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How does modern culture condemn female sexuality<\/a>? How do cultural messages around sex affect women’s sexual well-being? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to sex researcher Emily Nagoski, whether we\u2019re aware of it or not, culture dictates our beliefs and ideals, including how we feel about sex. Nagoski tells us that women, in particular, grow up hearing a lot of negative messages about sex, which creates deep-seated feelings of shame and fear that can be detrimental to their sexual experience and well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this article, we\u2019ll explore the specific messages regarding women\u2019s sexuality that our culture perpetuates and how they negatively impact women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

1. Women Are Morally Impure<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The first line of messaging that Nagoski identifies, and perhaps the most deep-rooted, comes from the moral ideals that our culture has developed surrounding sex, and women\u2019s sexuality in particular. For hundreds of years, society has made<\/strong> women feel as if their sexuality makes them morally impure<\/strong>. Specifically, Nagoski says that society teaches us ideas like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Virginity is women\u2019s most valuable asset, and to lose it makes them impure. <\/strong>(Shortform note: Where did this cultural concept come from? The idolization of virginity arguably rose in popularity with the Roman Catholics\u2019 worship of the Virgin Mary<\/a>, mother of Jesus. Catholics\u2019 devotion to Mary elevated the status of women from source of evil to maiden of purity. Before long, worship of Mary evolved into worship of virginity itself, which placed women\u2019s value almost exclusively on the status of this socially constructed concept.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If women embrace their sexuality by desiring sex or having multiple partners, they\u2019re shameful<\/strong>. (Shortform note: This treatment of women is notably different from that of men, who are often praised, rather than shamed, for the same behavior. Research suggests that there are both evolutionary and socio-cultural reasons for the development of this double standard<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being desired and being loved are mutually exclusive\u2014if women are sexually desirable, they\u2019re automatically unlovable. <\/strong>(Shortform note: One way in which culture communicates this messaging is through the concept of \u201cmarriage material\u201d\u2014in other words, a woman must behave according to certain standards to prove she’s worthy of being a wife.<\/a> For example, relationship gurus often advise women to wait to have sex with a man until at least the third date to gain her partner\u2019s respect.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nagoski argues that this messaging teaches women that their sexuality is something awful to repress<\/strong>. And repressing a part of who you are<\/a> is damaging not only to your sexual experience but also to your overall well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: One major aspect of repressing a part of yourself<\/a> is repressing your emotions. Research shows that there are physical, psychological, and social consequences of emotional repression<\/a>. These include a lowered immune system, chronic pain, lack of motivation and sleep, disordered eating, anxiety and depression<\/a>, substance abuse, and a reduced ability to ask for help and connect with others<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Women Are Abnormal<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In addition to these harmful moral ideals, Nagoski tells us that women receive medical messaging that disregards their sexual experience. In particular, they\u2019re told that sex is for reproduction\u2014not pleasure\u2014and any sexual functioning that differs from men, such as her level of desire, is problematic<\/strong>. More specifically, the medical field warns women that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They should strongly consider functional elements of sex such as the risk of disease and unwanted pregnancy before having it<\/strong>, above any thoughts of pleasure or enjoyment. <\/strong>(Shortform note: Messaging painting sex as a high-risk, functional-only activity often starts in sex education programs. According to an article published by the Center for American Progress, many states require that programs stress abstinence<\/a>, and when issues of sex are discussed, they focus on pregnancy and STI prevention. What\u2019s more, few states cover topics addressing relational aspects of sex, such as consent and healthy relationships<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they do engage in sex, there\u2019s a medically correct way for it to happen, namely desire, then arousal, and then orgasm with their partner.<\/strong> If women\u2019s sexual experience differs in any way from this, they must be medically treated. <\/strong>(Shortform note: Fortunately, it seems as if these ideas may be changing. For example, the Mayo Clinic explicitly states that sexual dysfunction is only a problem if you feel it\u2019s negatively affecting you and your relationship<\/a>. They also suggest non-medical treatment to deal with sexual issues within your relationship, like talking with your partner, using lubricant and sex toys, and practicing mood-boosting healthy lifestyle habits.