{"id":63541,"date":"2022-03-19T08:06:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-19T12:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=63541"},"modified":"2022-04-01T10:08:50","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T14:08:50","slug":"the-key-to-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-key-to-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Neil Pasricha: The Key to Happiness Is Positivity"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-secret-to-happiness\/\">What is the key to happiness<\/a>? Can you train yourself to be happier?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first key to feeling happier is training yourself to think more positively and feel happy regardless of your circumstances. In his book <em>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/happiness-formula\/\">Happiness Equation<\/a><\/em>, Neil Pasricha suggests training yourself to be happier with six methods: 1) get active, 2) do good deeds, 3) switch off, 4) engage fully, 5) practice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-meditation-mindfulness\/\">meditation<\/a>, and 6) be thankful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s how you can stop external circumstances from dictating your mood and train yourself to be happier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-train-yourself-to-think-positive-thoughts\"><strong>Train Yourself to Think Positive Thoughts<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Basing happiness on circumstances being a certain way prevents you from feeling happy. Life\u2019s full of problems and challenges\u2014circumstances are rarely exactly how you want them to be, no matter how hard you try to force them into place. Therefore, there\u2019s always an excuse not to be happy.&nbsp;But unwanted experiences aren\u2019t to blame for your unhappiness\u2014your negative thoughts about them are. Therefore, the first key to happiness is to train yourself to think <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-have-a-positive-mindset\/\">positive thoughts<\/a> no matter the circumstances in your life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s how you can train yourself to be happier:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-1-get-active\">Method #1: Get Active<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>30 minutes of exercise three times a week increases your ability to feel positive and reduces symptoms of stress, anxiety, and depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Neurobiology research shows that in addition to improving your physical health, regular exercise releases the neurochemicals <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/gaba-5095143\">GABA<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellhealth.com\/what-is-serotonin-5189485\">serotonin<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frontiersin.org\/articles\/10.3389\/fncel.2019.00363\/full\">BDNF<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellfit.com\/exercise-raises-body-s-cannabis-like-substance-5210813\">endocannabinoids<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-many-faces-anxiety-and-trauma\/202103\/how-exercise-protects-your-brain-against-depression#:~:text=Exercise%20improves%20clinical%20symptoms,measurable%20brain%20function%20and%20symptoms\">These chemicals increase happiness<\/a> by stimulating cognition (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/importance-of-memory-in-learning\/\">learning and memory<\/a>), regulating emotions, and enhancing self-esteem. To use this method effectively, set a realistic exercise goal that fits with your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-schedule-your-day-2\/\">daily schedule<\/a>. You\u2019re more likely to stick to an easily achievable exercise routine\u2014resulting in positive feelings of accomplishment <em>and<\/em> improved brain chemistry.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-2-do-good-deeds\">Method #2: Do Good Deeds<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Deliberately performing spontaneous acts of kindness makes you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/ways-to-feel-better-about-yourself\/\">feel good about yourself<\/a>. An added benefit is that others show more appreciation to you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Scientific research confirms that <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/collection\/guide-to-happiness\/4070299\/secret-to-happiness\/\">practicing kindness does make you happier<\/a>. When you give (knowledge, assistance, time, or money) with the intention of helping others, you activate the same parts of your brain that are stimulated by pleasurable activities such as eating good food or having great sex. However, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/app\/book\/how-to-stop-worrying-and-start-living\"><em>How to Stop Worrying and Start Living<\/em><\/a>, Dale Carnegie warns that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/app\/book\/how-to-stop-worrying-and-start-living\/part-4#rule-3-expect-lack-of-gratitude\">practicing kindness with the <em>intention to receive appreciation<\/em> creates disappointment<\/a> if you don\u2019t receive it\u2014thus, making you unhappy. Therefore, release expectations of gratitude or appreciation to fully benefit from your good deeds.