your 12-Month Goals<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Recommendation #2: Prioritize Your Higher Self Daily<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Principle #1: Disregard Non-Crucial Activities<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Principle #2: Schedule 12-Month Goals Before<\/em> Other Urgent and Important Tasks<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Principle #3: Replace Instant Gratification With Beneficial Habits<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Recommendation #3: Seek Out Beneficial Environment<\/strong>s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Principle #1: Step Out of Your Comfort Zone<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Principle #2: Surround Yourself With People Who Are Better Than You<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Recommendation #4: Have an Empowering View of Life and Fate<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Principle #1: Don\u2019t Let Your Past Dictate Your Future<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Principle #2: Take Ownership of Your Circumstances and Ability to Change<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Principle #3: Believe That You\u2019re the Creator of Your Own Fate<\/h3>\n\n\n\n