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What’s your desired reality? What brings you joy<\/a>? What inspires you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vadim Zeland argues that, since your version of reality simply reflects your emotional energy<\/a>, you can control which version of reality gets reflected back to you by matching your emotional energy with that reality. One way to redirect your energy is to identify your desired reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Continue reading for Zeland’s advice on how to do this, along with some input from a few psychologists and self-improvement authors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Desired Reality<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

One method for redirecting your emotional energy<\/a> involves identifying what you want to experience<\/strong>. This will help you create a clear vision of your desired reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zeland offers advice for identifying what you want to experience: Focus only on what brings you joy or inspires you.<\/strong> Don\u2019t<\/em> allow other people\u2019s opinions to influence you or make you worry about how plausible your desires are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Like Zeland, Wallace D. Wattles (The Science of Getting Rich<\/em><\/a>), argues that you shouldn\u2019t worry about how<\/em> plausible<\/em> your desires are. Instead, just expect everything to work out in your favor. Wattles suggests that imagining your desired end result and practicing gratitude<\/a> in advance of achieving it provides two benefits. First, it sends a clear message to the universe. Second, it keeps you from becoming dissatisfied with your current life experiences. This is because when you imagine feeling grateful for something you don\u2019t yet have, you feel positive<\/em> regardless of what\u2019s actually happening. The more positive you feel, the more likely you are to transmit positive emotional energy and adopt behaviors that move you closer to what you want.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zeland explains that, when you focus only on experiences that bring you joy, you transmit a purely joyful frequency<\/strong>, untainted by negative emotions. For example, you want to be an entrepreneur because you feel inspired to work on your business idea. Even though you\u2019re not sure exactly how or when you\u2019ll achieve your goal, you feel satisfied each time you make progress. As a result, you consistently transmit emotional energy that aligns with the frequency of what you want\u2014thus feeding your ideal version of reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, when you allow other people to influence you or worry about how you\u2019ll achieve what you want, you pollute your frequency with contradictory emotions.<\/strong> These feed the very circumstances that you don\u2019t<\/em> want. For example, you want to be a wealthy entrepreneur only because it will make you appear successful and impress others. However, this goal doesn\u2019t inspire you intrinsically\u2014working toward it feels laborious and dissatisfying. As a result, you consistently transmit mixed emotional energy that feeds versions of reality<\/a> that you don\u2019t<\/em> want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Intrinsic Motivation<\/a> Helps You Maintain a Positive State of Mind and Achieve Success<\/strong>

Many psychologists and self-improvement authors mirror Zeland\u2019s argument that focusing on what brings you joy is key to maintaining a positive attitude and achieving success. Some notable proponents of this theory include Jay Shetty (Think Like a Monk<\/em><\/a>), Neil Pasricha (The Happiness Equation<\/em><\/a>), Maxwell Maltz (Psycho-Cybernetics<\/em><\/a>), and Deepak Chopra (The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success<\/em><\/a>). One idea underlies this argument: That all behavior is driven by the need to fulfill one of two motivation types\u2014intrinsic or extrinsic<\/a>.

Intrinsic motivation comes from within<\/em>:<\/strong> You accept your needs and feel comfortable expressing them by engaging in activities that make you<\/em> happy. For example, you want to be an entrepreneur because you enjoy your work<\/a> and aren\u2019t worried about how others judge you. Because doing this work fulfills your inner needs, you find it easy to maintain a positive attitude and achieve success (which helps you continually transmit positive emotional energy).

Extrinsic motivation comes from your environment<\/em>:<\/strong> You ignore your needs in favor of seeking acceptance from others by engaging in activities that encourage external rewards. For example, you want to be an entrepreneur because you think it will garner admiration and positive feedback. However, because doing this work doesn\u2019t fulfill your inner needs, you struggle to maintain focus<\/a> or make progress on what you\u2019ve set out to do and find it difficult to maintain a positive attitude (which prevents you from transmitting positive emotional energy<\/a>).

Joshua Fields Millburn<\/a> and Ryan Nicodemus<\/a>, the authors of Minimalism<\/em><\/a>, expand on the topic with additional advice to help you assess your motivations and identify what intrinsically motivates you. They claim that there are four obstructions holding you back from recognizing and pursuing intrinsically motivated goals<\/a>: identity, status, certainty, and money. For example, you may focus on career aspirations that drain your energy rather than pursuing work that aligns with your interests<\/a> because your financial security and sense of identity are tied up with your career status. 

Become aware of how these obstructions influence you, and distinguish between the goals and activities that satisfy you (intrinsically motivated) and the ones that don\u2019t (extrinsically motivated<\/a>), by tracking all of the activities you take part in over the next few weeks. Next, reflect on each activity by asking yourself the following questions: 

\u2022 Is this something I want to do, or am I fulfilling external expectations?
\u2022 Do I enjoy this? If so, what\u2019s the most enjoyable aspect of it?
\u2022 Does this make me feel energized or drained? Motivated or unmotivated?
\u2022 How can I create opportunities to engage more in the activities that I enjoy?<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What’s your desired reality? What brings you joy? What inspires you? Vadim Zeland argues that, since your version of reality simply reflects your emotional energy, you can control which version of reality gets reflected back to you by matching your emotional energy with that reality. One way to redirect your energy is to identify your desired reality. 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