{"id":82510,"date":"2022-11-14T08:07:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-14T12:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=82510"},"modified":"2022-11-16T13:01:03","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T17:01:03","slug":"attachment-styles-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/attachment-styles-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Attachment Styles and Dating: Things to Keep in Mind"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What exactly are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/attachment-patterns-in-psychology\/\">attachment styles in psychology<\/a>? How does your attachment style influence your dating life? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/insecure-attachment-in-relationships\/\">Attachment styles<\/a> are the beliefs and behaviors that determine how you function in intimate relationships. Your attachment style is the key to understanding the ways you could be sabotaging your attempts to find true love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some things to keep in mind about attachment styles and dating. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-3-attachment-styles\"><strong>The 3 Attachment Styles<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>People fall into one of three dating attachment styles:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Anxious attachers<\/em> are preoccupied with making their relationship solid and constantly seek reassurance from their partner. <\/li><li><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/avoidant-attachment-in-adults\/\">Avoidant attachers<\/a><\/em> don\u2019t trust that others can meet their desire for intimacy, so they strive to maintain emotional distance from their partner. <\/li><li><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/secure-attachment-relationship\/\">Secure attachers<\/a> <\/em>are nurturing, responsive, and comfortable with intimacy.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Perspectives on<\/strong> <strong>Attachment Styles<\/strong> <strong>and Dating<\/strong><br><br>Ury focuses exclusively on secure, anxious, and avoidant attachers, but not everybody agrees on the names of the attachment styles nor their number. While secure is a universal term, <a href=\"https:\/\/integrativelifecenter.com\/anxious-preoccupied-attachment\/#:~:text=Anxious%20preoccupied%20attachment%20is%20an,our%20relationships%20later%20in%20life.\">anxious attachment is also known as anxious-preoccupied attachment, and avoidant attachment is also known as dismissive-avoidant attachment<\/a>.&nbsp;<br><br>Moreover, some psychologists suggest a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.simplypsychology.org\/attachment-styles.html#:~:text=There%20are%20four%20attachment%20styles,in%20adults)%2C%20and%20secure.\">fourth attachment style: fearful-avoidant<\/a>. People with this attachment strive to maintain emotional distance from their partner\u2014but unlike their dismissive counterparts, who view themselves positively, they have a negative self-image that often causes turmoil. For example, they might create drama if dating a secure partner because they don\u2019t trust that the relationship can be happy.&nbsp;<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re an anxious or avoidant attacher, Ury recommends two strategies to ensure that your attachment style doesn\u2019t sabotage your dating life. First, <strong>date secure attachers<\/strong>, who are better able to meet your intimacy needs. Second, <strong>practice managing your knee-jerk reactions <\/strong>in pursuit of happiness. Instead of panicking, anxious attachers should learn productive ways to soothe their nerves when their partners don\u2019t provide immediate reassurance. Instead of withdrawing, avoidant attachers should learn to communicate when they want emotional distance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: How exactly can you date secure attachers, learn productive ways to soothe your nerves, or communicate that you want emotional distance? To date secure attachers, look for people who fit the acronym CARRP: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/news\/soloish\/wp\/2018\/08\/16\/knowing-your-attachment-style-could-make-you-a-smarter-dater\/\">Secure attachers tend to be <em>consistent, available, reliable, responsive, and predictable<\/em><\/a>. To soothe your nerves, <a href=\"https:\/\/brianamacwilliam.com\/self-soothe-anxious-attachment\/\">think of a calming image<\/a> and take deep breaths to help you focus on it. And when you tell your partner you need some distance, also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/p\/how-to-tell-your-partner-you-need-space-without-hurting-their-feelings-5538653\">telling them how important they are to you<\/a> can soften the blow.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What exactly are attachment styles in psychology? How does your attachment style influence your dating life? 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