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In this guide, we&#8217;ll cover why you&#8217;re resisting, what it feels like, and how to stop resisting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Resisting the Now Creates Pain<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p> The power of Now is the power of being present. <strong>Presence is the only way to feel peace and true fulfillment.<\/strong> We\u2019ve explored how not being present and resisting make us unhappy and unfulfilled, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-teachings-ego-power-of-now\/\">how our ego uses thoughts<\/a> and emotions to cause resisting and prevent us from being present. Now that we\u2019ve identified the problem, we\u2019re going to talk about how you can become more present, and how it will impact your life.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Being present does not change your external circumstances.<\/strong> In fact, life consists of cycles of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/failure-is-a-part-of-success\/\">success and failure<\/a>; each one is a necessary precedent of the other. These cycles can last from a few hours to years, and are part of the inevitable impermanence of everything in life. (There are also cycles of highs and lows when it comes to your physical energy, productivity, and creativity.)&nbsp;Recognizing this is key to stop resisting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When you are present, you must accept the lows as much as the highs as part of the reality of the Now.<\/strong> Why fight a cycle that is inevitable?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Much of the pain you experience is self-inflicted because you\u2019re not accepting the reality of the present moment. The circumstances of your life \u2014 your \u201clife situation\u201d \u2014 can be unpleasant, but begrudging them does nothing to change the situation. <strong>When you resist the Now you are only creating negativity and unhappiness for yourself<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Negativity manifests as irritation, anger, depression, despair, and resentment.&nbsp;<\/li><li>This resistance even creates physical tension in your body. (e.g. Do you ever feel stiffness in your back and shoulders from stress? Or clench your jaw or grind your teeth without realizing it?)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When you feel resistance and negativity build in you, observe it. Put your attention on it, acknowledge it, and then drop it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>If you can\u2019t drop it, then accept it. Stop resisting it.<\/strong> Accept that you\u2019re feeling this way, and avoid or judging or blaming yourself for that reaction.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li>If you can\u2019t drop it, you can also practice making yourself \u201ctransparent\u201d to the irritation. Imagine the solidity of your body dissolving, and allow the irritant to pass right through you. Break down the \u201cwall\u201d inside you that the irritant (e.g. a loud noise, a rude comment, an inconvenient circumstance) is bumping up against, and let it pass through you.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It is true that external circumstances in your life can create challenges for you, and it may seem that stop resisting can only go so far. But these circumstances are merely \u201csituations\u201d unless\/until you start <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/negative-labels\/\">labeling<\/a> them as \u201cproblems.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Rather than resisting the present because it can be unpleasant or painful, try to stop labeling things as good or bad<\/strong> and instead accept it as reality, as part of the cycle of highs and lows. Judging a present moment and circumstances as bad will make you want to resist it, which in itself will cause more pain. If you accept it as it is, then you can work with it (more on this later).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Superficial changes can occur to seemingly improve your life, like winning the lottery. However, if you&#8217;re carrying pain from the past and don&#8217;t become more present in the Now, then you&#8217;ll still carry that pain into the future and will feel the same. You may have a bigger house, but you\u2019ll still feel unfulfilled in it.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>(It can be hard to make this argument to people who are dealing with real hardship. It might be more palatable to frame it by saying that presence and acceptance allow you to better <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-handle-a-difficult-situation\/\">deal with hardships<\/a>, rather than succumb to them mentally and create added negativity around a situation you either can\u2019t or haven\u2019t yet changed. <strong>Presence, then, gives you more mental and psychological capacity to improve external challenges.<\/strong>) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to Stop Resisting: Be Present. Practice Acceptance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are resisting some aspect of what exists in the Now, your focus is on how you wish the situation could be, or how it might improve later. You are not present. <strong>Presence requires accepting what is \u2014 or surrendering to the Now \u2014 without judgment. <\/strong>Stop resisting and accept what is. (We\u2019ll talk more about surrender in the next section.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Examples of judgment are thinking, \u201cI wish I were doing something besides working on this report right now,\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t believe I\u2019m stuck in this long line at the post office.\u201d These are signs of resisting life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Engaging only with each moment \u2014 and not with the past and future \u2014 allows you to break down problems to a more manageable size. When you isolate problems to just the present moment, you start to see that <strong>most problems only exist in the context of time<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s an example of how to stop resisting: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>You are stressed about your pile of bills. These bills are due in the future. 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