{"id":73364,"date":"2022-07-14T12:36:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-14T16:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=73364"},"modified":"2022-07-28T13:35:18","modified_gmt":"2022-07-28T17:35:18","slug":"how-to-make-someone-trust-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-make-someone-trust-you\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Make Someone (Really) Trust You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What is the importance of knowing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-is-trust-earned\/\">how to make someone trust you<\/a>? What is the best way to earn someone&#8217;s trust?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to <em>The Speed of Trust<\/em> author Stephen Covey, trust is your most valuable asset in life, yet society greatly undervalues trust in relationships. When learning how to make someone trust you, Covey suggests giving trust is just as important as earning trust. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to learn how to make someone trust you, according to Covey&#8217;s explanation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-give-trust-to-earn-trust\"><strong>Give Trust to Earn Trust<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>To understand how to make someone trust you, Covey notes that one of the best ways to get trust is to give it. Covey explains that people have a natural inclination to trust and an innate desire to be trusted.<strong> He argues that when people are trusted, they almost always rise to the occasion<\/strong>. In contrast, when they feel like they aren\u2019t trusted, they may (consciously or unconsciously) underperform or even act in untrustworthy ways. Therefore, even though it might seem scary, Covey assures you that you will get the most out of your personal and professional relationships (reap the most trust dividends) when you choose to extend trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>How to Make Someone Trust You by Demonstrating Trust<br><\/strong><br>To understand how to make someone trust you, it&#8217;s important that the people you choose to trust also know you trust them to extend trust back to you. For example, as an employer, you may trust your employees, but if you don\u2019t communicate that trust to them through your words and actions, they may not even know that you trust them and may not trust you back. Therefore, if you trust people without communicating that trust, you risk losing trust dividends from the relationship. As Covey notes, trust dividends are large in a high-trust work environment. Research shows that <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2017\/07\/want-your-employees-to-trust-you-show-you-trust-them#:~:text=Employees%20who%20do%20feel%20trusted,In%20short%2C%20trust%20begets%20trust.\">employees work harder, perform better, and even work beyond the scope of their role when they feel their employer trusts them<\/a>.<br><br>A few ways managers can demonstrate their trust in their employees include giving them control over their work process, sharing information freely, and showing their investment in employees by supporting their professional development.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-exercising-good-judgment-in-trust\"><strong>Exercising Good Judgment in Trust<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Choosing to extend trust does <em>not <\/em>mean you should abandon your reasoning and judgment. While Covey maintains that trust will almost always bring dividends, blind trust exposes you to unnecessary risk and can result in devastating trust taxes (for instance, someone stealing from you or running your business into the ground). Therefore, making someone trust you means you should <strong>default to trust over suspicion <em>while<\/em> maintaining a high vigilance for potential risks<\/strong>, according to Covey. This might look like hiring a mildly under-qualified new employee who comes highly recommended by a trusted friend and ensuring that they have extra training and oversight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Why We Trust \u201cBlindly\u201d<\/strong><br><br>Humans are biologically programmed for trust. We seek connection with other people and generally (barring having experienced severe breaches of trust) default to trust over suspicion in an effort to form relationships. However, as Covey notes, there are times when trust isn\u2019t warranted, but we extend it anyway. Researchers have found <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2009\/06\/rethinking-trust\">two main thought processes that lead us to extend trust when we shouldn\u2019t<\/a>:<br><br>First, while we understand that bad things happen, we tend to think of ourselves as far less likely than other people to experience unfortunate events. Second, we similarly think of ourselves as far more likely to experience fortunate events than others. Together, these two assumptions cause us to misjudge the probability of a bad outcome due to misplaced trust.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Skills and Track Record<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Skills and track record are a function of your abilities, which are situational. If you want to know how to make someone trust you, Covey argues you need to have the appropriate skills for a given situation. For example, your parents can have complete trust in your principles and motives, but unless you\u2019re a builder, they probably won\u2019t trust you to build them a house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your track record refers to your history of getting things done. It doesn\u2019t matter how qualified you are on paper or how much people trust your nature; if you don\u2019t produce results, you can\u2019t expect people to trust you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>The Dangers of Relying on Track Record Alone<\/strong><br><br>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/unexpected-consequences\/\">unintended consequences<\/a> of surgeon report cards on patient care illustrate the need for all four building blocks of trust. Beginning in the late 1980s, the outcomes of patients\u2019 cardiac surgery with specific surgeons and hospitals became part of public \u201creport cards\u201d used to identify the \u201cbest\u201d doctors and hospitals. In theory, these report cards were meant to give the public a sense of a surgeon\u2019s skills, helping patients identify the doctors and hospitals they trusted most.&nbsp;<br><br>However, data indicates that the report cards led to <em>worse <\/em>health outcomes for the sickest cardiac patients. A survey from the late 1990s showed that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2003\/03\/16\/magazine\/when-doctor-s-slam-the-door.html\">63% of cardiologists in this program admitted to choosing to treat healthier patients over riskier ones<\/a> to bolster their report cards. As a result, nearly 60% of cardiologists agreed that the sickest cardiac patients would likely have difficulty finding a doctor to operate on them.&nbsp;<br><br>Additionally, some hospitals refused to admit patients likely to die in or after surgery to maintain their status as a \u201cbest hospital.\u201d Evidence suggests that some cardiologists even put patients on unnecessary medication to place them in a higher-risk category pre-surgery.This example illustrates the importance of a well-rounded approach to trust. In this case, since doctors intentionally sought out easier cases, focusing on doctors\u2019 track records was unlikely to be the best representation of their skills. Additionally, the report cards didn\u2019t give patients a sense of doctors\u2019 motives and principles and, ultimately, created a less trustworthy system for patients.&nbsp;<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the importance of knowing how to make someone trust you? What is the best way to earn someone&#8217;s trust? According to The Speed of Trust author Stephen Covey, trust is your most valuable asset in life, yet society greatly undervalues trust in relationships. When learning how to make someone trust you, Covey suggests giving trust is just as important as earning trust. 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