{"id":71580,"date":"2022-07-17T12:38:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-17T16:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=71580"},"modified":"2022-07-19T09:23:55","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T13:23:55","slug":"101-essays-that-will-change-the-way-you-think-quotes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/101-essays-that-will-change-the-way-you-think-quotes\/","title":{"rendered":"101 Essays That&#8217;ll Change the Way You Think Quotes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Are you looking for <em>101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think<\/em> quotes by Brianna Wiest? What are some of the most noteworthy passages worth revisiting? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think<\/em>, bestselling author and poet Brianna Wiest argues that unwanted experiences aren\u2019t to blame for your bad feelings, only your thoughts about these experiences are. Therefore, there\u2019s only one solution to make yourself feel better: Change the way you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Below is a selection of passages with explanations. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-brianna-wiest-101-essays-that-will-change-the-way-you-think\">Brianna Wiest: <em>101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think<\/em>, Brianna Wiest explores the interplay between your thoughts, your perceptions, and the way you experience life. She explains how your thoughts influence the way you interpret life, why it\u2019s so hard to control how you think, and what you can do to manage your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/thoughts-feelings-and-behaviors\/\">thoughts and feelings<\/a> about yourself and your experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The following <em>101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think<\/em> quotes highlight some of her key ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong><em>\u201cNot everyone will like you. Not everyone will be kind to you. Not everyone will agree with you. That does not mean you have to be unkind in return.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Wiest, your feelings of comfort and happiness are so inextricably linked to how other people react to you that you feel compelled to think about yourself according to how people react to you. She explains it as follows:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>You subconsciously assume that your happiness depends on how other people react to you: When you get positive feedback, you evaluate yourself positively and this makes you happy. When you get negative feedback, you evaluate yourself negatively and this makes you unhappy.<\/li><li>You only evaluate yourself positively when you believe that others think you <em>deserve<\/em> positive feedback and reward you accordingly. For example, if your teacher gives you a red cross, you don\u2019t evaluate yourself positively and don\u2019t feel happy, because your teacher thought you didn\u2019t deserve a gold star. On the other hand, receiving a gold star makes you feel happy because it proves that your teacher is pleased with you.<\/li><li>Because you want to be happy, you manipulate the way you project yourself to invite more positive feedback. 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Wiest explains that the more aware you are of your feelings, the easier you find it to challenge and replace the thoughts and behaviors that contribute to your unwanted feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How can you develop an awareness of how your thoughts create your feelings? Wiest suggests that being mindful will help you to shift your focus from the external (other people, your circumstances) to the internal (your feelings). This, in turn, will help you separate how you feel about yourself from how you imagine other people think about you. 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