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What was Matthew Perry’s childhood like? When did the actor have his first experience with drugs?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing<\/em>, actor Matthew Perry recounts his life’s ups and downs, from his childhood to adulthood. His childhood is what shaped many of the struggles he had in later life, and is key to understanding his life’s journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let’s dive into Matthew Perry’s childhood and what led him to drugs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Matthew Perry<\/strong> as a Child<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Matthew Perry’s childhood experiences are suggested to have set the stage for his future struggles. As a child, he often felt lonely and like he had to work hard to get his parents\u2019, particularly his mother\u2019s, attention. These feelings would stay with him into adulthood, leading him to turn to substance abuse, fame, and casual relationships to feel less alone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, Perry doesn\u2019t blame his parents for his addiction. While he did in the past, he now believes that addiction is a disease and that he has a natural predisposition to it. Still, he believes that that predisposition was worsened by the events of his childhood. This section will recount Perry\u2019s earliest experience with drugs and how his family life influenced an unhealthy approach to substance use, fame, and relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Perry\u2019s nuanced understanding of addiction is in line with current definitions of it. Addiction is considered a chronic disease or disorder that features a compulsion to seek substances or behaviors despite their negative effects<\/a>. Its causes are complex and include genetics, brain patterns, and a person\u2019s environment and experiences<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First Experience With Drugs<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Perry had his first experience with drugs when he was only a few weeks old. He was a colicky baby, and his parents were desperate to get him to stop crying. His doctor prescribed him barbiturates, a depressant drug class that generates addiction. His father remembers Perry as a baby crying<\/a> inconsolably and then falling asleep immediately after being given the drug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While baby Perry didn\u2019t develop an addiction to barbiturates, the experience left a mark. First, he believes it negatively affected his ability to sleep because he was given the drug during a period of intense brain development that shapes a person’s sleep. He implies that this could be the reason he has trouble sleeping as an adult. Second, Perry suggests that this was the first instance of trying to fix a problem with a drug rather than investigating and solving the root cause, establishing a pattern he would later repeat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: The drowsiness Perry\u2019s father remembers is actually a toxic effect of phenobarbital in small children<\/a>. Other toxic effects include trouble breathing and even death<\/a>. More common side effects include irritability, hyperactivity, disordered sleep, and digestive problems. Phenobarbital is still used today to treat seizures in babies younger than a year<\/a> and to treat neonatal abstinence syndrome<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Lonely Child<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Perry also traces his struggles in relationships back to his childhood and his relationship with his parents<\/strong>. His mother is a former beauty queen turned high-powered career woman. His father is a former musician turned actor who never achieved much success outside of a famous perfume commercial. (Shortform note: Perry\u2019s father did get a chance to shine in prime time, though, when he made a cameo in season 4 of Friends<\/em><\/a>.<\/em>) They got married and had him almost immediately, but then divorced when he was nine months old. After the divorce, his father moved to California to pursue a career in show business, leaving Perry and his mother, then only 21 years old, in Canada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perry often felt alone and parentless during his childhood.<\/strong> One of his earliest memories is of traveling alone from Canada to LA to visit his father. He was only five years old and he flew as an unaccompanied minor. He remembers being scared and feeling relief when he finally saw LA from the plane, knowing that he would soon be with a parent. He believes that memory is behind him feeling at ease\u2014less lonely\u2014in homes or apartments with a view of the city lights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Back home in Canada, feeling alone was a constant. His mother worked long hours and, although he was usually under the care of his grandparents or nannies, he was often home alone. Knowing that his father had taken a plane to go to California, every time he saw a plane overhead he worried that his mother was on it, leaving him behind.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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