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Women Are Lacking<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nagoski says that a third type of messaging, which has become especially prevalent since the mid-20th century, comes from the media<\/strong>, and it specifically targets women\u2019s sexual confidence<\/strong>. Daily traditional and social media tells women:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re boring and prudish if they\u2019re not sexually explorative<\/strong> (for instance, willing to use sex toys or try a variety of different positions). (Shortform note: These expectations aren\u2019t necessarily limited to women. For example, there\u2019s an overall<\/em> cultural stigma against \u201cvanilla sex,\u201d which is a term we use to refer to boring and conventional sex. Although it was originally intended to refer only to sex practices outside of BDSM and the mainstream media<\/a>, it now acts as a label used to shame those who are less sexually adventurous.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Their bodies aren\u2019t good enough, and if they don\u2019t try to change, they\u2019re lazy and full of themselves.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nagoski believes that on their own, these messages set impossibly high standards for women, making them unlikely to ever feel adequate in terms of their sexuality<\/strong>. (Shortform note: What\u2019s more, in combination with the other core messages, these ideals create contradictions that obscure what\u2019s right in the eyes of society\u2014should women rein in their sexuality to become purer or be wildly adventurous to avoid others labeling<\/a> them as dull?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Effects of Cultural Context<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Nagoski says the negative feelings caused by cultural context can have long-term, damaging effects on women\u2019s sexuality and overall well-being<\/strong>. She focuses on two of these interrelated effects in particular: self-criticism and sexual disgust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Self-Criticism<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

The first negative effect of cultural context that Nagoski identifies is self-criticism, which usually takes the form of criticism toward the body. Research shows that there\u2019s a direct connection between this type of self-criticism and harm to a woman\u2019s sexual well-being<\/strong>. This is because self-criticism creates stress, which as we know, inhibits sexual response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: While research suggests that women are more severely impacted by negative body image<\/a>, men are far from immune. One study, for example, found that over 90% of men struggle with body dissatisfaction<\/a>. What\u2019s more, men may face different effects than women. Specifically, research shows they\u2019re more prone to substance abuse and atypical eating disorders and also seek treatment for body image issues less frequently than women.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unfortunately, despite the harm caused by self-criticism, Nagoski argues that it\u2019s difficult for women to abandon because our culture encourages it<\/strong>. She says that two ways in which this is accomplished are by distorting self-criticism into something positive and convincing women that fat is something to avoid at all costs. Let\u2019s look at each in detail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sexual Disgust<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Nagoski tells us that another negative effect of cultural context is sexual disgust. To define what this is and why it\u2019s harmful, we must first understand general disgust and why we experience it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In basic terms, disgust is a withdrawal response we have toward things that we consider gross<\/strong>. What each of us perceives as gross isn\u2019t innate but learned through experience. Nagoski explains that according to one theory, disgust developed as an evolutionary strategy to avoid dangerous contaminants, such as vomit: When we encounter a contaminant, we experience an immediate reaction that draws us away. Over time, humans have learned to generalize this withdrawal response to conceptual contaminants as well, meaning that we\u2019re disgusted by not only the sight of vomit but also the mere thought of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Although Nagoski\u2019s discussion of disgust centers on one single theory, in reality, experts have proposed many theories to explain our inherent withdrawal response<\/a>. Some of the alternatives include the taste-toxicity theory, which frames disgust as protection against ingesting unhealthy substances, the animal-heritage theory, which explains disgust as humans\u2019 natural withdrawal from things that remind us of our animal origins, and the death theory, which links disgust to a fear of death<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So if disgust is the experience of withdrawing from things we\u2019ve learned to find repulsive, sexual disgust is the same experience but specifically in response to sex-related stimuli<\/strong>. How do we come to find such things revolting? Nagoski claims that our culture\u2014heavily influenced by Judeo-Christian traditions\u2014has taught us to feel disgusted by many natural aspects of sex (for example, the sound of a queef, which is a release of air from the vagina). (Shortform note: Here, Nagoski presents disgust as a negative reaction that disrupts our sexual enjoyment. However, in other cases, our sexual disgust response becomes incredibly important. For example, we\u2019re largely repulsed by things such as incest, rape, and pedophilia<\/a>, which are destructive sexual behaviors.