{"id":83810,"date":"2022-11-18T18:59:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-18T22:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=83810"},"modified":"2022-11-22T11:19:01","modified_gmt":"2022-11-22T15:19:01","slug":"reasons-not-to-get-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/reasons-not-to-get-married\/","title":{"rendered":"Richard Cooper: Reasons Not to Get Married\u2014Ever!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Is it a good idea to get married and tie your life with one person in the 21st century? What are some reasons not to get married? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In his book <em>The Unplugged Alpha<\/em>, Richard Cooper strongly advises men against ever getting married. As Cooper points out, even if you do get married, you\u2019re likely to get divorced.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s why you should steer clear of marriage, according to Cooper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-you-shouldn-t-get-married\"><strong>Why You Shouldn\u2019t Get Married\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cooper contends that men should steer clear of marriage, the primary reason not to get married being <strong>the high risk of divorce<\/strong>. This is partly because the family law of many modern countries financially incentivizes women to divorce their partners: In fact, women are most likely to grow rich via divorce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: It\u2019s unclear why Cooper states that women gain their riches via divorce; rather, studies indicate that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2019\/02\/21\/a-womans-best-route-to-the-top-1-percent-is-to-marry-rich.html\">American women are most likely to reach the top 1% of earners by marrying rich men<\/a> (and not divorcing them).)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cooper explains that a divorced woman receives three major financial benefits from her ex-husband that entice married women to divorce their partners. First, if he earned more than her, she\u2019s entitled to alimony payments\u2014and thus a significant chunk of his future earnings\u2014so that she can maintain her previous lifestyle. Second, she\u2019s entitled to half of the shared assets. This may include assets he had <em>before<\/em> the marriage\u2014even if they signed a prenuptial agreement, since the judge may deem it no longer valid. Third, if she gains primary custody of the children (as most women do), she\u2019s entitled to child support\u2014an amount that often exceeds the needs of the children because it\u2019s based on government data.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>How Divorce Harms Women\u2019s Finances<\/strong><br><br>Despite Cooper\u2019s contention that women want to divorce because it financially benefits them, several studies have found that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.creditcards.com\/to-her-credit\/surviving-divorce-financially\/\">women often experience serious financial hardship after divorce<\/a>.<br><br>First, despite receiving alimony payments, women\u2019s household income falls by 41% after divorce, while men\u2019s income falls by only 23%. This is likely because women are more likely to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/women-leave-workforce\/\">leave the workforce<\/a> to care for children and thus, they have a gap on their resum\u00e9 and can\u2019t earn as much as they used to.&nbsp;<br>Second, when splitting assets, women tend to choose assets that provide their children with stability but that are expensive, such as a house; men tend to choose appreciating assets like retirement funds. Women also must split not just the assets but the debts\u2014and they\u2019re often unaware of the secret debts their ex-husbands have accumulated.&nbsp;<br><br>Finally, even when non-custodial parents are <em>charged<\/em> child support amounts based on government data, less than half of them pay the full amount\u2014leaving the custodial parents (usually women) with a significant financial burden they\u2019re often unable to meet.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In pursuit of these benefits, Cooper warns, women will go to extreme lengths that may harm your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/emotional-health-and-well-being\/\">emotional health<\/a> and put you at higher risk for suicide. She might try to get your children to hate you. Notably, she may make false domestic violence charges\u2014which allows her to force you to financially support your children without contacting them or being involved at all in the day-to-day parenting.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Like Cooper, researchers suggest that <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/full\/10.1177\/1557988314546395\">alienation from one\u2019s children may contribute to the high rate of suicide among divorced men<\/a>. Unlike Cooper, researchers are unclear (due to a lack of evidence) whether women are likely to make false domestic violence charges, although one study did find that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ojp.gov\/pdffiles1\/nij\/grants\/238891.pdf\">child custody evaluators believed that 26% of mothers\u2019 allegations were false<\/a>. But even if the domestic violence charge <em>is<\/em> substantiated, the risk of not being able to parent your children may not be as common as Cooper claims. In such cases, 40% of evaluators recommend joint legal custody\u2014which means that <a href=\"https:\/\/cordellcordell.com\/resources\/the-difference-between-legal-custody-and-physical-custody\/\">both parents are able to make child-rearing decisions<\/a>\u2014\u201dhalf of the time\u201d to \u201calways.\u201d)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it a good idea to get married and tie your life with one person in the 21st century? What are some reasons not to get married? In his book The Unplugged Alpha, Richard Cooper strongly advises men against ever getting married. As Cooper points out, even if you do get married, you\u2019re likely to get divorced. 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