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-3-switch-off\">Method #3: Switch Off<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Taking time off from your to-do lists and distractions allows your brain to rest and recharge\u2014giving you more energy to maintain a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/focus-on-the-positive\/\">positive focus<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Research into <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bluezones.com\/2020\/06\/how-taking-breaks-can-increase-productivity-boost-energy-levels-and-help-you-show-up-in-your-life\/\">ultradian rhythms<\/a> clarifies how taking time off from obligations and distractions improves your focus. When your mind\u2019s busy on a task, your brain and body burn sources of energy such as oxygen and glucose. This process creates metabolic waste that accumulates in your system and leads to feelings of fatigue, stress, and irritability\u2014impeding your ability to focus. Taking 20-minute breaks every 90 minutes allows your body to flush this waste out of your system, restore your energy sources, and revive your focus.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-4-engage-fully\">Method #4: Engage Fully<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Being fully engaged in your tasks and activities deters distractions because your brain is occupied by accessing all of your knowledge and skills. This makes you feel more positive and also increases your productivity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: When you only give tasks partial focus\u2014by multitasking or giving in to distractions\u2014you interrupt your brain from accessing and applying information stored in your mind. This slows down your progress and makes your task feel laborious. On the other hand, intense, full focus helps your brain <em>effortlessly<\/em> sift through and apply information stored in your brain, speeds up your progress, and makes your task feel enjoyable. Intense focus also limits activity in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-does-the-prefrontal-cortex-do-in-the-brain\/\">prefrontal cortex<\/a>, the part of your brain that\u2019s associated with self-monitoring, insecurities, and worries\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/lifes-work\/202105\/healthy-escape-the-daily-grind#:~:text=Although%20flow%20is%20characterized%20by,the%20following%20tips%20in%20the%20acronym\">thus quieting the source of negative, unhappy thoughts<\/a>.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-5-practice-meditation\">Method #5: Practice Meditation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Adopting a daily mindfulness ritual such as meditation builds your self-awareness, encourages feelings of compassion towards yourself and others, and decreases feelings of stress and anxiety.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Mental health practitioners confirm that practicing mindfulness increases self-awareness, encourages positive thoughts about yourself, your circumstances, and others, and improves your mental well-being. Consequently, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/tests-procedures\/meditation\/in-depth\/meditation\/art-20045858\">mindfulness practices also help you manage the symptoms of many stress-related health issues<\/a> such as high blood pressure or tension headaches. In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/app\/book\/mindfulness-in-plain-english\"><em>Mindfulness in Plain English<\/em><\/a>, Bhante Gunaratana recommends establishing a schedule to turn your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/mindfulness-activities\/\">mindfulness practice<\/a> into a habit. Begin by setting aside 10 to 20 minutes each morning or evening, lengthening your time as you get more comfortable with the process.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-6-be-thankful\">Method #6: Be Thankful<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Each day, make a small list of things to be grateful for. Taking time to write about experiences you\u2019re thankful for keeps you focused on what you like about your life and how lucky you are.(Shortform note: Though <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindful.org\/an-introduction-to-mindful-gratitude\/\">the mood-boosting benefits of gratitude<\/a> are well-known, it can be difficult to practice focusing on what\u2019s going well, especially when things <em>aren\u2019t<\/em>. Like Pasricha, many psychologists suggest overcoming this difficulty by establishing a daily gratitude practice, such as keeping a gratitude journal. This creates a <em>habit<\/em> of thinking grateful thoughts. Some self-help practitioners also suggest <a href=\"https:\/\/thriveglobal.com\/stories\/dulce-orozco-use-visual-reminders\/\">using visual reminders to trigger thoughts of gratitude<\/a>. For example, use a gratitude quote as your screensaver or place a picture of something you\u2019re grateful for by your desk.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the key to happiness? Can you train yourself to be happier? The first key to feeling happier is training yourself to think more positively and feel happy regardless of your circumstances. In his book The Happiness Equation, Neil Pasricha suggests training yourself to be happier with six methods: 1) get active, 2) do good deeds, 3) switch off, 4) engage fully, 5) practice meditation, and 6) be thankful. 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