{"id":55083,"date":"2021-11-21T07:25:35","date_gmt":"2021-11-21T11:25:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=55083"},"modified":"2021-12-02T19:32:09","modified_gmt":"2021-12-02T23:32:09","slug":"skills-to-acquire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/skills-to-acquire\/","title":{"rendered":"The 3 Most Important Skills for Life to Acquire"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What are the three <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/benefits-of-public-speaking\/\">most important skills<\/a> to acquire if you aim to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-get-a-small-business-started\/\">start your own business<\/a>? How does Hollis&#8217;s advice match up to the advice from other experts in the field?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In her book <em>Girl, Stop Apologizing<\/em>, Rachel Hollis says that some of the most important skills you should practice are persistence, positivity, and leadership. Those three skills will help you develop your goals, stick with them even when times get tough, and lead your team when it starts to grow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Continue reading to learn more about the three skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Skill 1: Persistence<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The first skill to acquire, according to <em>Girl, Stop Apologizing <\/em>author Rachel Hollis, is persistence. Hollis states in her book (and in several interviews) that <strong>nothing significant in her life came quickly<\/strong>. She stresses the<strong> importance of sticking to your plan and riding out challenges<\/strong>. She contends that the skill of <strong>persistence is vital to success<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hollis notes that several of her goals took her five or more years to accomplish, demonstrating how her skill of persistence paid off. For example, Hollis had a lifelong dream of being on <em>The New York Times<\/em> bestseller list; her first five books didn\u2019t land there, but her sixth book did. Had she given up, she wouldn\u2019t have accomplished that dream.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To build persistence, Hollis says you need a total mindset shift. <strong>For every goal you have, prepare for the long haul, expect rejection, and avoid the trap of comparison.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Angela Duckworth, author of <em>Grit<\/em>, analyzes in-depth the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-importance-of-perseverance\/\">importance of perseverance<\/a> (persistence) in the face of adversity. In her research, she found that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/app\/book\/grit\/part-1-1\">grit was a greater indicator of future success than IQ<\/a>. Duckworth defines grit as a combination of persistence and passion, so it stands to reason that having a strong \u201cwhy,\u201d or purpose you feel passionate about, and the willingness to fight for it is your best bet at achieving any dream.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">When You Lose Steam, Return to Your Why&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition to facing outside challenges, sometimes we need persistence because we have lost motivation. Hollis contends that <strong>it isn\u2019t enough to know <\/strong><strong><em>what<\/em><\/strong><strong> your dream is. You need to have a strong <\/strong><strong><em>why, <\/em><\/strong><strong>or reason for pursuing it. <\/strong>Return to this why when you find yourself lacking motivation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Hollis, if you have started and stopped this dream several times before, it\u2019s because your why wasn\u2019t strong enough. For example, do you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/do-you-want-to-be-rich\/\">want to be rich<\/a> so that you can buy a fancy car? Or is it because you want to quit a job that is negatively affecting your quality of life? <strong>What is the real, true, deep reason for wanting what you want?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Could you be losing steam because your goals are <em>too <\/em>attainable? Author Grant Cardone addresses this in <em>The 10X Rule<\/em>, in which he theorizes that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-10x-rule\/chapter-9\">when our goals aren\u2019t lofty enough, we lack the motivation to chase after them<\/a>. For a goal to be inspiring, it must have a strong why and also be a challenge. If a goal is easy, you either would have done it already or you don\u2019t have a strong inner reason to do it.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"block-fca7e243-9e4b-4c60-bfdd-4e112263ee54\"><strong>Skill 2: Positivity<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-fffdbcb0-28e6-4b36-81d6-bb3e8dc5b2c0\">Hollis argues that by choosing positivity every day, <strong>you will recognize the abundance of opportunities and blessings at your feet. As a result, you will have greater success in any goal you aspire to accomplish. <\/strong>She believes that having a positive attitude is a choice that can be developed, and therefore it is a skill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-87a16bd8-2b5b-4bc7-9a98-36c4f039303b\">Hollis acknowledges that we can\u2019t control the hardships that come our way. However, she notes that we can control how we respond to these obstacles, disappointments, and catastrophes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-b4604830-2f64-47ec-9831-f08b003d139a\">One way that Hollis believes <strong>you can practice positivity is to control your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/inner-dialogue\/\">inner dialogue<\/a><\/strong>. Your running mental dialogue is the soundtrack to your life. She believes <strong>if you criticize or pity yourself<\/strong>, even if it\u2019s just in your thoughts,<strong> these feelings manifest as a negative attitude.