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s more, Nagoski adds, research shows that women are more sensitive to learned disgust than men<\/strong>, especially in terms of sex-related triggers. And depending on the woman, it can take as little as one instance of a negatively portrayed sex-related stimulus for her brain to classify it as disgusting. (Shortform note: While it\u2019s true that women are more sensitive to learned disgust, research has yet to provide a conclusive answer for why this is the case\u2014though there are some theories. One potential explanation is that women are better able to reproduce when they avoid things that could infect them or their children with disease<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to Nagoski, the reason sexual disgust harms our sexual experience is that, much like stress, disgust also inhibits sexual response<\/strong>. Therefore, the more aspects of sex that repulse us, the lower our desire. (Shortform note: Though Nagoski points out the negative impact that disgust can have on sexual response, she doesn\u2019t speak to its potential to negatively affect our relationship if our partner doesn\u2019t share the same disgust triggers. For example, if you\u2019re repulsed by anal sex but your partner isn\u2019t, you may feel confused or even disgusted by your partner for taking an interest in something you find revolting.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Strategies to Combat the Negative Effects of Cultural Context<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Nagoski says that there are three strategies we can use to combat self-criticism and sexual disgust\u2019s impact on our sexual experience and overall well-being:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Strategy #1: Practice Self-Compassion<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Self-compassion<\/a> is the unconditional love we have for ourselves<\/strong>. Citing research by self-compassion researcher Kristin Neff, Nagoski tells us it has three components: treating ourselves with kindness, viewing our suffering as a point of connection with others, and being nonjudgmental about what\u2019s happening in the present moment. Nagoski also clarifies that, despite the stigma self-compassion carries in society, it isn\u2019t<\/em> about self-esteem or self-indulgence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: In addition to the cultural misconceptions about self-compassion that Nagoski mentions, Kristin Neff identifies several other myths that prevent us from fully embracing the practice<\/a>, including the ideas that self-compassion is<\/a> selfish, a kind of self-pity, a sign of weakness, and a practice that makes us complacent about self-improvement. In reality, practicing self-kindness, connection, and nonjudgmental thinking makes us more motivated, capable of loving others, able to cope with life\u2019s difficulties, and positive about negative experiences.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By being kind to ourselves and foregoing judgment, we can not only counter our culturally-ingrained self-criticism but also begin to build awareness<\/a> of, and resistance to, our sexual disgust triggers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Another reason why self-compassion is beneficial is that it makes us more caring and supportive of our partner<\/a>. Research shows that when we\u2019re self-critical, we\u2019re more detached, aggressive, and controlling in our relationship with our partner. In contrast, when we treat ourselves with compassion, we\u2019re more gentle, accepting, and supportive of our partner\u2019s autonomy.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Strategy #2: Confront Cognitive Dissonance<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: While Nagoski suggests that we confront cognitive dissonance, she doesn\u2019t explain what it actually is and how it manifests in terms of cultural context. Cognitive dissonance is when we have inconsistent thoughts or beliefs. One of the ways in which this manifests itself is our tendency to judge ourselves by harsher standards than we would other people<\/strong>. In particular, we readily judge our bodies with criticisms\u2014criticisms passed to us by cultural context\u2014that would never cross our minds when thinking of others.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To combat cognitive dissonance, Nagoski suggests a daily practice of examining your naked body in the mirror and listing everything you like. When self-critical thoughts arise, let them go by reconnecting with your younger, non-judgmental self. In other words, remember the perspective you had of your body before society taught you to internalize self-criticism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By doing this every day, Nagoski assures you that you can gradually unlearn the cultural tendency of self-judgment, as well as the self-disgust your body may trigger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Strategy #3: Ignore Negative Media<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

According to Nagoski, exposing ourselves to media that reinforces self-criticism harms our self-esteem and encourages self-criticism.<\/strong> She suggests that the solution to these issues is to stop consuming media that makes us feel bad about ourselves and instead fill our feeds with media that makes us feel comfortable with who we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Although Nagoski\u2019s recommendation to ignore negative media can be an effective self-esteem booster, research shows that women who fill their feeds with body-positive images still end up objectifying themselves<\/a>. In other words, they focus their attention more heavily on their appearance than other qualities. One solution to this problem could be to fill your feed with non-body-related content, such as content about your favorite hobbies.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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