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Instead of feeling criticized, think of feedback as an opportunity to learn and adjust accordingly.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this article, you\u2019ll learn about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/3-types-of-feedback\/\">different types of feedback<\/a>, why we aren\u2019t always great at responding to it, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-respond-to-feedback-2\/\">how to respond to feedback<\/a> better, and how to use it to achieve your goals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Two Types of <strong>Feedback: Positive and Negative<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two main <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/effective-feedback-in-the-workplace\/\">types of feedback<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Positive. <\/strong>Positive feedback is the kind we like and prefer\u2014it shows us we\u2019re on the right track. Examples include praise from a boss or feelings of happiness and satisfaction when we do something we like.<\/li><li><strong>Negative. <\/strong>Most people don\u2019t like negative feedback because it means we have to change or do something differently. Some examples of negative feedback include not getting a promotion and feelings of despair or loneliness.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Reactions to Negative Feedback<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Though negative feedback can be upsetting, reacting to it in a positive way can help you grow and achieve your goals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is how <em>not <\/em>to respond to feedback that is negative:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. <strong>Getting upset at the source. <\/strong>When you receive feedback you dislike, your tendency may be to attack the person who gave it to you. For example, if your coworker reminds you to be on time for the next team meeting, you may respond by angrily telling them it\u2019s not a big deal. As a result, they\u2019ll be less likely to give you feedback that could be helpful in the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. <strong>Ignoring it. <\/strong>When people give you negative feedback, you may choose to ignore it, even if it means that you risk failing. For some people, it may be because they value their own opinion over everyone else\u2019s, or they\u2019re convinced they\u2019re doing the right thing. However, listening to what others say instead of ignoring it could improve their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. <strong>Giving up. <\/strong>When some people receive feedback, they give up on what they\u2019re doing, rather than adjusting and doing something different.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to <strong>Ask for Feedback<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>People are often reluctant to give feedback because they don\u2019t want you to react in one of the negative ways listed previously. To benefit from feedback, learn to ask for it and accept it graciously. Though you may be afraid of what you\u2019ll hear, the benefits outweigh the downsides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask these two questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>In what ways do you see me holding myself back? <\/strong>When you ask this question of people who know you well, it can illuminate specific habits or behaviors that when corrected will help you achieve more.<\/li><li><strong>On a scale of one to 10, how would you rate (BLANK)? <\/strong>This question can be used in any number of personal or professional situations. For example, you might ask your partner, \u201cOn a scale of one to 10, how would you rate our relationship in the past week?\u201d If the person replies with an answer of less than 10, ask, \u201cWhat would make it a 10?\u201d Often, the person can suggest specific things you can do to improve. Canfield asks this question weekly of his wife and coworkers.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When you get feedback, look for patterns. If you\u2019re hearing the same thing from multiple people, chances are it\u2019s true. Work to respond to the feedback constructively rather than choosing one of the three negative responses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What to Do When You Fail<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If all of the feedback points to the fact that you\u2019ve failed in some way, follow these steps to grow from it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Thank the feedback givers. <\/strong>Be kind to those who give you feedback. It helps put the feedback giver at ease and helps them feel safe in giving you feedback in the future. If someone gives you angry feedback, consider the most useful parts and don\u2019t take their anger personally.<\/li><li><strong>Resolve lingering issues. <\/strong>Apologize and send any other communications necessary to resolve upsets. 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That helps put this instance in perspective so you can learn from it and move forward.<\/li><li><strong>Surround yourself with supportive people. <\/strong>These could be colleagues, friends, or family who can remind you of your worth and dignity.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Adjust your plans, as needed. <\/strong>Use the feedback to plan how you\u2019ll adjust your goals or practices. Then, do it.<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do you do when someone gives you feedback? Do you want to know how to respond to feedback? Feedback is a useful tool to achieve your goals because it can tell you when you\u2019re getting off track and need to correct your course. 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