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-83ac857b-a87a-4dc0-9c57-c03f91aba35a\"><strong>When you feel the negative inner dialogue creeping in, Hollis advises you to redirect the conversation in the same way that you could shift a conversation happening out loud<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-c77414c6-a420-4118-88d1-f3527a13e910\">For example, imagine you\u2019re late for work again. You might chastise yourself internally with thoughts like, \u201cYou\u2019re always late! Why can\u2019t you be on time? What is wrong with you? You\u2019re lazy and unreliable!\u201d But would you ever say this out loud to somebody or allow someone else to talk to you like that? What if a colleague were speaking about another person in such a way and you were bearing witness? Could you step in and redirect the conversation? You certainly could and probably would. So when you find yourself thinking in such a way, imagine how you would respond in that situation and do the same thing inside your mind.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Toxic Positivity: When Is It Okay to Have Negative Vibes?<\/strong><br><br>While the benefits of positivity have been well-documented, it can be taken too far.<br>Since the time this book was published in 2019, the topic of toxic positivity has garnered attention. Toxic positivity is the belief that we should <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-feel-positive-emotions\/\">feel positive emotions<\/a> all of the time, regardless of the circumstance. Rachel Hollis has faced criticism for encouraging positivity to a level that many people find unhealthy.&nbsp;<br><br>How do you know when positivity is healthy or toxic?<br><br>Numerous studies show that people who have a positive outlook enjoy longer lifespans, less illness, and healthier relationships. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/healthy-lifestyle\/stress-management\/in-depth\/positive-thinking\/art-20043950\"><strong>As Mayo Clinic points out, however, there\u2019s a difference between approaching situations with a solutions-mindset and ignoring life\u2019s problems altogether.<\/strong><\/a>This is when positivity is actually false and toxic.<br><br>The dangers of extreme optimism include:<br><br>-Minimizing other people\u2019s valid emotions when they\u2019re going through a difficult time by encouraging them to \u201clook on the bright side\u201d or count their blessings<br>-Suppressing your own negative emotions which can lead to unresolved trauma&nbsp;<br>-Damage to healthy communication within your relationships for fear of judgment for being negative<br>-Feelings of guilt or shame for feeling negative; you might feel as if you don\u2019t appreciate what you do have.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Skill 3: Leadership<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The final skill that Hollis advocates developing is leadership. She notes that you don\u2019t need to have subordinates or followers to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/be-a-leader\/\">be a leader<\/a>. Rather, <strong>leaders are examples to others of courage and integrity<\/strong>. They\u2019re true to themselves and encourage others to live their truth as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Bren\u00e9 Brown, author of <em>Daring Greatly, <\/em>says that a leader <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/app\/book\/daring-greatly\/chapter-6\">is anyone who sees potential<\/a> in others and is willing to help them actualize that potential.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hollis points out that part of being an effective leader is being inclusive. She encourages you to keep this in mind as you go through life and make sure that your table is diverse. Hollis specifically mentions including diversity of race, ethnicity, religion, age, size, and physical capability. She encourages you to strive for diversity not just from a professional perspective, but in your social and personal life as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: One study shows that <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0146167217722556\">we are naturally attracted to friends who look like us<\/a>, so it will likely take intentional effort to diversify the people in your life. Rather than \u201csearch\u201d for people who don\u2019t look like you (which has implications that are uncomfortable at best), you might try recognizing this <a href=\"http:\/\/aris.ss.uci.edu\/~lin\/52.pdf\">homophily<\/a> bias, and the next time you meet somebody who could be a friend or professional acquaintance, avoid dismissing them subconsciously. For example, if you want to go for after-work drinks, it might not be your first instinct to invite a colleague who is twice your age. Give it a shot.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are the three most important skills to acquire if you aim to start your own business? How does Hollis&#8217;s advice match up to the advice from other experts in the field? In her book Girl, Stop Apologizing, Rachel Hollis says that some of the most important skills you should practice are persistence, positivity, and leadership. Those three skills will help you develop your goals, stick with them even when times get tough, and lead your team when it starts to grow. 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