{"id":74885,"date":"2022-07-29T19:11:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-29T23:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=74885"},"modified":"2022-08-12T14:19:42","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T18:19:42","slug":"alfie-kohn-unconditional-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/alfie-kohn-unconditional-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"Alfie Kohn&#8217;s Unconditional Parenting: Overview &#038; Takeaways"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What is Alfie Kohn&#8217;s <em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em> book about? What are the key takeaways you should know from Kohn&#8217;s book?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em>, Alfie Kohn aims to teach you what kids really need from their parents, why using rewards and punishments doesn\u2019t work in the long term, and what you can do to make your kids feel loved and valued for who they are rather than what they do. While <em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em> has received mostly positive reviews, some critics have noted issues with Kohn&#8217;s advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading for an overview of <em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em> by Alfie Kohn, including the book&#8217;s key takeaways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-alfie-kohn-s-unconditional-parenting-overview\">Alfie Kohn&#8217;s <em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em>: Overview<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>How can we raise kids to be self-confident, independent, and compassionate? In <em>Unconditional Parenting,<\/em> author and lecturer Alfie Kohn argues that we should throw away the standard parenting rulebook and replace it with a new approach built on unconditional support, acceptance, and understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em>, published in 2005, was an early contribution to the popular \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/sarahockwell-smith.com\/2013\/09\/22\/what-is-gentle-parenting-and-how-is-it-different-to-mainstream-parenting\/\">gentle parenting<\/a>\u201d movement: a set of loosely associated approaches that move away from traditional discipline methods.<strong> Advocates for gentle parenting argue that it fosters autonomy, develops stronger parent-child bonds, and builds children\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-increase-intrinsic-motivation\/\">internal motivation<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alfie Kohn is the author of 14 books, most of which focus on education and parenting. In <em>Unconditional Parenting<\/em>, he argues that most of us have learned to parent in a \u201cconditional\u201d way: That is, we make our children believe that we only love them when they do what we want. In Part 1 of this guide, we\u2019ll look at Alfie Kohn\u2019s overall case for shifting from \u201cconditional\u201d to \u201cunconditional\u201d parenting. In Part 2, we\u2019ll look at the core conditional parenting techniques (rewards and punishments) and why Kohn says we shouldn\u2019t use them. And in Part 3, we\u2019ll cover some key guidelines to keep in mind if you want to bring unconditional parenting into your home.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some parents have criticized Kohn\u2019s book for its lack of concrete behavior change strategies, so we\u2019ll highlight his actionables and add a few more along the way. We\u2019ll also update the research Kohn cites and consider other well-known approaches that align with his ideas, such as Montessori and Janet Lansbury\u2019s RIE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Solution: Alfie Kohn&#8217;s Unconditional Parenting Style<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>To replace ineffective and damaging conditional parenting tactics, Alfie Kohn proposes \u201cunconditional parenting.\u201d This means making it absolutely clear to your child that your love doesn\u2019t depend on their compliance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s the key takeaways from Alfie Kohn&#8217;s unconditional parenting style:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. Prioritizes the relationship over the behavior.<\/strong> Kohn argues that people who use rewards and punishments treat the parent-child relationship as transactional. But while transactional relationships are common for adults, they\u2019re not appropriate within families. Parental love and affection shouldn\u2019t have to be earned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. Prioritizes long-term goals over short-term ones.<\/strong> Conditional parenting techniques might make a child comply right now, but they don\u2019t help her to develop empathy, autonomy, and healthy self-esteem in the long run.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. Prioritizes the child\u2019s developmental needs over the adult\u2019s convenience.<\/strong> Let\u2019s be honest\u2014parents often demand that a child do something because it makes the parent\u2019s life easier, not because they have his best interests at heart. Unconditional parenting is putting the child first. To do this, you\u2019ll need to be patient, flexible, and scrupulously honest about your motivations.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Sees the child as an active, rather than a passive, participant. <\/strong>Kohn recommends \u201cworking with\u201d children rather than \u201cdoing to\u201d them, which means seeing difficult behavior as a problem to be solved together, rather than as a trigger for criticism or punishment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is Alfie Kohn&#8217;s Unconditional Parenting book about? What are the key takeaways you should know from Kohn&#8217;s book? In Unconditional Parenting, Alfie Kohn aims to teach you what kids really need from their parents, why using rewards and punishments doesn\u2019t work in the long term, and what you can do to make your kids feel loved and valued for who they are rather than what they do. While Unconditional Parenting has received mostly positive reviews, some critics have noted issues with Kohn&#8217;s advice. 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