{"id":86278,"date":"2022-12-15T17:38:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-15T21:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=86278"},"modified":"2022-12-21T13:06:36","modified_gmt":"2022-12-21T17:06:36","slug":"listening-to-your-inner-voice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/listening-to-your-inner-voice\/","title":{"rendered":"Listening to Your Inner Voice: Mo Gawdat Solves for Happy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

What does your inner voice<\/a> tell you? Should you listen to it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That little voice in your head, Mo Gawdat says, might be getting between you and happiness. If you think your inner voice is equivalent to you, suffering will be your companion. But, you can free yourself from this misconception and find more joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Continue reading to learn how to listen<\/a> to your inner voice and respond to it appropriately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Listening to Your Inner Voice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You likely have a voice in your head that questions your decisions, complains about your circumstances, and judges those around you. Because it\u2019s your constant companion, you\u2019re inclined to identify with this voice. However, that little voice in your head, Mo Gawdat says, is not you. So, you should be careful when listening to your inner voice and responding to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To make this argument, he first observes that, to perceive something, we must be outside of it. For example, to perceive the Empire State building, we can\u2019t be inside it. So, because we can perceive the voice in our head, we must be outside of that voice; it can\u2019t be equivalent to us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Distance Yourself From Your Thoughts<\/strong>

In The Happiness Trap<\/em><\/a>, Russ Harris similarly suggests that our thoughts are simply stories our brain tells us<\/a> to help us survive\u2014they aren\u2019t identical to us. Accordingly, he recommends \u201cdefusion<\/em>,\u201d where we distance ourselves from our thoughts by simply observing them as a bystander. 

One defusion technique is distancing<\/em>, where we rephrase our thoughts<\/a> by prefacing them with \u201cmy brain is thinking that\u2026\u201d This helps us recognize that we aren\u2019t identical to our thoughts. Harris even recommends imagining a cartoon narrating your thoughts<\/a>, which makes it easier to dissociate from them. According to Harris, defusion helps us recognize that:

\u2022 Our thoughts don\u2019t necessarily reflect reality and are often incorrect.
\u2022 Our thoughts exist to serve us, not the other way around.
\u2022 Negative thoughts don\u2019t constitute a threat, since they\u2019re just voices in your head. <\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Instead, Gawdat asserts that this inner voice is our brain<\/em> talking<\/strong>. Because it evolved to ensure our survival, the brain overemphasizes threats and replays them incessantly. For instance, it might replay an awkward conversation you had earlier, causing embarrassment and regret. By needlessly replaying these memories, your brain prevents you from being happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Gawdat\u2019s suggestion that your inner voice is your brain, rather than your actual self, implies that you\u2019re more than just your brain. However, some philosophers take umbrage with this claim. Derek Parfit, for example, has argued that we\u2019re identical to our brains<\/a> because neuroscience suggests that our brain thinks, and we\u2019re identical to the bearer of our thoughts.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, Gawdat argues that you can control your brain and end the suffering that listening to your inner voice causes. To do so, he recommends four steps:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Listen to your inner voice<\/a>, remembering that your thoughts are distinct from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Focus on your negative thoughts. Trace these thoughts to their cause, and you\u2019ll often see that they\u2019re ill-founded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Replace these negative thoughts with positive thoughts<\/a>, ideally about the same topic. For example, instead of thinking about how much you hate the morning, think about how much you enjoy morning coffee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Experts also suggest arguing with your inner voice<\/a> to exert your control. For instance, if this voice says, \u201cYou\u2019re incompetent at your job,\u201d you might remind it of times when you\u2019ve succeeded and received praise from your boss. This strategy uses Gawdat\u2019s first three steps: Listen to your inner voice and identify the negative thoughts, then use positive thoughts to argue against the negative ones.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. When you need a break from thinking about a certain subject, observe your surroundings. Because your brain can\u2019t multitask, observing your surroundings prevents further thoughts on the same subject from infiltrating your brain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Although Gawdat claims that our brains can\u2019t multitask, other experts qualify that claim, arguing only that our brains can\u2019t multitask effectively<\/em><\/a>. Consequently, observing your surroundings isn\u2019t a foolproof plan for avoiding thought. Rather, experts recommend multiple steps to stop thinking<\/a>, like meditating and introspecting about the experiences in your body.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What does your inner voice tell you? Should you listen to it? That little voice in your head, Mo Gawdat says, might be getting between you and happiness. If you think your inner voice is equivalent to you, suffering will be your companion. But, you can free yourself from this misconception and find more joy. 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